College is a collective life, a collective life around the clock. We get along day and night, like a different kind of family. Looking back on that life many years after graduation, it is very beautiful.
Unfortunately, not all dormitories can be combined, classmates come from all over the world, tutors and habits are not the same. This can easily lead to conflicts between classmates.
The first: bring food without giving money
When I go to college, I don't have classes or I don't have to go out. Sometimes I am so lazy that I don't even want to go to the canteen, and when I see that some students want to go to the canteen, I quickly let me bring food.
This kind of bringing rice can actually be understood, and everyone has a time to be lazy to move. However, some students are embarrassed to ask for money because of other students' thin skin, so they have been relying on food money and not giving.
The cost of living during college is not high, and you can't always afford to pay for your meals. And even if you open your mouth to give, it also makes the students who bring food uncomfortable, and it is best to take the initiative to give money.
The second type: midnight talking tuberculosis type
In the dormitory, there is always a lot of talk after the lights are turned off, and various topics are chatted. Partial college students are in a time of strong curiosity, some people start to follow, often talk until very late, affecting the rest of classmates.
= There are more excessive classmates, not suitable for classmates to chat in bed, but to talk to the object on the phone. Playing games with various conductors, no accompanying person can affect an entire dormitory by one person.
Students who are in this habit should be optimistic about the dormitory situation, if the whole dormitory is a small night owl, it doesn't matter. If there are students who like to go to bed early, try not to disturb the rest of the classmates.
The third type: personal hygiene issues
Some students do not like to tidy up their personal hygiene, especially male students who like to exercise in the summer. It's easy for a person to stink a whole dorm, clothes and socks are stored together to wash at home.
The sheets were also covered with the sweat and grease of the classmates, comparable to the walnuts in the hands of the park boss. Students who have this habit must correct it, otherwise they will basically lose their right to choose a mate during the campus period.
College courses are more relaxed, and when I return to my dormitory, I want to listen to songs, chase dramas, and play games. During this period, no matter what others were doing, he never wore headphones and always opened them.
This behavior is very affecting other students, some students want to take a break, some students want to read and study. The cluttered sound will make other students feel very uncomfortable.
I want to get up early, but I don't have the strength. The phone ordered a long list of alarm clocks, but it never got up. Although many college students are in a dormitory, the course schedule is different, and students who want to sleep more in the morning are woken up.
It is recommended that students have the need to get up early and set two alarm clocks. If you don't remember it after ringing, turn it off immediately, don't let the alarm clock keep noise, and continue to sleep.
This includes a lot, such as using classmates' things is not polite at all. Laundry detergent, toilet paper, etc. can not use their own absolutely do not use their own, has been and classmates to borrow, the name is small things, you do not borrow is stingy.
There is no sense of boundaries also manifested in not taking yourself as an outsider, classmates chatting on mobile phones or writing something, always coming to see. Any privacy is like inquiring, and there is no respect at all.
These behaviors will cause disgust among classmates, but some people don't say it and like to endure it. So don't unconsciously offend your classmates and be isolated and don't know.
Whether you can get into college is a matter for teachers, whether you can successfully graduate after being admitted to college, and having a good interpersonal relationship all lie in the cultivation of parents from an early age.
The family living conditions are good, the students are the big treasures in the hands of the parents, and the degree of eating and wearing can be the students' hearts. It is easy to develop a selfish personality, during college, it is not deliberately offending classmates, but her personality has been formed and is difficult to change.
Parents should teach students from an early age how to respect and share, and know how to think from each other's point of view. In this way, you will not be isolated when you live alone.
Parents should understand a truth, without the support of a strong background, want to survive in school and after graduation. How important it is to learn to see how colorful it is, and a student with high emotional intelligence is sometimes more likely to succeed than a high IQ.
But students are still young, and if they want to grow up on their own, they must learn a lot of lessons. There are always those who have to eat, parents do not teach at home, and there will always be someone to teach in society, and the price will be greater when the time comes.
Author's Message:
The college dormitory is a collective, don't feel that you can bully other students, you can do your own thing is great. In fact, many times students are just more educated and do not want to see in general.
Some students may not have thought so much, and did not deliberately affect other students after watching these. It is best to be able to sit in the right seat, if you have these problems, correct them as soon as possible, and don't wait until you are isolated to know.
Today's topic: Do you have any classmates that you hate?
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