Zhang Jiani, a fresh and refined actress, was once the white moonlight in the hearts of many audiences. When her relationship with the rich second-generation Mai Chao was exposed, envious eyes came like a tide.
Their love story is like a fairy tale, and it is fascinating.
However, real-life love is more complicated than fairy tales. When two people decide to live together, they fail to foresee that the future of marriage will be full of hardships and trials.
In the envious eyes of everyone, Zhang Jiani and Mai Chao got married. Although the union seems to be perfect, many problems are exposed after marriage. In the eyes of outsiders, they are a happy couple that everyone envies, but in fact, Zhang Jiani's heart is full of helplessness and grievances.
"When did you get my wedding", Zhang Jiani's seemingly casual sentence actually hides her innermost expectations for the wedding. She is looking forward to a formal wedding as a way to witness the love between the two.
However, this wish has not been realized.
What is the married life of this enviable couple like? Why did Zhang Jiani say something poignant after many years? Their stories may reveal the truth behind many seemingly happy marriages.
After eight years of marriage, Zhang Jiani has already had two children, and it should have been the happiest time. However, in her life, these eight years have been filled with helplessness and waiting.
Although he had obtained the certificate and gave birth to two sons for Mai Chao, Zhang Jiani never waited for the long-awaited wedding. Whenever asked about the wedding, Mai Chao always prevaricates on the grounds that he is too busy with work and has no time to prepare.
It sounds reasonable, but does it really take eight years to prepare for a wedding?
Zhang Jiani's heart was full of loss and grievances, and she repeatedly expressed her desire for the wedding to Mai Chao, hoping to have a formal ceremony to witness their love.
However, the repeated disappointment of Mai Chao only expressing understanding on the surface, but in fact taking no action, made Zhang Jiani feel more and more powerless.
In a variety show, in order to complete the task of the program team, Mai Chao took Zhang Jiani to the wedding dress shop, looking at those white wedding dresses, Zhang Jiani instantly burst into tears. She thought it was the day she had been waiting for a long time, and excitedly tried on the wedding dress to show Maichao, but Maichao only saw the joy of completing the task, but did not see the expectation in her eyes.
This scene is a true portrayal of their married life. Zhang Jiani is looking forward to marriage, but Mai Chao is perfunctory, and their wedding seems to be out of reach, all of which silently tell the hidden worries in this marriage.
Zhang Jiani did not hold a wedding, which meant that she lost the opportunity to drink the tea that symbolized her change of status. This is not only a lack of ritual, but also a lack of identity.
In this family, she has always been in a vague, incomplete state of acceptance.
After eight years of waiting, Zhang Jiani's expectations for marriage gradually wore out, and her confidence in the relationship began to waver. She began to wonder if she was really as important as she thought she was in Maichao's heart.
The delayed wedding became a huge question on her mind.
The sentence "I haven't drunk the tea and still calls my mother-in-law an aunt" reveals Zhang Jiani's humble situation in a wealthy family, and she never seems to have been able to gain real recognition.
The tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stems from Mai Chao's mother's disapproval of Zhang Jiani's identity as an actor, in the traditional concept, the profession of an actor is often not regarded as a decent job, although Zhang Jiani has given birth to children for this family, but still cannot get the favor of her mother-in-law.
Every time Zhang Jiani faced her mother-in-law, she was very cautious, for fear that her words and deeds would cause dissatisfaction to the other party. She tried her best to play the role of the perfect daughter-in-law, but she was never able to cross the invisible gap.
Although she has been married for many years, she can only call her mother-in-law "aunt", and this sense of alienation always reminds her that she is an outsider.
Sadly, in this situation, Mai Chao chose to compromise with his mother. He did not support his wife, but let Zhang Jiani face the pressure of his in-laws alone. Whenever she needed support, Maichao's absence made her feel isolated and helpless.
Zhang Jiani revealed in an interview that half a month after giving birth, she hurriedly took over the notice to work, and at the same time took care of the child and supported the family. Although Mai Chao verbally said that he felt very sorry for his wife, he actually did not provide substantial help.
In this wealthy family, Zhang Jiani is like a canary in captivity. On the surface, her life is glamorous, but in reality she loses her freedom. She worked hard to maintain this marriage, but her inner grievances and unwillingness increased day by day.
She longs for recognition and respect, for a home that truly belongs to her, but these wishes never seem to come true.
Buying and choosing between mother and wife made Zhang Jiani's loneliness even worse. She had to face her mother-in-law alone and bear the pressure of being a proud family. Such a situation makes people wonder, if this is love, it is too difficult and humble.
Zhang Jiani's experience reveals the harsh reality behind wealthy marriages. Her story is not only a personal joy, but also a reflection of the identity and family status issues that many women face in marriage.
