A few days ago, Yi Nengjing and Haring's son shared two photos of their own women's clothing on a social network.
In the photo, he has long hair and a short slip dress, which is very delicate and personal.
But it is precisely because of these two photos that he hung on the hot search for 5 consecutive days and was on the cusp of Internet public opinion.
A crusade of curiosity mentality
"It's disgusting."
"He's not mentally ill."
"He's a gay."
"He's so cool, he dares to do what he loves."
"Don't mind what others think!"
"He's happy and talented, and his parents are very tolerant before he continues to do what he loves."
There are always two sides to things, and extreme comments will always fill your eyeballs.
Just because he is the son of a star, he has to endure a lot of criticism on the Internet.
But seeing that most of the comments are open and respectful is a little comforting.
The cultural literacy of a society is manifested in the degree of tolerance of people's thoughts.
An open pluralistic society should not simply be lip serviced.
Traditional culture admonishes us to abide by the three principles and five constants, and whether these three principles and five constants are bad or essential is questionable.
The Qing Dynasty is dead, although there are no women wrapping their feet and no men with braided heads.
But in this conformist environment, what a person loves and what he wears still has to be attacked by everyone.
They looked at the 18-year-old with strange eyes and a curious mentality.
He even thinks that he wears women's clothes because of psychological problems and is seriously affected by single-parent families, resulting in a lack of family affection.
Good people are needlessly denigrated
As everyone knows, Harry is very good under the teaching of his mother Yi Nengjing and his own efforts.
Yi Nengjing once revealed that her son was admitted to the top university in the most difficult design class in London, England.
He also mastered a number of specialties such as writing songs, drawing, dancing, and shooting short films, and his homework was never lower than A.
Recently, in the recording of the variety show in which Yi Nengjing participated,
Harry not only choreographed his mother's new song, but also instructed her mother in one movement and one movement at a time.
From the life dynamics shared by Yi Nengjing, it is not difficult to see that Harry has his own ideas and artistic talents.
I have always felt that women's clothing is not representative of the difference in orientation,
Single-parent families do not represent their personal cultivation and quality, personal hobbies are purely personal hobbies,
And why is it linked to psychology and family? And it is even more impossible to judge a person in terms of sexual orientation.
There is an anti-string actor named Ye Zihan in China,
Dressed as a woman on the stage of "Super Speaker", he said,
Imagine becoming a real woman like Venus, and dream of becoming an anti-string actor like Li Yugang.
He confessed that because of his short stature, men's clothing made him feel unconfident.
On the contrary, women's clothing can make him regain his enthusiasm for life.
In life, Ye Zihan also suffered from people's cold eyes and cold violence.
But he didn't change his heart because of this. Instead, I work harder on performance,
With its exquisite anti-string skills, it is sought after by the outside world as "a strange flower in the anti-string world".
In "Very Good", he was praised for having a "Zhou Xun Yin Line".
In this diverse society, excellent people are needlessly denigrated by the outside world, and they should be brave enough to be themselves!
Everyone has their own preferences, and you can disagree with not liking other people's lives.
Maybe these photos, this kind of dress will make you feel diaphragm, but you can't use it to verbally attack,
Discriminating against others is the most basic quality cultivation of people.
There are no two snowflakes in the world that are exactly the same.
Stereotypes make us follow the rules and dare not try new things.
Most people are like frogs at the bottom of the well, looking up at the sky at the four corners,
You can never appreciate the vast world from the perspective of an eagle.
Dare to live out yourself, must be the confidence given by your parents
With the support of his mother, the son insisted on what he wanted to do and became "someone else's child".
When Harry was asked what was the advantage of his mother Yi Nengjing, he replied that Yi Nengjing took good care of his life and was very attentive.
As a parent, you can only test whether your child is qualified after he or she reaches adulthood.
And Yi Nengjing did it.
We may ask what kind of person to raise children into, which is the greatest success of education.
A netizen said it particularly well: cultivate children to have their own opinions when things happen,
Having its own rules and having its own goals in mind is the most successful education for children.
What is the most important thing about being a parent. It's respect and love.
And this love is mutual, Yi Nengjing once revealed,
Before participating in the recording of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", the family was opposed,
But only Harry supported it, saying, "Go, for us, it's only four months of life, but for Mom, it may be a new beginning in the next life." You support us in being ourselves, and we also hope that our mothers will not give up for being mothers. ”
The movie "Danish Girl" also plays a redemption of respect and understanding,
When she discovers that her husband Aina has a girl named "Lily" hidden inside,
Instead of abandoning him and spitting on him, his wife helped him bravely chase his true soul.
Respect and support does not necessarily mean indulging children.
Instead, he may have a clearer understanding of himself and of what he wants to do, rather than acting like a puppet with a string.
He has his own soul and his own ideas.
The mouths are shoveled, and the bones are destroyed.
Even in this pluralistic society, there are still people who wear women's clothes disgusting in the comment area,
No amount of rebuttal can change the real-life, colored-glasses comment.
But more importantly I saw an excellent homeschooling.
Learn to respect, learn to tolerate, the world will not have so much malice.