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In a low-rent house in Anhui Province that rents only 80 yuan a month, 43-year-old Yang Lijuan stares alone at the yellowed poster of Andy Lau on the wall. Her eyes were both reminiscing and confused.
More than 20 years ago, she paid an unimaginable price in pursuit of the Hong Kong superstar: she lost her father, who loved her deeply, lost her warm home, and even hitched a ride on her youth and future.
Yang Lijuan's story is far more than a fanatical fan's star-chasing journey, but also an embarrassing family tragedy. What kind of obsession can make an ordinary girl go down such an extreme path? And what kind of force pushes a happy family to the brink of collapse? Let's walk into Yang Lijuan's world and uncover this heart-wrenching past.
In 1993, 16-year-old Yang Lijuan had a seemingly ordinary dream that changed her life. In the dream, she plucked up the courage to confess to her long-admired idol Andy Lau: "Do you have me in your heart?" To her surprise, Andy Lau responded with affectionate eyes: "I do have you in my heart."
This illusory dream is like a seed that takes root in Yang Lijuan's young and ignorant heart, and finally grows into a towering tree that covers her entire life.
Since then, Yang Lijuan has been convinced that there is some kind of special connection between herself and Andy Lau that transcends reality. She began to devote herself to the pursuit of Andy Lau, paying attention to his every move day after day, listening to every song he played, and collecting every poster and album he made.
Andy Lau seems to have become the whole meaning and sole focus of her life.
In 1997, with a burning passion for idols, 20-year-old Yang Lijuan persuaded her parents to take her to Hong Kong, hoping to witness the demeanor of her idols.
In order to fulfill their daughter's dream, her parents did not hesitate to exhaust their savings, and even borrowed money from everywhere to make up 9,900 yuan for the travel expenses. However, this long-awaited trip ended in disappointment, and Yang Lijuan was unable to meet Andy Lau as she had hoped.
This defeat did not dampen Yang Lijuan's enthusiasm, but seemed to strengthen her determination. In 2005, she embarked on a journey to Hong Kong with her father again, still with the persistent dream of meeting Andy Lau.
However, fate played a joke on her again, and this time it still didn't work out.
Yang Lijuan's parents didn't approve of their daughter's obsession with chasing stars at first, but out of love and understanding for their daughter, they finally chose to support it. They agreed that Yang Lijuan would give up her studies and devote herself to the career of chasing idols.
In 2003, in order to support their daughter's star-chasing behavior, they even made a difficult decision - to sell the only property in the family and move into a small apartment with a monthly rent of only 400 yuan.
In Yang Lijuan's world, chasing Andy Lau is no longer a simple hobby, but has become an existence close to faith. Her every day revolves around Andy Lau, as if life has lost all its meaning without him.
This love that borders on paranoia not only changed the trajectory of her own life, but also deeply affected everyone around her.
However, Yang Lijuan doesn't seem to realize that her star-chasing path is pushing her into a dangerous abyss. Her persistence, her dreams, and the unconditional support of her family, are brewing a storm that is coming.
2007 is a year full of hope and expectation for Yang Lijuan, who is already 29 years old. When her father borrowed 11,000 yuan again, she finally had the opportunity to participate in Andy Lau's singing party in Hong Kong.
When she stood in the bustling crowd and finally saw with her own eyes the idol she had been dreaming about for many years, the excitement and joy of that moment made her tremble all over, and tears welled up uncontrollably in her eyes.
However, this brief meeting did not fully satisfy Yang Lijuan's deepest desire. For her, looking at Andy Lau on the stage from afar, or even the opportunity to take a group photo in a hurry, is far from enough.
What she is looking forward to is to have an in-depth conversation with Andy Lau, share the bits and pieces of each other's lives, and even establish some kind of special connection. However, after the singing party, when she saw Andy Lau's back leaving in a hurry, a deep sense of loss instantly enveloped her.
This experience left complex and contradictory emotions in Yang Lijuan's heart. On the one hand, she finally realized her long-cherished wish for many years and saw her idol with her own eyes; On the other hand, this encounter was far from filling the emptiness in her heart.
She hopes that Andy Lau can really understand her and recognize what makes her different from other fans. But the reality is that in Andy Lau's eyes, she may be just one of thousands of fans.
This ambivalent psychological state, coupled with years of persistent pursuit, has made Yang Lijuan's behavior even more extreme. She began to rack her brains, trying to get Andy Lau's attention, hoping to get more opportunities to be alone with her idol.
Her behavior gradually went beyond the scope of ordinary star chasing, and became more and more worrying.
Yang Lijuan's extreme behavior quickly attracted widespread media attention. Major news outlets have reported the story of this "crazy fan", some sympathizing with her and criticizing her.
And these reports not only made Yang Lijuan the focus of public attention, but also brought great pressure to her family.
On the road of chasing stars, Yang Lijuan has gone farther and farther, and seems to have forgotten all kinds of responsibilities and ties in real life. Her parents, especially her father, have been silently supporting her, but their worries and helplessness are growing day by day.
They don't know where this seemingly hopeful path of star-chasing will eventually lead them.
