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People are saying love marriage, there is love to have marriage, in the marriage to continue love for a lifetime, this should be regarded as the happiest marriage, maybe it is inseparable from a lifetime of companionship, this is the happiest reason.
People often say that the longest confession of affection is companionship, very few can do this, there are fewer and more in life, and it is also an invisible companion to persist in walking, right? Perhaps, love is here, seemingly ordinary companionship, more and more intense, this may be the happiness of ordinary people.
Share the following story and take a look.
Some time ago back to the hometown to see the parents, found that the village has newly moved a family, listen to the mother said, this is the new couple to buy the house, this house was originally moved to the city to the rich uncle's family, the rich uncle followed his son to Chongqing two years ago, the old house has been idle, unattended are somewhat dilapidated, the tiles on the roof are a little leaky.
The couple especially likes this old-fashioned wooden house, which is well ventilated, warm in winter and cool in summer, and has a yard where you can raise some flowers and grow some small vegetables, and the air is very fresh, which is very suitable for the elderly.
I am very curious about the new neighbors, now few people come to the countryside to live, people are eager to go to the big city, for this newly moved couple is very puzzled, bored leisure to visit the door, the old man cleaned up the yard very clean, only to see different colors of henna, fighting for glory, next to a row of newly reclaimed land there are green buds out of the soil, it is estimated that the planting of cabbage, garlic seedlings, these, very vibrant scene.
Auntie looks about 60 years old, hair is a little gray, uncle is still very handsome, no rural people's rustic, looks much younger than auntie, the second old man saw me visit the door very warmly to greet me.
The uncle made a pot of tea, we sat around the yard, the table and bench looked new, and the smell of fresh wood, although the look was not very beautiful, but I felt quite suitable, sitting on it felt very comfortable.
After getting acquainted, I learned that my aunt and uncle were the intellectual youth who were delegated many years ago, and when I used to know that the youth went to the countryside, they were stationed in our production team, no wonder the husband and wife did not have a trace of strange feeling, as if they were native natives, and even their speeches had the unique taste of their hometown, which was very warm.
I asked my aunt, why did you think of going back to the countryside to retire? Wouldn't it be more convenient in a big city? My aunt did not answer these questions directly, but instead recalled her past with her uncle.
The aunt said that when she went to the countryside with her uncle, because of the reasons of the big era, she did not continue to go to college, and could only participate in rural labor, and the two were assigned to a production team, and when they reached the age of marriage, it may also be the reason for the same knowledge of youth.
In these years in the countryside, no matter how tired the labor, every day after returning home from work, the uncle will read books, aunt said that she also respects her husband's hobbies, reading books to learn knowledge is better than not reading.
Later, the national college entrance examination policy was restored, and knowledgeable young people under the age of 30 could participate in the college entrance examination, and the uncle was very excited when he heard the news, and he consulted with his wife and wanted to try it.
Originally, the uncle wanted to go back to his home in the city to prepare for the exam, but with his aunt and children, he was reluctant to marry and children, and the uncle was almost 30 at that time, if he missed this opportunity, his dream might not be there again.
Many people are not optimistic about the uncle, there are many people who oppose, especially the uncle's family, feel that they have gone to the countryside for so many years, and still want to go to college, which is not a day or two can be admitted, they are not willing to help, the aunt resists the opposition of the outside world, silently supports the uncle, the work of the production team and the work at home do not let him worry, he concentrates on reviewing the work class at home.
Aunt said, fortunately, the villagers of the production team at that time were very kind, some jobs were rushed to help her do, the uncle could study at home with peace of mind, there was a wife who silently supported, the uncle also lived up to the expectations of the aunt, in one fell swoop, finally walked into the university of his dreams, the day the aunt sent the uncle to the city to go to school, the uncle hugged the aunt before getting on the car and cried, saying that he was cruel, abandoning his wife and children to go to school, especially sorry for her, vowing to repay her well after completing school.
The aunt told the uncle not to love the family, to complete the school well, the children in the family she will take good care of, from the uncle to school, the aunt while doing coolies, while providing for the uncle to go to school.
She said that remembering the hardships of those years, it was really three days and three nights that could not be finished, but it was finally over, and she admired herself, saying that she was a father and a mother to take care of the whole family, but she did not feel very bitter in her heart, and she just wanted to accompany her husband all the way, whether successful or not.
