Text | Lina
I believe that no one will not know who Chow Yun-fat is?
His prosperous appearance at the age of 20, the current flow of small fresh meat, 30 years ago absolute top strength.
The classic characters he created, one of which has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people and no one has been able to surpass it to become the memory of a generation.
"God of Gamblers" is high
"Let the Bullets Fly" Huang Shilang
"A Lang's Story" A Lang
"Shanghai Beach" Xu Wenqiang
"The True Colors of Heroes" little Margo
In 2007, he received the Lifetime Achievement Award at the Asian Excellence Awards in the United States.
In 2018, he won the Best Actor Award at the 14th Sino-US Film Festival and the National Top Ten Film Actor Award for his film "Peerless"
Since his debut, Zhou Runfa has won numerous awards and is worth more than 100 million, but he has always been very low-key, going out to take the subway and bus; a Nokia mobile phone has been used for 17 years.
His relationship with his current wife, Chen Huilian, has always been praised.
Treating his wife, Fa Ge is really attentive.
His wife liked flowers, so she often brought home a bouquet of flowers; she liked to eat crabs, and as soon as the crabs were on the market, he would buy them back; and for 30 years, every year for his wife's birthday, he would carefully prepare a small gift.
The two of them were interviewed together, traveled together, and visited the market together, just like an ordinary couple.
I heard that in order to catch up with his sister-in-law Chen Huilian, Brother Fa wrote love letters for a year; after the marriage, the couple quarreled, and Zhou Runfa took the initiative to admit his mistake.
Zhou Runfa said: "My wife is like a mirror of mine, looking at her is like looking at myself." After so many years of marriage to her, we spent almost most of our time together, not even separated for a few hours at most. ”
Some people are very confused, why have they seen so many beautiful women in the entertainment industry, but Fa Ge finally chose Chen Huilian, and has been a spoiled wife demon for more than 30 years?
Young and affectionate
Unforgettable
Zhou Runfa was also a young man and had seen many beautiful women.
In the current era of internet public opinion, it will definitely be labeled as a "scumbag".
When he first debuted as a newcomer, Zhou Runfa met Miao Qianren when filming the TV series "Frenzy".
Miao Qianren can be described as the proud daughter of heaven, born in the middle class, returning from studying in Europe, and often bringing her own YSL and Chloe private clothes to appear on camera.
The two played husband and wife in the play, because of the drama, he openly admitted to falling in love with Miao Qianren, saying: "This girl is very good, after getting along with her, I really understand the meaning of fate." ”
However, at that time, Xie Tingfeng's father Xie Xian was also pursuing Miao Qianren, every day luxury car transfer, buying a yacht to invite a beautiful person to vacation, Zhou Runfa openly admitted defeat, "Chasing girls, I am not the opponent of the fourth brother..."
But Xie Xian said that Zhou Runfa chased more girls than himself, and we don't know how much the specific amount, but the most famous love affair has such a paragraph.
After abandoning Miao Qianren, Zhou Runfa soon met his true love, Chen Yulian.
How beautiful is Chen Yulian? It can be described as a special thing in the world and a beautiful person in the world.
She has starred in the two most beautiful women in Jin Yong's pen, Wang Yuyan and Xiaolongnü, and has become a classic that cannot be surpassed on the screen, and has also stunned Hua Tsai.
When Andy Lau played Yang, he was looking forward to seeing this "little dragon girl" every day.
He also admitted that he had confessed to Chen Yulian at that time, but was rejected, only to learn that Chen Yulian and Zhou Runfa were already in love.
In 1978, 23-year-old Zhou Runfa and 18-year-old Chen Yulian co-starred in the TV series "Tycoon", and the handsome man and beautiful woman met, and sure enough, they were born because of the drama.
The two also appeared on the cover of a magazine together to announce this love.
Wen Bixia recalled: "I have seen Zhou Run send Chen Yulian home more than once before, and the two walk together, one tall and handsome, one gentle and gentle, saying that how much is worthy. ”
Speaking of which, this relationship Chen Yulian is very serious, and even began to reduce the drama with Fa Ge and was ready to get married, but in the end she was "threatened" and chose to break up.
