If it weren't for Zhuang Guodong spending 300 yuan to order three dishes, Fang Xiewen would never know the truth that Huang Yimei would rather go out of the house than divorce him
After Fang Xiewen and Huang Yimei received their marriage certificates, they thought that they had completely won Zhuang Guodong, so they took the initiative to call and invite each other to dinner.
Fang Xiewen specially took a piece of candy and gave it to Zhuang Guodong,
When the two officially clashed, Zhuang Guodong was wearing a suit and leather shoes, and Fang Xiewen was wearing regular clothes, obviously the economy was not equal.
In the face of Fang Xiewen's active provocation, Zhuang Guodong directly called the waiter to order a few dishes, and asked rhetorically:
Of course, Fang Xiewen didn't know, because with his economic level, he couldn't take Rose to a high-end restaurant to eat.
Zhuang Guodong grasped Fang Xiewen's weakness and talked about his love experience with Rose: "When we are together, no matter where we go, we will try local specialties.
Roadside stalls also eat, star-rated hotels also eat.
Huang Yimei has eaten and seen, knows what is good, and can accept the bad because she is inclusive. ”
In contrast, Fang Xiewen and Rose have been in love for 5 years, but they don't know her tastes, which is a disadvantage.
Fang Xieming obviously came to show his sovereignty, but in the end, he looked like a clown and lost completely.
Why is the scene of Zhuang Guodong spending 300 yuan to order food hides the truth about Fang Xiewen and Rose's divorce?
Liao Yimei wrote in "Softness": "It is not uncommon for people to encounter love and sex in this life, but it is rare to encounter understanding." ”
When Fang Xiewen pursued roses, although he was obedient, he did not understand the inner world of roses.
A person who doesn't understand you, how can you understand?
Fang Xiewen and Rose have been in love for 5 years, but they didn't pay attention to the taste of roses, so they lost in front of Zhuang Guodong.
Obviously, this is just a trivial matter, Fang Xiewen and Rose have become husband and wife, and they can confess to Rose.
First, Fang Xiewen wanted to test whether Rose really liked these dishes and verify the truth of Zhuang Guodong's words.
Second, Fang Xiewen's behavior of borrowing flowers to offer Buddha seemed selfish and cowardly, and he even felt that Rose looked down on him.
From these two points, it can be seen that Fang Xiewen does not understand the inner world of roses, and doubts Rose's love while drilling the horns of the bull himself.
There is a good saying:
Fang Xiewen lived with a skeptical mentality, and pushed Rose to a dead end step by step:
Rose just moved the idea of going back to Beijing, and Fang Xiewen yelled hysterically: "Why do you want to go to Beijing, who is there in Beijing?" ”
Fang Xiewen's distrust, incomprehension, and desire for control pushed Rose farther and farther.
From Fang Xiewen's investigation of Rose's whereabouts, asking Zhuang Guodong to eat without Rose, and deliberately packing dishes to test it, his marriage with Rose is destined to be difficult to last long.
Marriage is the continuation of love, and only when two people trust each other, tolerate each other, and are in step with each other, can they be happy for a long time.