Why does the man promise to cut off Xiao Trinity, but always can't do it?
Why do men look for Little Three?
In women's ideological concepts, men look for Xiao San to either figure out freshness or figure out Xiao San's youth. In fact, the real reason for a man to find Xiao San is only the clearest in his own heart. There are only two possibilities that women can think of, in fact, there are many other reasons for men to find a little three. For example, what he wanted was not obtained in the original match, and at a special moment, Xiao San gave him enough comfort and warmth.
Of course, the sane man knows that it is not right to look for Xiao San. However, when the adrenaline spiked, he couldn't think about it so much, all he could think of was the tenderness and sweetness of this moment.
After the incident of the derailment, what women want is men's confession and return, but what men think about is how to get through this pass. As long as you can not face such embarrassment and accusations for the time being, you can admit your mistakes and make any kind of guarantees.
However, what about behind men's assurances? What about after the apology?
Many original partners have a question in their hearts, why do men agree to cut off Xiao Sanyi, but they always can't do it?
After Zhao Shuang found out that her husband cheated on him, her husband's attitude of admitting mistakes was very good. No matter how Much Zhao Shuang blamed him, he said that everything was his fault. When Zhao Shuang asked him what he wanted, his husband said that he would definitely cut off Xiao Sanyi. As long as Zhao Shuang is willing to give him another chance, he can pay any price.
Seeing that her husband's attitude is also very sincere, plus Zhao Shuang has not thought about divorce. So, the matter was closed. Zhao Shuang thought that she could trust her husband, after all these years of husband and wife, she did not believe who else could he trust?
What Zhao Shuang didn't expect was that her husband's words were beautiful, but he didn't even think about breaking with Xiao San. He thought so, when Zhao Shuang's mood was not very good, he first coaxed his wife. After his wife's state was a little better, he continued to work with the little three winds and snow moons.
Two months later, Zhao Shuang once again discovered the ambiguous information of her husband and Xiao San. Zhao Shuang questioned her husband again, and her husband's attitude was the same as the first time, looking particularly sincere. This time, her husband also knelt in front of Zhao Shuang and said that he would definitely change it in the future. However, will the husband really change? Zhao Shuang didn't dare to believe him anymore.
Men can't do it because he never wanted to cut off with Xiao Trinity. Men like to weigh the pros and cons, when he can't choose between two women, when he feels that he has the ability to balance the relationship between two women, why cut off with The Little Trinity?
The more sincere a man's attitude is, the more easily he accepts any conditions and costs that women say, and the subtext in his heart is actually, "As long as you don't divorce, you can do anything." As for what will happen later, I'll talk about it later. "Men want to drag this thing down, and it can be dragged on to which day."
The wife's mood is slightly relaxed, and the man can be with Xiao San again. Wait for the wife to find out next time, the next time she admits her mistake, the cycle begins again. Until the man himself is tired of the little three, and then change to a new one. The cheating man, as long as he himself does not want to return to the family, as long as he still has a hunting heart, the cheating will never stop. The only change is that the small three outside has become the small four.
Author: Jiang Feng, founder of the systematic method "Five-step Solution of Extramarital Affairs", national second-level psychological counselor, expert in handling extramarital affairs. When encountering marital problems such as husband's extramarital affairs and husband cheating, please bring your specific questions, leave a message or private message to me, I will answer your questions. Thank you for your cooperation!
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