I would say that 35 women who are not married actually have many hidden sparkles. After years of hard work in the workplace, we have accumulated a certain amount of economy. We are no longer as shy as we were when we first came out of society, we can rely on our own efforts to meet our material needs and pursue the quality of life we want.
In terms of personality, we are also more mature and stable. Through the ups and downs of life, we learn to be strong and independent. In the face of difficulties and setbacks, no longer panic, but able to think calmly and deal with them calmly. We know how to control our emotions and are not easily swayed by external factors.
At the same time, we are also more comfortable in handling interpersonal relationships. The years have taught us to empathize and understand the positions and feelings of others. We are able to maintain the right distance in our dealings with people, neither too close nor too distant. This sense of proportion is something that young girls need to slowly grasp as they grow up.
However, in reality, societal prejudice against us as a group remains. In the blind date market, we are often picky, as if after the age of 35, we have lost the right to choose. In the workplace, there are also people who think that we are unmarried and have no children, which may affect the stability of our jobs.
But are these biases really justified? In fact, we choose to be unmarried, not because we are not good enough or no one loves us, but because we have a higher pursuit of life and a purer expectation of love.
We don't want to settle, we don't want to get married for the sake of getting married. We hope to find someone who truly understands us and loves us, and walks through the future hand in hand. We pay more attention to our inner feelings and hope to achieve spiritual harmony in marriage.
And we are equally passionate and motivated in our work. We have the experience and expertise to create value for the company. Our unmarried status does not mean that we cannot devote ourselves to work, on the contrary, we cherish the opportunity to work more and hope to realize the value of our life through our careers.
I believe that every 35-year-old unmarried woman has her own unique story and charm. We should not be bound by the prejudices of the outside world, but should be brave enough to be ourselves and pursue our dreams. Age is just a number, it doesn't define our lives. As long as we maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and constantly improve ourselves, we will be able to usher in a bright future of our own, whether in love or career.