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I knew that my ancestors were not for that little raisin, but Xinjiang was full of Di Lieba and Guli Nazha, and the beauties were like clouds, which made people pleasing to the eye.
But why are these beautiful flowers so rarely willing to be transplanted into the soil of the mainland?
It's like a beauty salon in nature! The dry climate and abundant sunshine make the girls here fair-skinned and smooth, like the finest mutton fat jade.
You have to know that the temperature difference between day and night is so large that you can feel the thrill of the four seasons.
Eating sweet and juicy grapes, cantaloupe, and drinking pure natural yogurt, it is difficult for the skin to not be hydrated! As everyone often says, walking three steps to meet a "Di Lieba", walking five steps and meeting a "Guli Nazha", this kind of experience is really not available anywhere else.
Let's talk about history, think about the prosperity on the ancient Silk Road, not only for the exchange of goods, but also for the integration of culture and blood.
Eastern and Western cultures collide here, and people of different nationalities meet and love each other here, and have children. So the high nose bridge, big eyes, and three-dimensional facial features took root here. There is an indescribable exotic style between the eyebrows and eyes of those girls, and they do not lose the charm of our China.
There, the importance of family can be compared to breathing, and girls are all representatives of "squatting at home", they are used to spending time with their families, and the relationship is as close as a bunch of grapes. If you want to leave your hometown and go to the mainland, it is like picking a grape from a bunch, and it is strange that it is not sour!
When it comes to food, it is mouth-watering, this style is unique in the whole country, eating meat is eaten in large pieces, and the light diet in the mainland is simply "pediatric" in their opinion.
It is difficult to get them used to a light vegetable salad. Once you get used to this unique flavor, it's not easy to change it.
Although most speak Mandarin, they prefer to communicate in their own language at home. Imagine that at a gathering of friends in the mainland, if a Uyghur phrase suddenly comes up, others will probably look confused.
They are warm and welcoming, but the style of hospitality is very different from that of the mainland. Can you imagine the awkward scene when everyone is gossiping with friends while they express their feelings in sign language?
Uyghurs and other ethnic minorities generally believe in Islam, which is more of a way of life. Daily prayers, dietary taboos, and etiquette are all soaked in the shadow of religion.
To let these girls marry an unbelieving mainlander is simply to let the fish out of the water, let alone live, and they have to fight just ideologically.
Two people with different beliefs hit walls everywhere in life, and this kind of challenge is not something that ordinary people can handle. Quarreling every day over whether the piece of meat on the table can be eaten or not, can you still live this life?
The opinion of the parents is the most important thing, and they want their daughter to marry a man who understands their own culture and customs, so that the married life can be harmonious.
If you have to marry a foreigner, you will be like a beast in your eyes. With the advancement of modernization in the mainland, the concept of individual independence is becoming stronger and stronger, and marriage pays more attention to personal choice.
But for them, this collision of ideas is undoubtedly a big problem. Two completely different ideas, like oil and water, simply don't come together.
Xinjiang is not a place to go, it is far away from the cities in the mainland, like clouds on the horizon. If you want to get from Beijing to Urumqi, it will take hours to fly alone.
This is not counting the price, the wallet is deflated, and the heart is cold for most of the time. To fall in love, you have to cross thousands of kilometers, what a lot of perseverance!
A long-distance relationship is already difficult enough, coupled with such a distance from the south to the north, not only to test the relationship, but also to fight whose trust and patience are stronger. Who can withstand this toss?
Let's talk about visiting relatives, marrying far away means not seeing each other a few times a year, which is a stab in the face for them. Don't talk about them, even if they are hard-hearted, they have to beat the drum in their hearts.
Girls in Xinjiang are also paying more and more attention to their own wishes and happiness in their marriage choices. They don't want to be just an accessory, they want to maintain their independence and dignity in it.
When choosing a partner, it is more important to pay attention to whether the other person can understand and respect their cultural background, and whether they can give enough support and space.
They are unwilling to give up their dreams and pursuits, hoping that in marriage, they will not only be a wife, but also an independent individual, pursuing their own career and life.
When it comes to traveling, it's hot, where is it not exciting?
At the foot of the Tianshan Mountains, breathing in the fresh air and looking at the blue sky and white clouds reflected by the snow-capped mountains, the feeling is simply the best interpretation of the four big characters of relaxation and happiness. In addition, Nakanas Lake, the crystal clear water, reflecting the green mountains and green trees on both sides, is the palette of nature.
Eating barbecue, dancing, drinking milk tea, chatting, so who can not be infected by the enthusiasm of Xinjiang? Gradually, tourists begin to understand and respect the local culture and customs, and understand why they love their land so much and are so attached to their traditions.
Scenic tickets, special food, and souvenir sales have all driven local income. More importantly, tourism has allowed more Xinjiang people to go out of their homes and engage in deeper exchanges with mainland people.
Those distant lives that may have previously only been seen on TV are now more intuitive through contact with tourists. This kind of face-to-face communication has gradually narrowed the cultural differences and increased mutual understanding.
epilogue
We should respect each individual's choices and understand the unique charm of each culture. In a multicultural society, we work together to build a harmonious and inclusive environment.
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, no matter where they come from.
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