5 years of love, forced to separate, Zhou Runfa can not accept, once world-weary drank a lot of dish soap, fortunately was sent to the hospital in time to wash the stomach without accidents.
In response to the sentence: "Ask what the world is, and the Orthodox church promises life and death."
In a 2004 interview, Zhou Runfa mentioned this matter and said:
"Chen Yulian was a dream when I was young, and I felt that the suicide experience was like a dream, but the memory was very beautiful, and I never regretted my actions in that year."
Not to complain that he was too stupid, but to say that he did not regret it, and there was no doubt about true love.
It was rumored that Fa Ge's mother did not like Chen Yulian, which caused the two to break up, and Zhou Runfa was once misunderstood to be Ma Baonan.
In fact, children who grow up under suffering generally put their families first, and Fa Ge is no exception.
He grew up poor, his father was rotten gambling, he began to help his mother share the housework and take care of his brothers and sisters very early, And Zhou Runfa attached great importance to his mother's opinion.
But this is not wrong, for a man wife and mother are equally important, one has raised himself, and the other will accompany him for the rest of his life and bear children for himself, there is no substitute.
Later, in an interview, Fa Ge also frankly admitted that the most loved in his life was his mother and wife.
Therefore, people's feelings are the most complicated, on the one hand, they can complete you to find the best self, on the other hand, they can also make you lose yourself. While bringing you warmth, he puts shackles on you.
In the end, love often gives way to family affection and leaves regrets.
Gamble to get married
Sit down "scumbag"
After breaking up with Zhou Runfa, after being introduced, Chen Yulian met the rich businessman Chen Chaowu, and the two began to talk about marriage after a period of time together.
It is not difficult to guess that she is eager to get rid of the relationship with Zhou Runfa and leave no way back. Zhou Runfa was young and vigorous, and he also gambled and married another girl.
In 1983, when Zhou Runfa and "fan sister" Yu An'an cooperated for the second time, Zhou Runfa suddenly proposed to Yu An'an on the set, and Yu An'an only felt that joy fell from heaven and immediately agreed.
Some people said that this girl promised too quickly.
But this can not be blamed on Yu An'an, when she was 24 years old, she was easy to impulsive, and was proposed by a boy like Zhou Runfa, it is difficult for ordinary girls to refuse, not to mention that Yu An'an originally liked Zhou Runfa.
In short, Yu An'an was confused by beauty, and Zhou Runfa was out of gambling.
We can say with certainty that this kind of flash marriage, which has no emotional basis and is a gamble, will not last long.
So the marriage of the two people lasted only 9 months and ended, which was expected by everyone.
But what everyone did not expect was that Yu An'an was hurt a lot in this marriage, and after the divorce, she was depressed for a while and needed to see a psychologist often.
She also complained to the media: "In nine months, Fa Tsai twice expelled me from the Zhou family." It is also said that Zhou Runfa is a "tyrant" who does not allow her to dress up and wear new clothes...
In fact, another important reason for divorce is that Yu An'an and Zhou Mu are not compatible.
Yu An'an had a period of insecurity during this time, nor was he respected, let alone pampered.
Yu An An version of Princess Xiangxiang
Even the current sister-in-law Chen Huilian has said: "I also think my husband can't afford her." ”
Therefore, for Yu An'an, Zhou Runfa is a "scumbag".
In contrast, the sister-in-law who is now favored by Fa Ge is too lucky, and she meets the Fa Brother who has been tempered and precipitated by feelings.
Meet the right person
"Scumbag" transforms into "good husband"
At first glance, Chen Huilian is not the kind of stunning beauty.
Fa Ge did not choose her out of appearance:
"I see more beautiful women, see more, and feel normal."
And the condition for me to choose my girlfriend is the inner beauty, because I feel that the inner beauty is more rare, more important, and more attractive to me. "
This is what Zhou Runfa talked about in an interview.
As the saying goes, beauty may attract men to you, but it's not just beauty that keeps men. What attracts Zhou Runfa is her dashing simplicity.
