"The Story of the Rose" has now come to an end. I haven't chased the TV series yet, but I've read the original book before, and I know the ending.
In this drama, Rose's attitude towards love has always been brave. In the words of her brother Huang Zhenhua: Rose treats love like a gambler, every time she encounters it, she has to be all in. Indeed, the rose in love is brave, determined, and all-out. As long as she meets someone she feels right, she will move forward bravely. If you don't love it, you turn around and leave, never dragging your feet.
It's just that this attitude is actually very dangerous, and it has no reference for girls from ordinary families and ordinary backgrounds. Because, we don't have that high fault tolerance.
01
Rose's first boyfriend, Zhuang Guodong, is a Kochi elite man. Later, he went to France to work as an executive.
On the night when she knew that Zhuang Guodong was going to France, Rose felt aggrieved, angry, and unwilling, and directly smashed his house. In fact, at this time, Zhuang Guodong's attitude was already problematic. For him, roses are like a gorgeous, beautifully decorated business card, something that can add to himself, not a necessity.
However, the rose, immersed in love, does not feel this.
After Zhuang Guodong went to France, because he missed the rose, he said to her: "I miss you very much, I really want to open my eyes, you lie next to me!" For the sake of this sentence, Rose decided to leave for France.
She went to her boss to ask for leave. said that it was a leave of absence, but in fact, it was basically equivalent to notifying the boss.
She handed over the work ahead of schedule and prepared a letter of resignation. Just wait for the boss to say that he disagrees. Sure enough, the boss agreed.
Why did Rose dare to do this? Because she has someone to cover. In the company, she knows that her boss Tina appreciates her and usually has a good relationship, so she won't really open herself; In life, Rose has a wealthy family, her parents are professors, and her brother is an architect, even if she resigns, she will not be unable to eat.
It's just that this kind of plot is likely to only exist in TV series. In real life, it is estimated that the boss will sign your resignation letter immediately, without even thinking about it.
Unless you're particularly capable, this is a must-have position.
02
Rose's second relationship is with Fang Xiewen. This life also contracted a large part of the painful memories of her life.
In the beginning, Rose didn't look down on Xiewen. The life she used to be in contact with was a staggered upper-class circle, and the people she came into contact with were all either rich or expensive. She can't look down on a poor student like Fang Xiewen.
can't stand Fang Xiewen's perseverance and perseverance! He relied on those clumsy means and the attitude of putting down his body to take the rose down.
In fact, before getting married, Fang Xiewen belonged to a high-performance stock. Even if there is no money at the moment, there is a lot of room for appreciation.
However, when the two of them were talking about marriage, the plot was a little out of control.
Fang Xiewen lost his job in order to take the blame for his colleagues! I didn't have much money in the first place, and now the future is even more bleak. Returning home and facing the beautiful roses, he felt ashamed of himself and proposed to break up. Rose naturally disagreed, and after knowing the truth, she directly proposed marriage.
For ordinary people, marriage is based on a certain foundation, not just feelings. In real life, the "love brain" will basically suffer.
When two people are really going to get married, Rose's "love brain" is even more serious! In order to give Fang Xiewen face and not embarrass him when he has no money, Rose didn't want a wedding, didn't hold a wedding banquet, and went to Fang Xiewen's hometown to get a marriage certificate.
In fact, these are not the most outrageous, after all, they are some dispensable situations, as long as the two of them don't turn over old accounts, no one will always feel wronged, but it doesn't matter.
The most outrageous thing is that the two families didn't even see their parents, so they received a notice to get married first.
03
From ancient times to the present, getting married has been a tedious and complicated matter. The other links are constantly changing, and many processes have been canceled, but this part of meeting parents has always been there. It can be seen how important this link is to the families of both parties.
Although the two families may simply have a meal, they can discover the character of the other family's family and the attitude towards you from some details in this meal. How many newlyweds are about to get married, but after the two parties met their parents, they blew it.
Fang Xiewen's curly-haired mother has a fight with Wen Yanjing's mother. The son studied hard in the cold window, and in high school in one fell swoop, he felt that his son was invincible in the world, and the princess was worthy of it. Even Rose, a girl who has good conditions, family background, and work, feels that she has wronged her son.
With this kind of mentality, the effort of eating a meal is enough to expose it all.
At the beginning, Fang Xiewen was inferior to Rose, and all the kindness to Rose had a flattering mentality.
Later, he became better and better, his inferiority complex became weaker and weaker, and his attitude towards roses changed. This change was certainly the main factor that led to the breakdown of their marriage, but his mother was also an indispensable catalyst.
Every decision made by ordinary people in their relationships and marriages may affect the whole body. Don't walk into marriage with enthusiasm, and don't come out because of anger.
04
Rose's mother once said to her: "The secretion time of dopamine is 18 months, and during this time, any decision made may be the result of dopamine secretion!" ”
We don't have a script like Rose Gets Rose, so don't just go through any of them. Step-by-step, sometimes, is a compliment, which can become an umbrella in life.