Why is it so difficult to support the elderly? Is it the unfilial piety of the children or the helplessness of reality?

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"Why is it so hard to support the elderly?" This question actually speaks to many people's hearts. At our age, life is not easy, and we have to face the pressure of supporting the elderly, which is really overwhelming. Today, I will talk to you about this topic from the perspective of emotional lovers

The following are the real experiences shared by netizens, which may bring us some inspiration and insights

‬然而问题就是你现在的想法是在你认为自己清醒的情况下得出的，等老糊涂了之后，你还能记得自己清醒时的想法吗？

‬有可能是人已经糊涂了，自己都不知道自己说了些啥

‬先让两个犟种互相盘一遍

‬小孩最多5岁就可以自理了，自己吃饭穿衣上厕所。 And the old man, I can't tell how many years. If you want to feed and bathe your child for 20 years, how many people are estimated to not give birth directly

‬哎呀妈呀，形容得太对了。 Many old people are old, their brains are not clear, they don't distinguish between good and bad, and they eat inside and out, which is comparable to rat droppings

‬他知道是浪费钱，他只是想看看你愿不愿意他浪费

‬说句不中听的话，不健康的长寿对社会是灾难

‬人老了这样走真的是幸福的好事，老人幸福孩子也幸福

‬到了这种程度、就是抢夺生存权。 The more emotional investment is in place, the higher the probability of success for the weaker side. The world is an energy field, either consuming others or being consumed, whether it is a material level or a spiritual level. The threshold of profit grabbing depends on who is more selfish, and selfish people are easy to live longer

‬我做梦都不敢有这么多钱

‬好惨。 Your family is willing to contribute, and the previous generation is too hard to oppress the next generation

‬是这样的，不是亲身经历写不出这样的文字

‬差太多了，孩子那是奶味，老人那味……

‬很赞同了，明事理的谁不想养，搅家精谁乐意接触啊，但是因为是老人，还不得不接触

‬把你折磨出一身病，你嘎了她还生龙活虎的呢

‬久病床前无孝子，古人也是知道这个道理的。

‬有些老人就是这样，他们对吃穿要求确实不高，所以总觉得自己没给儿女添麻烦； But in fact, they have very high requirements for the care of their children, which requires them to pay a lot of time and energy to meet, and these are converted into nannies and caregivers The cost is actually very high. However, they believe that this part of the labor should be provided by their children free of charge, and that it is unfilial piety not to provide it

‬能自理就好，失能或失智没有生活质量了估计自己也不想活这么长

Caring for the elderly is indeed a complex and challenging issue, but as long as we face it with our hearts and actively seek solutions, we will definitely be able to find our own answers. Let's work together to create a happy and healthy old age for our parents! Welcome to like the comment area and leave a message to share your views and experiences