After graduating from college a few years ago, the uncle was assigned to work in a state-owned enterprise in the city, and the aunt was still in the countryside, the family would face the situation of separation between the two places, the uncle and the aunt did not want to live separate for a long time, in order to reunite the family, the aunt dragged the family to the city and went to the city to live the life of the people in the city.
Auntie said that although the city is very convenient, but still not the countryside free, the uncle is a workaholics, every day there is a busy work, people at that time, not like now have the habit of laziness, every day early out and late home, home can not take care of, aunt is still as before to support the husband, willingly do a good job of logistics, laundry and cooking, pick up children, idle time to pick up odd jobs to earn a little money to supplement the family, the stability of the rear, the uncle can be in the workplace, hard work, a few years down a variety of awards piled up, Also struggled into the unit leader.
Aunt said, 47 years old this year, always feel uncomfortable, chest from time to time faint pain, after going to the hospital for examination, was diagnosed as breast cancer in the middle, when the news came out, like that sunny thunderbolt, disrupted the family's peaceful life, aunt herself is also scared and busy, so strong a woman, suddenly was crushed, uncle often comforted his wife, to bravely face the disease, actively cooperate with the treatment or there is hope of healing.
The treatment process is also painful, the aunt said that after doing several chemotherapy, the head flowers are about to fall out, the face is very poor, originally only forty years old, looks older than ten years old, the uncle in order to comfort the aunt, the hair is also shaved, maybe this is the uncle with action to love the aunt, cheer her up.
But the aunt said that she had lost hope in life, felt that she could not accompany the uncle for long, the uncle was very uncomfortable, or always encouraged her to treat well, do not give up hope, he said that he also wanted to take the aunt out to travel, see the outside world, to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and when they were old, they returned to the countryside, and went to the village life of picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, sunrise and sunset.
After the aunt finished the operation, the cancer cells were very well controlled, the uncle also fulfilled his promise, with the aunt to play all over the country, climbing the mountains and wading, hugging each other to see the sunrise and sunset, when the aunt did not have the strength to walk, the uncle carried her back to continue to move forward, watching the snow, watching the sea tide, going to the Forbidden City, climbing the Great Wall, laughing and laughing along the way, intimate contact with nature, the aunt became very happy, like a little girl in love, drunk by the scenery along the way to forget that she is a patient, every day in the company of the uncle, Enjoy the beauty of nature and the warm care of your husband.
After a period of playing, Auntie's mental outlook is getting better and better, and the whole person seems to be reborn.
Later, the uncle took the aunt back to the hospital to review, the re-examination results made the couple very happy, the cancer cells have disappeared, the husband and wife hugged together silly and laughed, the uncle who turned his back fell into tears, the aunt said she saw it, but did not say it, but there was a very sweet feeling in her heart, because the uncle cared about her life and death.
Subsequently, the uncle retired early from the unit, and returned to the countryside where the couple went to the countryside to buy this small yard, the aunt liked to raise some small flowers and flowers, plant some small greens, the uncle fulfilled her wishes, this small farm yard dressed up as the aunt liked, here is their familiar atmosphere, there are villagers who have worked together, there is a slower pace of life, perhaps, this is where they enjoy their old age, accompanied by each other in a poetic environment.
After drinking a pot of tea, I got up and waved goodbye, my aunt and uncle sent me out, and let me come back when I had time, and when I had time to come and drink tea, after a while the fresh dishes came out and came over to taste.
When I turned to leave, I was also in my heart, wishing them both happiness forever!
epilogue
From the story of aunt and uncle, the couple is not separated from love, but also their husband and wife, let me see the most beautiful way of love, is to accompany each other, just like the marriage vow said: whether poor or rich, are you willing to accompany each other?
Yes, this is their interpretation of love, accompanying each other, whether it is the end of the world or the cape, whether it is illness or ups and downs, there is a saying: the hand of the son, and the son with the old, this may be the best proof of this sentence between the aunt and the uncle, right?
Love, perhaps does not need to be vigorous, dead and alive, but to achieve a lifetime of companionship, perhaps, this is the most perfect interpretation of love!
For love in marriage, do you think companionship is the most primitive?
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