Later, those children grew up, those old people gradually grew old, they were the ones who used to care for your dreams like "kind eyes". How many people are still immersed in the plot after watching this movie for a long time, perhaps, what makes you can't let go is not only the plot itself, but the beauty of the fairy tale world beyond the plot, and the comfort it brings, it makes people feel deeply pampered, it can make you deeply feel that your childhood is cared for, and even respected.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > Sophie is more often a child, scared and moving with her hands</h1>
On the streets of England, a little girl named "Sophie" lives in an orphanage, and Sophie treats 3 a.m. as the time when the demon comes out, when she is the only one in the whole orphanage who is awake and says, "Don't get up in the middle of the night, don't go to the window, don't open the curtains and look out..." Indeed, nothing fell, she did it. Sophie opened the curtains and saw a tall, thin giant, whom he called "Good Eye", who had a long trumpet, and used it to blow the dreams of the well-installed dreams to the sleeping children, and when the giant found Sophie's gaze, and heard her thumping heartbeat, knowing that she saw what she had done, he kidnapped her and brought her back to the giants.
In childhood, there are always adults who tell you: you can't eat sugar, you can't climb high and climb low, you can't... The ears listen, the mouth also speaks, will obey, and the adults can always find sugar paper in you, see you in different scenery, some people call them "naughty and mischievous" and I am willing to call them "curious cute and childlike".
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > because the world tends to accommodate people who are the same, you dare not show your difference</h1>
Sophie was scared at first, and wanted to run away many times, she was afraid that the giant would hurt her, and slowly in the process of getting along, she found that this giant was very kind. In their giant kingdom, there are 10 giants living, except for the "kind eyes" who eat vegetarian food, the other 9 giants, all eat people, they call humans "human beans". Even in the real world, most people will reject people who are different from the public, and it is precisely because of this that we are sometimes afraid of being different from others and afraid of acknowledging that we are different.
And the "kind eye" is such a special existence, he is not with other giants, but likes to capture beautiful dreams and give dreams to sleeping children. Because of his special, other giants often bully him, and in the face of these, the "good eye" is always patient, Sophie's patience and concession of the "good eye" is very incomprehensible, she thinks this is a sign of cowardice and timidity, in fact, here, I have the same idea as Sophie, I think the "good eye" is a coward, but
Once people are old, they will begin to understand shame, become timid, learn to pretend not to see, pretend not to hear, although this is called adulthood, but by the time you realize it, growth has stopped.
As Sophie said
So I often feel lonely
In the process of growing up, have you also felt lonely, and time has gradually smoothed out our edges and corners, is this growth?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the sweet bitterness of life and feelings is a gift from God</h1>
On the way to take Sophie out to hunt dreams, he met the carnivorous giants, they played with the good eyes as a toy, Sophie's existence was also discovered by the carnivorous giants, and the good eyes realized that they could no longer take Sophie back to the giant country, so they left her in the human world, because before Sophie, there was a little boy who lived in the giant country with the good hearted eye, but unfortunately, he was found by the carnivorous giants and eaten, which became the most feared thing for the "good hearted eye", he was afraid that Sophie would also suffer this fate, He didn't dare take her back again.
Good-hearted eyes are bullied
I'm not afraid, I'm not afraid
Sophie's prayerful eyes and sincere words finally made The good heart now make up her mind to take Sophie back, and the idea of starting to resist.
For the dream in the movie, it is a kind of infinitely beautiful yearning for life, in the dream there is no restriction of life rules and regulations, you as an independent person, you are free. From a psychological point of view, it tends to be "Pygmalion effect".
Kind eyes and little boys
The Pygmalion effect implies that in essence, people's emotions and ideas will be affected to varying degrees by the subconscious of others, and people will unconsciously accept the influence and hints of people they want to like, admire, trust and worship. What you expect, you will get, you get not what you want, but what you expect in your heart. As long as you are full of confident expectations, as long as you really believe that things will go smoothly, things will go smoothly, on the contrary, if you believe that things are constantly resisted, these resistances will occur, successful people will develop a confident attitude, believing that good things will happen.
In the face of bitterness, we should be optimistic, thinking that there will always be a rainy day, people in middle age, always like to say that life is not easy, people in childhood, but also look forward to growing up faster. This in itself is a very contradictory thing, how to not get entangled in it, so be optimistic, so be full of positive energy, believe that all experiences are God's gifts to you, if life makes you unhappy, then why do you have to make yourself unhappy, give yourself a positive psychological hint, maybe you can see the other side of life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > you so beautiful, someone will always take care of your dreams</h1>
Later, Sophie found the queen with a kind eye, and the queen seriously and generously entertained the kind eye, perhaps a person who had never been valued before, and suddenly received such a hospitality, and she shed tears of excitement in her heart. With the help of the Queen, the carnivorous giants were taken out of the Giant Country by helicopter and dropped into another island far away from the people, and Sophie slept in the Queen's place, dreaming very sweetly, and the kind eyes also returned to the Giant Country.
Why, you might ask, didn't Sophie return to the Giants with the Kind Eyes? Kind eyes give us the answer.
Someday, you're going to grow up, get married, have your own little bean, you're going to have a lot of moments of joy, but none of that's supposed to be here, and you're going to have a long, good life
——《The BFG》
Do you know why Sophie is awake at 3:00 a.m.? It was difficult for her to fall asleep and never dreamed, but since she was captured by the well-meaning giant, she began a fantastic journey and gradually began to create her own dreams.
The kind-eyed giant said that Sophie's dream was that she would grow up, fall in love, get married and have several children, and live a very happy and warm life. Everyone's dream is a yearning for real life, some people will say that Sophie's dream is too ordinary, isn't this the life of an ordinary family? However, for a person who is very lonely in his heart, living a happy life and having children to accompany him, this is precisely the most beautiful and simplest thing in the world, often people will complicate simple things, can't see the simple beauty and complain about the complexity is not easy, this may be the reason for unhappiness.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > will reverberate if you never forget, may the goodness come as promised</h1>
At the age of 20, you can afford toys that you can't afford at the age of 10
But there is no sense of anticipation as it was at the beginning;
At the age of 30, I had the courage to chase the girl who did not dare to chase when I was 20 years old, but the girl has been a woman for many years;
At the age of 40, I wanted to cherish the friends I should cherish at the age of 30, but I have been estranged for many years.
Life is missed like this, and by the time you know how to cherish it, it has long since passed away quietly and can never come back.
For this passage is full of too much pity and helplessness, it is unpleasant, and what I hope is:
When you were 20 years old, you saw a toy that you couldn't afford to buy at the age of ten, and sighed in your heart: It turns out that my vision at that time was so good;
When you were 30 years old, you had the courage to chase the girl who didn't dare to chase when you were 20 years old, and she was still waiting for you;
When you were 40 years old, you wanted to cherish the friends you should cherish at the age of 30, and the friend smiled and said: Count if you have a conscience.
Not for anything else, just for you to deserve it. You will always meet the person who takes care of you seriously, and from then on your dreams will become sweet.