In the show "Daughters in Love", Mengziyi really found a good person and established a relationship with Wang Houjie. But in order to ensure that the relationship between the two people can be maintained for a longer time, there is the performance of Mengziyi's friend who is difficult for Wang Houjie. But these difficulties are not meaningless.
(1) Through inquiry, it can be seen that Wang Houjie's feelings for Mengziyi are treated. In fact, many times, we will feel that the object's friends are difficult for us, is not supportive of us together, this view is wrong, in fact, they are not difficult for us, but put forward the problem, all belong to what we never thought, they put it forward, only to give us the space to think seriously, that is, in the face of some sensitive issues, can we still put the object first?
Let's first look at the question raised by Mengziyi's friend. The first question is relatively simple, which is an entry-level test, that is, to ask "Mengziyi is not the most beautiful girlfriend Wang Houjie has talked about."
This question is the easiest way to see whether you treat the current as well as your ex, or whether you have the shadow of an ex in your heart. If there is, it means that you don't love the incumbent enough, so you will not answer firmly enough.
The answer given by Wang Houjie was still very satisfactory: "Yes." Wang Houjie's style of answer is "cut through the iron", and this decisive answer is often the most satisfactory, at least Mengziyi must be smiling in his heart.
Cao Xiyue then asked a second question: "Have you ever been ambiguous with others?" "This is also something that many girls will be particularly sensitive to and care about. It's just that Mengziyi is not convenient to say this kind of question, because if she asks, she may not be able to ask the truth, and it may also increase Wang Houjie's disgust.
But if Cao Xiyue asked questions as a friend of the woman, it would be different. Even if you can't ask the truth, as long as Wang Houjie says no, then the woman's friends can help testify, and in the future, if Wang Houjie has an ambiguous relationship with others, he will be criticized on the moral level.
Faced with this difficult question, Wang Houjie's answer was still very decisive: "No." At this time, he actually noticed Mengziyi's incomparably concerned eyes.
(2) Several difficult problems that cannot be avoided in cohabitation life. If lovers want to get married and officially together, they also need to face more problems, such as cohabitation. So what are the problems in cohabitation? There is no object or just a small partner who has an object, come and see the question raised by Mengziyi's friend.
Cao Xiyue asked a difficult trust question: "Would you mind her looking at your phone?" "In fact, the feelings between many couples will be very good, that is, they are not defensive of each other, that is, their own things are known to each other, and the other party's things they want to know, they can also know at any time."
And how to judge whether the other party is defensive against themselves? In today's information age, whether you can look at the other party's mobile phone, you can know whether the other party has fortified themselves. Wang Houjie's response was still very satisfactory: "I don't mind." ”
Cao Xiyue asked a more difficult trust question: "Meng Meng (Mengziyi) If you want to delete your best brother or best girlfriend, can you delete it?" ”
In fact, the key point of this problem is not "delete or not delete", but in your mind, how important the object is. We can often see some funny situations, that is, the object said good dating, but before the dating time came, the object said to accompany the girlfriend or good brother, can not come, please forgive me.
The reason you get angry isn't that the date is ruined, it's that you have the feeling that "I'm not as important as her girlfriend/I'm less important than his brother" feeling.
There are times when your object gets angry and says, "Then you go with xxx (the name of your girlfriend or brother). That means that your object is already very concerned about his own status and has clearly expressed to you the meaning of "I have been snubbed by you".
Cao Xiyue also asked a question: "Then do you mind female artists filming kiss scenes?" "In fact, the problem is another way to put it, that is, do you mind being taken advantage of when the object is working?
If you mind, then the work of the object is difficult to carry out. It's like selling socializing requires drinking with customers, and the front desk also faces harassment from male colleagues and so on. It is estimated that no girl is willing to put down her work after falling in love. Therefore, the implication of this sentence also includes whether to support the object to continue to work after falling in love.
Wang Houjie responded to the difficult questions raised by Cao Xiyue one after another: "I don't mind. ”
In fact, although Wang Houjie's answers are very simple, either "can" or "no" or "don't mind", in the final analysis, it is that his answers are all promising Mengziyi a better life in the future, and Mengziyi's two friends are like notaries, witnessing Wang Houjie's promises.
(1) He is not perfect, but he is willing to be perfect for Mencius. Cao Xiyue sighed and said, "What boy is so perfect", in fact, there is no perfect boy in the world, but when a boy likes a girl, he is willing to make himself progress and become more perfect. Wang Houjie is the same, he does not feel that he is perfect, in the eyes of the audience, he also has shortcomings in all aspects such as steel straight men, but he is willing to become perfect for the sake of Mengziyi.
(2) Mengziyi is also very concerned about future cohabitation life. When her friends harassed Wang Houjie, Mengziyi has always been silent and silent, but we can all see that she is already very concerned about her future life. It was precisely because she cared, so she couldn't help but keep silent, watching Wang Houjie make various promises, which also showed that Mengziyi had already accepted Wang Houjie.
Sometimes in the process of falling in love, if we are all kinds of difficulties by the object's friends, but the object does not give us a solution, it means that the answer to some questions needs us to say it, only when we say it, maybe we make a promise, can we let the object follow us wholeheartedly for a lifetime! What are your thoughts on this?