Chen Huilian and Zhou Runfa's first meeting was at an airport.
At that time, Chen Huilian wore a T-shirt shorts and slippers to the date place, Zhou Runfa felt a bright eye after seeing it, this girl is interesting and cute.
It is reasonable to say that what kind of beauty Fa Ge has never seen, but it is really rare to be so casual. Moreover, at that time, he was already famous, and Chen Huilian did not even know who he was, and did not show any yearning for this big star.
And whether from the material or spiritual level, Chen Huilian and Zhou Runfa are on an equal footing.
Tan Wai Lian is the daughter of a wealthy Singapore businessman, who studied business administration, and has been helping her father run the family business before getting married.
This is how confident she can be.
Brother Fa slowly fell in love with this woman, and Zhou Runfa's mother was also very satisfied with this girl. Their feelings were hardly hindered, and they soon began to talk about marriage.
In June 1987, Chow Yun Fat and Chan Held a Grand Wedding ceremony at the Shangri-La Hotel, Singapore.
At the wedding, Chen Huilian wept with joy and confessed: "In this life, the best gift given to me by Heaven is to make me Zhou Runfa's wife."
After getting married, Chen Huilian chose to be a housewife and became Zhou Runfa's agent.
Zhou Runfa only needs to concentrate on acting, while other things are left to his wife. After marriage, the two people's life concept is very consistent, that is, the word "frugality".
Go out without a car driver, do public transportation, fa brother's birthday, the two will buy a cake to celebrate at a small restaurant. There is no nanny at home, buying vegetables is the wife, Chen Huilian has a poor memory, every time she goes to buy vegetables, she always forgets to bring money, so she and the vendors have credit, and wait until the end of the month to pay it back.
Fa Ge will remind her: I will drive you to the market later, and trouble you to pay off the credit account at once. You know you don't have a good memory and can't owe them money for the New Year.
Someone in a family will always make concessions, and Fa Ge is the one who is taken care of, and the one who often admits mistakes in quarrels.
Therefore, marriage is inseparable from management, and no matter how good love is, one day it will have to face chai rice oil and salt, and the feelings of being able to live a good little life together can last a long time.
After 5 years of marriage, Chen Huilian finally conceived a child, and the two people excitedly waited for the birth of a new life, but the daughter died a week before the birth, and since then, Chen Huilian has been physically and mentally hit and almost depressed.
Zhou Runfa couldn't bear to see his wife in such pain and told her: We don't have children anymore, and I don't want you to experience such pain again.
So now 66 years old he has no children, in the face of the media's questions about whether there will be regrets without children, he said: No children are not regrets, the two of us are already very happy.
It reminds me that there have been many media reports of men divorcing because their wives are unable to have children. It was as if marrying a wife was tantamount to buying a womb, and this behavior was chilling. In contrast, Fa Ge's approach can be said to be a model for men.
On May 18, Zhou Runfa celebrated his 66th birthday. A photo of him with a young woman circulated on the Internet.
Seeing this photo, netizens began to talk about it, speculating about what abnormal relationship Zhou Runfa had with the young woman in the photo.
Some people joked that Zhou Runfa's late festival was not guaranteed, and the 30-year"love wife" persona collapsed.
The truth came out and punched her in the face, the girl was the daughter of Zhou Runfa's friend Huang Rihua, and the rumors were self-defeating.
The feelings of the two people are good, and Fa Ge does not need to hype up any person like any other traffic star.
When Zhou Runfa met Chen Huilian, he changed from a "scumbag" to a "twenty-four filial piety good husband", which sounded mysterious and difficult to explain.
It is said that human nature is complex, in fact, this "complexity" lies in change:
A man will always make different choices because of the environment, because of the experience, because of the state of the moment. But when he has experienced enough and matured enough, he will be more cautious about marriage.
If you meet a "scumbag", it is likely that you are unfortunate to meet "his misfortune", the timing is not right, the person is not right.
So when you meet a young and beautiful man, please be careful first.
Otherwise, you are probably the "predecessor" who "planted trees before and cooled off later".