2013 Sina China Good Book Reading Weibo Most Praised Book Award
About the Author:
Liu Tong, a native of Chenzhou, Hunan Province, graduated from the Department of Chinese of Hunan Normal University, is a young writer and vice president of Guangguang Pictures.
"My name is Liu Tong. He now lives in a real estate called Coastal Sailuo City next to Beijing's Fourth Ring Road. Seven years ago, I also fantasized about writing for a living. But my knowledge is limited, Beijing is too big, and the words I write are not enough to become a brick and tile wall for me. Fortunately, I was born poor, poor in mouth, and never complained about my own suffering, so I devoted myself to the media industry, so far.
In the past, I was a city traveler, running between cities for work; later they called me a professional and running for life.
Now, I'm just like you. Still on the way. ”
(Quoted from Douban)
Score:
4.8 stars/5 stars, 2h< reading time<3.5h
Suitable for people who are self-entangled and constantly internally attrition;
Suitable for people who want to change the status quo, but it is difficult to know the size of the world;
Perfect for each of us. After all, whose youth is not confused?
Short Comments:
I thought, I must be a "rebellious" person, too long to talk to myself, will forget what kind of person I am; I must be a "pleasing" serious patient, although I am trying to get rid of such a self; but I must not be a "convergence" person, I hate things that are too similar... Well, I often forget what kind of person I should be, of course, I know very well what kind of person I admire, as written above: personality, attitude, humility.
People set various standards for themselves not necessarily to frame themselves, but may just want to fix a style and form a style. When we look back at the language written at the age of seventeen or eighteen, we will be amazed by the philosophical light of that time. Maybe we don't necessarily understand the meaning behind the rhetoric, but we must be in an empathetic environment and don't understand.
I found that in recent years, I have put down a lot of "personal characteristics", dressed, words and deeds, likes and dislikes, are very flowing! That's where I'm going to review myself today, and this conversation is timely, in place, beautiful. Remind me of some, unconsciously lost egos.
This is the only inspirational book that you might want to read once and want to read it a second time.
Highlights:
[Breeze] At the age of 20, you are full of "how to be different from others", some people are invested in things for life, and your investment at that time is to prove yourself.
[Breeze] In the process of being 20 to 30 years old, we all walked the same path.
You feel lonely is right, that's the opportunity for you to know yourself; you feel that it's right not to be understood, it's an opportunity for you to recognize your friends; you feel that darkness is right, so that you can distinguish what is your light; you feel helpless, so that you can understand who can help you in your growth. Do you feel confused, whose youth is not confused?
[Breeze] I want to be a person who doesn't want to be a person, so what I like doesn't need to be recognized by the public.
[Breeze] people are often contradictory, you love someone, you want everyone to definitely admit to falling in love with that person. But you love a singer, a song, and you don't want them to be representatives of the 10,000-strong chorus.
[Breeze] The promise of all teenagers to meet is only a comfort in the moment before the unknown fate. You will one day understand: some people, some things, missed for a while, are a lifetime.
[Breeze] fell in love with a serious pastime, but took a flower to bloom. Meet a fireworks show, but it takes a reincarnation time (Lin Xi)
[Breeze] chases after it, buys it when it is in love, and never does regret it again. I'd rather make a hasty decision than keep regretting it.
[Breeze] I am such a person: if you meet new friends and think that the other person is good, you start to think about where to go next weekend, whether you want everyone to buy a house together, whether you want to take leave to travel abroad together and so on. Fantasies are a great way to relieve stress, seriously.
[Breeze] took more than twenty years to understand: anything, do not pin your hopes on others, otherwise the only result is to be caught off guard, and the sense of security can only be given to yourself.
[Breeze] Love is not complicated, coming and going is only three words, not "I love you", "I hate you", or "forget it", "how are you", "sorry".
[Breeze] records, is a life-saving decision.
[Breeze] Similar people can rejoice together, and complementary talents are suitable to accompany each other until old age.
[Breeze] All the youth is the most beautiful, the last regret is the deepest impression, and the person in the memory of love, never lose love.
[Breeze] I feel that I am a nasty person, the person opposite has been eager, I feel that the other party is too hard, if the other party is slightly indifferent, I feel that the other party is too pretentious.
[Breeze] Not everyone will be responsible for any of their words and deeds, and some people's behavior is from the most sincere consistency of the moment, without control or reflection.
[Breeze] I only send you a few words every time I text, you crackle and reply to a bunch, it seems that you have the upper hand, but in fact you lost in the beginning.
[Breeze] Acacia is a lengthy belly manuscript, but it is often published very short.
[Breeze] I can feel sorry for my words, but you want me to apologize and skip talking. What the other party says is what you are, is he you, or are you? interpretation? Explain a fart!
The reason why we feel that many things are flawed is because we are not in our dreams.
[Breeze] I need one or two enemies at every stage to live. Because I have enemies, I will have the motivation to move forward. I feel that I must live better than my enemies to be meaningful. In fact, the enemy is not necessarily the enemy, "taking people as a mirror can make clear gains and losses."
[Breeze] cried a lot, others did not believe the tears, tears better keep to themselves - now I almost did.
A true good friend is a soul living in two bodies.
[Breeze] used to explain, to theorize, is to be afraid. Afraid of offending others, afraid of being destroyed by others, afraid of those boring little feelings.
Now do not explain, do not theorize, or be afraid. Afraid of wasting their time, afraid of blurring their focus, afraid of affecting the appetite of tasting this life.
[Breeze] How did cultivation come about? It is in the face of all provocations, suppressing the thoughts of their own outbreaks, and then enlightening themselves.
[Breeze] Used to be reckless about anyone's criticism of me behind my back, and now, you point at my nose and scold me, I can smile. It's because I know what kind of person I am, and people who can face their own ugliness are mostly invincible.
When a person begins to understand himself, answer questions for himself, and point out the direction for his heart, that is the greatest success in life.
[Breeze] I found that I was really a person who was used to talking to myself. Only after having a definite answer in mind will it seek the opinions of others. Soliciting opinions is simply to get some psychological comfort, and if it is consistent, let it go; if it is inconsistent, do it carefully. In short, it has to be done, because this is what I told myself.
[Breeze] I often use some subtle changes to tell myself that everything is worth it, funny, and feel so bitter, but good.
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