In this glamorous and glamorous wealthy family, Zhang Jiani has paid a lot, but has received less return and respect, and her story has given people a profound reminder: the marriage of a wealthy family is not as beautiful as people imagine.
While Zhang Jiani is facing huge challenges in her married life, her acting career is not smooth sailing. She has been embroiled in two controversial incidents that not only affected her public image, but also cast a shadow over her career development.
In 2012, when Zhang Jiani was filming "Jingzhong Yue Fei", she was angry with a little girl who was a scene reporter because she couldn't ask for leave. She deliberately bumped into each other three times in a row during filming and beat her up with her assistants.
What's worse is that she also forced the beaten scene reporter to apologize to her, and threatened to leave the crew if the other party did not apologize.
The incident caused an uproar at the time, and although Zhang Jiani himself did not respond directly, Hong Kong actor Zhang Zhaohui quickly appeared in the comment section to comfort the victim after the incident was exposed, a move that seems to indirectly confirm the rumor.
This has seriously damaged Zhang Jiani's public image and made many people question her professionalism.
Another controversial incident occurred on a "Quick Book" program. At that time, Zhang Jiani and Qin Lan were recreating the classic scenes in "See a Dream Again". Unexpectedly, Zhang Jiani suddenly pushed the unsuspecting Qin Lan, causing Qin Lan to fall from a height.
Qin Lan was wearing high heels on her feet at the time, this push could lead to serious consequences Qin Lan fell off the high platform uncontrollably, and screamed several times involuntarily during the period, so frightened that Teacher He, who was standing on the side, hurriedly stepped forward to help, and what was even more puzzling was that in the face of this dangerous move, Zhang Jiani neither explained nor apologized.
These two incidents have caused Zhang Jiani to be controversial, and her acting career has also been greatly affected. The public began to question her person's behavior, and some even believed that this was the reason why she could not catch fire.
Faced with the double pressure of career and family, Zhang Jiani seems to be in a dilemma. On the one hand, she needs to prove her worth by working hard to try to win the approval of her in-laws; On the other hand, her frequent work makes it difficult for her to take care of her family and balance her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Under this double pressure, Zhang Jiani's heart is full of contradictions and struggles. She hopes to achieve success in her career and hopes to have the understanding and support of her family. However, the reality is that she is torn between family and career.
As a star with a daily income of 2.08 million, Zhang Jiani's work returns are considerable. However, her disappointing performance at work not only affected her career development, but also made it difficult for her to gain a foothold in a wealthy marriage.
Her situation may reflect the real situation of many women in the workplace when they are faced with the dual pressures of career and family.
Zhang Jiani's marital life and workplace controversy have sparked widespread public discussion, with many people sympathizing with her plight and believing that she is in a difficult situation among wealthy families. On the other hand, there are also people who question her personal character and professionalism, and believe that she needs to improve in these areas.
In the face of these controversial evaluations, Zhang Jiani chose to remain silent. He has not responded publicly or given a detailed explanation of his marital status. Does this silent attitude imply that she is in a deep state of self-reflection?
Despite the controversy, there are still many people who expect Zhang Jiani to learn from these experiences and improve his personal cultivation and professionalism. After all, a person's moral character and attitude will directly affect their career development and life path.
For Zhang, she still has a long way to go. If she can face and correct her mistakes, I believe that there are still people who will continue to support her and like her. After all, everyone should have the ability to grow and change.
As a public figure, Zhang Jiani's words and deeds have attracted much attention. Her story is not only a personal story, but also a reflection of many social issues. Therefore, it is expected that she will be able to grow in the face of these setbacks and regain public recognition and respect.
At the same time, Zhang Jiani's experience has also triggered people's thinking about wealthy marriages, workplace ethics and other issues, and her experience may provide some inspiration for those in similar situations, so that everyone can cherish their work and family relationships more.
In short, Zhang Jiani's public evaluation is polarized, but most expect her to change and improve. This is not only a personal inspiration for her, but also a call for positive values in society.
Zhang Jiani's story from the fairytale beginning to the various challenges in reality undoubtedly makes us think deeply. As an unrecognized daughter-in-law in a wealthy family, she encountered all kinds of doubts in the workplace, and this kind of experience was a test for her.
Although Zhang Jiani's current situation seems difficult, we still hope that she can find her own happiness in the future. Whether it's fighting for the respect she deserves in her marriage or reasserting herself in her career, her story is still unfinished.
Hopefully, she will learn from these setbacks and begin to examine her actions and correct her past mistakes. At the same time, it is expected that she will find true understanding and support in her married life and move towards a happy life of her own.
Zhang Jiani's experience reminds us that every choice is very important in both career and marriage, and we need to manage it with our hearts.