Aura is our most straightforward way of expressing it to the outside world, and there are not many people who dare to step forward to offend people with strong aura.
There is a scene in the TV series "The Legend of Chu Qiao", Xing'er wants to guess a word puzzle, a man next to him was attracted by Xing'er's appearance and gave her the sugar gourd in his hand, Yu Wenyue grabbed it and threw it on the ground, the man was very angry, but Yu Wenyue didn't spit out half a word, and scared the other party away with just his eyes.
The real masters are all good at using their eyes, making good use of their aura, and suppressing each other with an invisible pressure.
In life, if you want less trouble, less malice and bullying that you are inexplicably bullied, you must have a strong aura and make others feel that you are not easy to mess with.
So what can be done to make people feel bad, these methods might as well try.
The heart is firm and the expression is calm
Inner suggestion is a very powerful force, for example, you are eager for the success of a thing, and you are always thinking about how to do it in your heart, and you are likely to be able to do it well and achieve your wish.
For example, in the face of a powerful person, you imply to yourself in your heart that he is nothing great, and the more times you have done it, the momentum you show is really not as scared as before.
In a nutshell, you must be firm, brave and fearless in your heart.
There is no need to despise or despise anything, as long as you are firm in your heart and calm in your expression, your aura will already be different.
A person who can be honored and not frightened, a person who can hide his emotions, others will not be able to touch him and control him.
will not provoke him easily.
Because his body has always exuded an aura that is not easy to mess with.
Speak sonorously, speak concisely, and shut up at the right time
Don't die of talking too much.
If you talk too much, you will lose, and the more you say, the more wrong you will be, and what you say is the disadvantage of talking too much.
Moreover, people who talk a lot are more likely to expose their shortcomings, because if they talk a lot, it means that their subjective opinions are not strong, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and they are talking nonsense, indicating that their IQ is limited.
Language is a medium for a person to communicate with the outside world, and the way of language expression, the speed and tone of speech are also part of an aura.
Speaking sonorously and powerfully, pronouncing words clearly and concisely, and being clearly organized, such a person is not dared to be underestimated by others.
One of the conditions for being a lecturer is to speak sonorously and powerfully.
Just imagine, if a person speaks softly and weakly, will others think that he is not easy to mess with, definitely not.
Therefore, if you want to become difficult to mess with, you must talk less nonsense, know how to shut up, and speak sonorously and concisely.
Always able to fight back skillfully with words
Human nature is dark.
In real life, there are many people who like to hurt people with their mouths, for example, insinuating when chatting and taking the opportunity to mock.
If you don't have the means to skillfully fight back against this phenomenon, you will be disgusted and malicious by people an infinite number of times.
When you are strong, others will be weak.
Therefore, in the face of insinuations and ridicule, those who can skillfully fight back with words will not dare to be provoked by others.
Because he has suffered losses, he knows that he is powerful and unforgiving.
The bottom line is high, and it is not easy to lose
Some losses are blessings, but some losses will only hurt the body.
Therefore, not all losses can be eaten.
A person with a high bottom line and does not suffer easily can be in an upper hand position in interpersonal relationships.
Because, his bottom line is his temper and strength.
Please believe that when people deceive each other, they are all bullying the weak.
Therefore, if you are more likely to be malicious, disgusted, and bullied, it must be that your bottom line is too low, and you have suffered too much loss, which makes people feel good to bully.
Remember, if you want to not suffer losses in relationships, you must learn to make yourself difficult to mess with, pull up the bottom line, and suffer less.