Yang Lijuan's almost paranoid pursuit of Andy Lau eventually led to an irreparable tragedy. Her father, a middle-aged man who has been silently supporting his daughter's dreams, chose an extreme way to express his despair and helplessness after suffering tremendous financial and psychological pressure.
On an ordinary day, Yang Lijuan's family found a heartbreaking suicide note. In this text, which is full of intense emotions, Yang Lijuan's father blames Andy Lau in bitter and angry language.
He believes that it is Andy Lau's indifference and selfishness that has failed his daughter's sincere efforts over the years. Reading between the lines reveals a father's deep love for his daughter, as well as a sense of powerlessness in the face of reality.
He sadly said that he had given everything to support his daughter's dream, but he was never able to see his daughter's true happiness. In the end, the tormented father chose to end his life, trying to wake up his daughter in this extreme way, and perhaps fantasizing about attracting Andy Lau's attention.
This appalling tragedy was like a bombshell, which instantly caused a huge shock in society. Major media rushed to report on the incident, and all sectors of society launched a heated discussion on it.
Some people sympathize with the plight of Yang Lijuan's family and think that they are victims of star-chasing culture; Some people also harshly criticized Yang Lijuan's extreme behavior, believing that it was her selfishness and obsession that led to the tragedy.
Faced with her father's suicide, Yang Lijuan fell into great grief and self-blame. In an interview with the TV station, she couldn't stop crying and expressed deep remorse.
Shockingly, however, even in this case, she was still not fully aware of the problem with her actions. In her tearful eyes, she said a thought-provoking sentence: "If Andy Lau had known about domestic reports earlier and arranged a special time to meet us, today's tragedy would not have happened."
This sentence clearly shows that Yang Lijuan still blames Andy Lau, and may even think that her father's suicide was also indirectly caused by Andy Lau. This way of thinking shows that there is still a serious deviation in her perception of reality, and it also exposes that she has not let go of her obsession with Andy Lau deep down.
This tragedy not only completely changed the trajectory of Yang Lijuan's life, but also brought great distress to Andy Lau. As a public figure, he had to face an overwhelming barrage of doubts and accusations.
Some irrational fans even began to emulate Yang Lijuan's behavior and take extreme measures to get his attention, which seriously affected Andy Lau's life and work.
This heartbreaking story is not only a family tragedy, but also reflects many problems in the star-chasing culture. It has triggered people to think deeply about many social issues such as idol worship, fan behavior, and family relationships.
At the same time, it also warns us that in the process of chasing our dreams, we should not forget to cherish our loved ones around us, maintain rationality and restraint, and do not let momentary obsessions ruin the whole life.
In the face of this tragedy that shocked the society, Andy Lau chose to respond with practical actions. He personally arranged a meeting with Yang Lijuan in an attempt to appease the controversial fan.
Not only that, Andy Lau also helped Yang Lijuan repay a debt of more than 10,000 yuan in an anonymous way. This approach reflects both his sense of responsibility as a public figure and his importance and sympathy for the incident.
However, what is surprising is that Yang Lijuan did not show due gratitude to Andy Lau for these actions. On the contrary, she claimed that this was not an official meeting with Andy Lau and seemed to be still expecting more and more intimate contacts.
This attitude not only confuses the public, but also sparks more discussion about the boundaries of star-chasing behavior.
The occurrence of this incident has made people begin to reflect deeply on the relationship between celebrities and fans. Some believe that as public figures, celebrities should bear some responsibility for the extreme behavior of their fans; While others believe that fans should be responsible for their actions and should not blame their idols for their personal life woes.
In any case, the tragedy has had a profound impact on all involved. It not only permanently changed the trajectory of Yang Lijuan's life, but also brought a lot of impact to Andy Lau's career and life.
More importantly, it has triggered a deep thinking about star-chasing culture, and people have begun to question: what is a healthy fan culture? What kind of distance should be kept between celebrities and fans? These issues have aroused widespread discussion and reflection among the public.
Time flies, and Yang Lijuan, a once sensational "crazy fan", is now middle-aged. At the age of 43, she lives alone in a simple rental house with a monthly rent of only 80 yuan, and lives with her mother.
With a meager monthly income of 2,000 yuan, they can barely maintain their basic life. This situation is in stark and poignant contrast to the starlight dream she once chased.
Looking back, Yang Lijuan finally began to face up to her past behavior. In an interview in November 2019, when asked if she would repeat the mistakes of the past, she replied firmly: "Never make the same mistake again!" How many bitter lessons are contained in this short response, I am afraid that only she can truly understand.
Despite the difficult life, Yang Lijuan did not completely give up hope. She is trying to rebuild her life and try to move on from the gloom of the past. Perhaps this experience will eventually become a valuable lesson in her life, teaching her how to chase her dreams while not forgetting to cherish the people and things around her.
We sincerely hope that in the days to come, Yang Lijuan can find her true happiness and enjoy the beauty of life again. At the same time, her story will also become an eternal warning, reminding people to stay rational in the process of chasing their dreams, cherish family affection, and cherish life.
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