Hu Mei was once the most promising rising star in the gymnastics world, and entered the gymnastics team at the age of 4, playing difficult movements as a "game". At the age of 17, he represented China in the Olympic Games. At the age of 21, he married star men's basketball player Zhu Fangyu.
For a time, the two were called the existence of "Golden Boy and Jade Girl". Unexpectedly, marriage has become the biggest "nightmare" in Hu Mei's life.
In 2015, former gymnast Hu Mei broke the news on the Internet that she had gone through divorce procedures with her husband Zhu Fangyu last year. Because the public opinion in the outside world is becoming more and more outrageous, she will truthfully explain all the situation and hope that netizens will stop spreading rumors.
Everyone couldn't believe that the couple had invited more than 600 guests to the wedding banquet, and for fear of wronging his wife, he rented a villa as a temporary "maiden home" for him, and found more than a dozen luxury cars to open the way for his wife.
Their marriage was blessed by all walks of life, and the two supported each other after marriage, and were once a model for all couples, and the two were very affectionate.
It wasn't until the two announced their divorce that everyone came back to their senses, it turned out that the two had not been in the same frame for a long time, and they hadn't been in contact for a long time, so how did they get to where they are today?
"Even if I leave the house, I will divorce him." This is what Hu Mei and the two said when they were preparing to divorce, as a woman, the two have been together for 5 years, if they were not really hurt completely, I believe they would not have said such things.
In fact, their marriage was full of "calculations" from the beginning.
Hu Mei and Zhu Fangyu met at the 2004 Athens Olympics. At that time, Zhu Fangyu was already famous, and Hu Mei was a new member of the gymnastics team, and this was her first time representing the country.
Living in the same Olympic Village, Zhu Fangyu immediately noticed this young girl, at first Zhu Fangyu just regarded the other party as a sister, but as time went by, he gradually felt Hu Mei's unique perseverance and bravery.
Under Zhu Fangyu's stormy pursuit, Hu Mei was a little shaken. Zhu Fangyu was not in a hurry and made a very romantic suggestion. That is, to be together after the Beijing Olympics.
The two then worked hard in their respective fields, but never broke off contact. However, since the Athens Olympics, Hu Mei has realized the "defects" of her body.
Because of his height, there were many movements that he couldn't do perfectly, and he only finished sixth in the Olympics. This incident hit her very hard, so she had the idea of retiring.
In 2008, Hu Mei and Zhu Fangyu got married as agreed, and Hu Mei also announced her retirement. After retiring, Hu Mei returned to the family to take care of her husband's daily life, and soon the two gave birth to two boys. Hu Mei gradually faded out of the sight of netizens, but her husband Zhu Fangyu shined and made remarkable achievements.
Hu Mei's family is often the object of conversation in the sports circle, and the family has a clear division of labor and is very happy. It wasn't until the 4th year of marriage that Zhu Fangyu had her first scandal. Some paparazzi saw photos of Zhu Fangyu and a woman hugging in the water.
At that time, Zhu Fangyu and his wife said that they were going to Sanya for training. The photo caused an uproar online, and Hu Mei couldn't believe that she had been betrayed. According to her recollection, she was not angry at that time, nor did she go to the unit to make trouble, and she didn't even say a word of seriousness, because Hu Mei was already disheartened.
But Zhu Fangyu was afraid that Hu Mei would talk nonsense outside, because Zhu Fangyu's family held the financial power of the family and would regularly give Hu Mei living expenses every month. So Zhu Fangyu once wanted to try to cut off his wife's financial resources and control her.
still found that this didn't scare Hu Mei at all, so he cried to Hu Mei and admit his mistake, but men are like this, no matter how sincere they cry on the front foot, they will forget everything about the back foot.
After Hu Mei helped her husband "clarify", Zhu Fangyu not only did not change, but intensified. Hu Mei gradually saw her husband's ugly face, so she filed for divorce.
On the one hand, Zhu Fangyu may be really reluctant to marry for five or six years, and on the other hand, she may also think that divorcing Hu Mei will affect her "good man" personality.
So he repeated the old trick and continued to threaten Hu Mei with money. But Hu Mei made up her mind to divorce, "even if she leaves the house, she will no longer suffer these grievances."
The two finally announced their divorce in 2013, and after the divorce, Zhu Fangyu gave his wife one-third of the property, but Hu Mei didn't care at all, what she cared about was the custody and liberation of her son.
After Zhu Fangyu's derailment was exposed, he publicly admitted to the media, saying, "I didn't manage this relationship well, hurt each other, and being young is a reason." It's true that you were wrong when you were young, and love is also true. ”
I just don't know if "wrong" refers to Hu Mei, or "love" refers to Hu Mei. But no matter how Zhu Fangyu jumps, Hu Mei has already let go, she doesn't want to have anything to do with her ex-husband anymore, and she refuses to be friends.
In the divorce battle between the two, what both parties want to grab is the custody of their son. At first, the eldest son was awarded to Hu Mei when he divorced, but how could Zhu Fangyu be willing?
Who has paid a lot for their children for so many years, and a discerning person can see at a glance that not only did he give his wife a little bit of property, but he still wanted to pick up such a big son for nothing?
But putting aside the emotional aspect, it is still difficult for Hu Mei to raise her two sons alone. In 2015, the two parties went to court again for the custody of their eldest son, and finally Zhu Fangyu won the lawsuit.
Time has passed, Hu Mei is full of emotion about the failed marriage, and she does not regret her approach at all. When she was divorced, many people advised her to "bear with it for the sake of the children", but children were not a reason to continue to break the marriage.
After the divorce, Hu Mei quickly walked out of the haze, and some paparazzi asked if the two had the possibility of "remarriage" in the future, and Hu Mei shook her head without thinking.
After the divorce, she said such a sentence: "When I was looking for Zhu Fangyu to marry, I felt that the marriage partner could not find a handsome person, otherwise it would definitely be a big radish." But I didn't expect to find out that after getting married, the object was not only flowery, but also ugly! ”
Hu Mei is satirizing whoever believes that anyone with a discerning eye can see it.
Article information sources:
Sports Weekly 2008-09-10 "Zhu Fangyu Completes 4-Year Love Run, 600 People Witness the Happiness of Men's Basketball Shooters"
Hyundai Gold News August 25, 2014 "Zhu Fangyu's ex-wife is almost out of the house: she can't get a penny and wants to divorce"
Strait Metropolis Daily 2014-08-25 "Zhu Fangyu cheated and hugged Xiao Sannautical Miles, his ex-wife Hu Mei went out of the house and divorced"
People's Daily Online 2015-02-16 "Zhu Fangyu Regains the Custody of Her Eldest Son, Weibo Posts Court Verdict"
CCTV 2014-08-26 "The media exposed the inside story of Zhu Fangyu's divorce, and his ex-wife said that she would not be friends after breaking up"