Mother and daughter also have an overnight feud? Hundred-year-old Qin Yi and eighty-year-old daughter, 30 years have not moved, and now the relationship is also frozen Eighty daughter is close at hand, the hundred-year-old mother wants to wear her daughter and insists on marrying a rural man with a wife, Qin Yi dissuades the fruitless Qin Yi Mother and Daughter behind the discord: the ghost of the ex-husband Chen Tianguo is not scattered

On January 31, 2021, the "living fossil" of the Chinese film industry, Teacher Qin Yi, who has the title of "People's Artist", ushered in his 99th birthday, according to The tradition of Chinese folk, Qin Yi has been 100 years old.

On the day of his birthday, the Shanghai Federation of Literature and Literature published a commemorative blog post, accompanied by several recent photos of Teacher Qin Yi, one of which was particularly eye-catching.

This is a group photo, sitting in the middle wearing a red coat and a flower scarf is 100-year-old teacher Qin Yi, on the right is Qin Yi's 82-year-old daughter Jin Feijiao (héng), and on the left is Qin Yi's daughter Meng Wei, who is Also Qin Yi's granddaughter.

It is very common for the old birthday star to take a photo of three generations of grandchildren, but the photo of Qin Yi and her daughter and granddaughter still caused a lot of discussion. Because people who are familiar with her know that Qin Yi and her daughter Jin Feijian have been at odds with each other, and there has been a history of no contact for 30 years, until Jin Feijian is 55 years old, the mother-daughter relationship has eased.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > octogenarian daughter is within easy reach, and the centenarian mother is eager to see through</h1>

As the saying goes, "mother and daughter do not have an overnight vendetta", but Qin Yi is different from her daughter, the two have not moved around for 30 years due to contradictions, even if they resume to move in their later years, the relationship has always been very stiff.

In 2017, 96-year-old Qin Yi said in an interview with Lu Yu that her daughter Jin Fei actually lived not far from her, but the mother and daughter rarely saw each other.

Qin Yi's house is currently only where she lives with a nanny, and many rooms are empty, she asked her daughter to move in with her, and her daughter verbally agreed, but she has not acted.

Born in 1940, Jin Fei was born to Qin Yi and her first husband, Chen Tianguo. Chen Tianguo was a very famous actor at that time, and Qin Yi was also very sure of his acting skills, but this person had the problem of alcoholism, so serious that the first thing to get up every morning was to drink a glass of wine.

If it is just drinking, Chen Tianguo is not only an alcoholic, but also a domestic violence man, who takes Qin Yi out of anger after every time he is drunk, and such a marriage is unbearable for any woman.

What made Qin Yi even more intolerable was that after she gave birth to her daughter in 1940, when she was only 18 years old, Chen Tianguo actually said that she would give her daughter away because he could not come up with milk powder money.

Chen Tianguo is a well-known actor, who must make a lot of money, and the reason why he can't even take out the milk powder money has a lot to do with his bad style of drinking and excessive squandering.

Alcoholics, domestic violence and no sense of responsibility for his wife and daughter, in the face of such a husband, Qin Yi, who could not bear it, finally chose to divorce, when her daughter Jin Fei was still in her infancy.

Seeing this, some people may wonder, why is Qin Yi's daughter neither surnamed Chen with her father nor surnamed Qin with her mother, but surnamed Jin? This is actually related to Qin Yi's second husband, Jin Yan.

In 1947, Qin Yi, who had been divorced for a long time, met another well-known actor in the circle, Jin Yan, and the two quickly fell in love and married at the end of the year. After Qin Yi married Jin Yan, her 7-year-old daughter also followed her mother to a new family, and Jin Yan regarded her as her own daughter and let her take her surname Jin and named her Jin Feijiao.

After Qin Yi married Jin Yan, she gave birth to a son, Jin Jie. Jin Jie is 8 years younger than his sister Jin Feijie, and the two are the same mother and father. At that time, people generally preferred sons to daughters, plus Jin Jie was Jin Yan's biological son, but Jin Fei was only an adopted daughter, so in the heart of Jin Fei at a young age, she always felt that her parents, especially her father's eccentric brother, led to a gray childhood, which may also be a reason for her later discord with her mother.

But compared with other reasons, this reason is insignificant, because what eventually led to Qin Yi and her daughter not moving around for 30 years was Jin Fei's marriage.

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In the early 1960s, Jin Feijian, who was in her 20s, suddenly told her mother Qin Yi that she was getting married. Qin Yi had never heard of Jin Fei's wife falling in love, let alone seen the "son-in-law-to-be", and now she was suddenly told about the marriage by her daughter, and she was suddenly confused.

After a few words, I learned that my daughter had just met a man surnamed Meng last week, from a rural background, and her daughter called him "Da Meng". Less than a week after the two had been dating, Jin Fei felt that she was not married in this life and was anxious to do the wedding.

Qin Yi is a person who has experienced two marriages, including a failed marriage, and she certainly knows that marriage is not hurried. But he was filming in a foreign country and could not dissuade his daughter in person, so he stabilized her on the phone and told Jin Fei that she would go back in a week and talk about marriage at that time.

In order to win the trust of her daughter, Qin Yi also said in particular: "After all, I am your mother, even if the family is poor, I will help you buy something when you get married." ”

Unexpectedly, Jin Feijian did not wait for her mother to return, and the next day she handed a menu to her aunt, that is, Qin Yi's sister Qin Fang, and said to her: "I am going to get married tomorrow, you see if you like the dishes on the menu." ”

Qin Fang was also confused by Jin Feijiao, she called her sister Qin Yi and asked her sister: "What happened to your daughter, how can marriage be so simple?" ”

Qin Yi saw that her daughter was so stubborn, she could only rush back in a hurry, but when she arrived home, her daughter had already finished her wedding with Da Meng.

At this time, Qin Yi heard a news that blew up her lungs, and it turned out that Da Meng not only had a wife in the countryside, but also had two sons and a daughter, which was still Da Meng's mother who personally ran over to tell Qin Yi.

Hearing this news, Qin Yi quickly found her daughter and ordered her to divorce Da Meng, but her daughter did not comply. Qin Yi asked her daughter, "Do you know the details of Da Meng?" He has wives and children in the countryside! ”

Jin Feijian did not want to believe it, insisting that Da Meng had never been married, and the mother and daughter had a big quarrel, and since then they have formed a deep contradiction.

Soon after the marriage, Jin Feijian tasted the bitter fruit, and Da Meng changed her heart and began to be cold to her, at the same time, she was also pregnant with Da Meng's flesh and bones.

It is reasonable to say that the failure of marriage should make Jin Feijian more grateful to her mother, but she has a stubborn personality, but she hates her mother more deeply. Jin Feijian refused to see her mother again until 30 years later, at the age of 55, she gradually came out of her hatred for her mother and began to understand her mother Qin Yi again.

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > Behind the discord between Qin Yi's mother and daughter: the ghost of her ex-husband Chen Tianguo is not scattered</h1>

In Qin Yi's eyes, the character of her daughter Jin Fei was simply carved out of a mold like her biological father Chen Tianguo, and both father and daughter were generally stubborn.

When Lu Yu interviewed Qin Yi, she also recalled a past from her daughter. It was a few years ago, Jin Feijiao, who was already in her seventies, was sick and hospitalized, her stomach was cut off, and the doctor said that she could only eat liquid food, and she wanted to eat less, but Jin Feijian did not listen, and ate a bowl of dry rice in front of the doctor.

He still didn't cherish his body so much, it was conceivable that in Jin Fei's heart, the weight of her mother Qin Yi would not be heavy.

Jin Feijian and her mother have been out of harmony for 30 years, and the relationship after re-moving is also very general, which is very related to their mother's and daughter's views on Chen Tianguo.

Qin Yi hated Chen Tianguo to the bone from beginning to end, even if she was nearly a hundred years old, she did not let go of that hatred, and when Lu Yu interviewed her, she said on the spot that "She will never be able to forgive Chen Tianguo".

But Jin Feijian is different, although her biological father Chen Tianguo once abandoned her, she still has deep feelings for this blood father, and often helps her father speak in front of her mother, which is also an important reason for the mother and daughter duo to talk daily.

Chen Tianguo committed suicide in 1967 at the Lingyin Temple in Hangzhou, which hit Jin Feijian very hard, in her opinion, if her parents had not divorced, her father would not have committed suicide, and as for the matter of her mother being abused by the family, Jin Feijian did not think much.

In less than a year, Qin Yi will turn 100 years old, and her daughter Jin Feijian will already be 82 years old. There is a saying that goes: there is no hatred that cannot be put down. After all, Qin Yi and Jin Feijian are mother and daughter, and both of them are already in their twilight years, how many days do they have in life?

I hope that in the remaining time, Qin Yi and her daughter Jin Feijian can completely untie the knot, and I hope that the mother and daughter can live under the same roof and support each other.

After all, for Qin Yi, only such a relative as Jin Feijian was still alive in the world. Qin Yi's nine siblings have all died, and her husband Jin Yan and son Jin Jie have also died long ago.

Teacher Qin Yi has made great contributions to the development of China's film industry, she is very successful in her career, but her family is one tragedy after another.

Fortunately, heaven did not always treat her badly, so that she not only lived a long life, but also maintained a beautiful face and elegant temperament at nearly a hundred years old, which made the life of a hundred-year-old person a legend.

Of course, this is not really the credit of heaven, but Teacher Qin Yi's own efforts, because not many people can go through so many tribulations like her, and they can still be strong to this day.