The original family has a great influence on a person, it affects people's values, marriage concepts...
There are many stars in the entertainment industry who have been affected by their original family encounters for a lifetime, and many actresses are disappointed in marriage and choose not to marry.
The actress mentioned below is because of her parents' failed marriage, choosing to fall in love but not willing to get married.
This actress is Hong Kong actress Liu Yucui.
Speaking of Liu Yucui, everyone may not be familiar with this name, but when it comes to her being the actor of Huang Rihua's version of "Tianlong Babu", everyone is familiar with it.
Of course, as the golden supporting role of Hong Kong TVB, the Princess Jianning she played in Chen Xiaochun's version of "Deer Dingji", the spider spirit played in Zhang Weijian's version of "Journey to the West", and the Deng Yuchan played in "Fengshen Edition" also impressed many people.
Family of origin
Born in Hong Kong in 1966, Lau's father was an ordinary taxi driver and her mother was a traditional housewife.
The parents' feelings were not good, and the two quarreled continuously without a word, and then before the parents divorced, the father brought back an aunt to live with.
In an interview, the host Li Jing asked Liu Yucui, at that time, did her father and mother bring back an aunt without divorce?
Liu Yucui said yes, she said that in that era, divorce was not popular, and her mother was a very traditional person. She hadn't worked, and Mom felt she couldn't afford to leave Dad to live on her own.
Her family was not rich, but her family had been giving birth to children endlessly, and then the poorer they were, the poorer they were, the poorer they were.
Liu Yucui introduced that her father and her mother had 9 children, and later aunt gave birth to 8 children, a total of 17 children in the family, Liu Yucui ranked 13.
Her father is still a typical machismo, strict requirements for his wife and children, coupled with many brothers and sisters, noisy contradictions, economic conditions are not rich, the whole family of 20 people rely on the father's salary to support, always above the poverty line, mothers and children, once they do something that makes their father unhappy, they may suffer a beating at any time.
Career start
The children of poor families have long been in charge. Liu Yucui's brothers and sisters went out to work early to earn money, and Liu Yucui, as the eldest thirteenth in the 4th grade, began to help her mother go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, wash vegetables and cook.
However, because the brothers and sisters went out to work early, the family's economic situation has improved, so that Liu Yucui has the opportunity to go to college to systematically study acting.
In 1986, Liu Yucui was admitted to the Drama School of the Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts and became a contemporary classmate of Zhan Ruiwen, Chen Jinhong, Kwan Po Wai and Liu Yali.
In 1989, Liu Yucui, who was in her junior year, was fortunately favored by director Liu Guochang and starred in the movie "Queen of Temple Street", playing Zhang Aijia's daughter, whose rebellion and incomprehension with her mother were vividly interpreted by Liu Yucui.
In 1990, Liu Yucui won the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress and the Best Newcomer Award for "Temple Street Queen", and she was also the first double winner in the history of the Academy Awards.
Such a high starting point in the film and television circle allowed Liu Yucui to successfully sign a contract with Hong Kong Wireless as soon as he graduated from University.
TVB Golden Supporting Role
Unlike today's internal entertainment, where a little traffic can be the protagonist and get a high salary, in the star-studded TVB of that year, it is difficult to get a role, and it is even more difficult to be the protagonist. You must know that Zhou Xingchi, Liang Chaowei, and Miao Qiaowei also ran through the dragon set.
Even Liu Yucui, who has a high starting point, TVB did not give her the opportunity of the protagonist. However, with her unique performance style and temperament, she still performed her own characteristics with many supporting roles with few roles, and created many classic images that were fascinating.
In 1997, when "Tianlong Babu" was broadcast, she entered the career of mainland audiences with "Ah Zi".
In 1998, "Deer DingJi" was broadcast, and the delicate and spicy Princess Jianning in the play was another of her most memorable characters, and the subsequent broadcasts of "The Sea of Clouds Churning Sun Wukong", "The Legend of the Human Dragon", "The List of Fengshen Gods" and other works made her a "golden supporting role" in the eyes of the public.
Suffer from depression
For an ambitious actor, how can he always be willing to play a supporting role, each of them has a protagonist dream in their hearts.
She worked hard to get a protagonist, and it is said that Liu Yucui worked 7 days a week without rest, 18 hours a day, and even did not sleep for three or four days when she was busiest.
However, Liu Yucui has worked hard for 10 years, and he wants to be the protagonist but has no achievements at all. Zhang Weijian, Chen Haomin and others who filmed with her have long been household names, and she is still the "A Zi" and "Princess Jianning" in everyone's mouth.
She once said in "Super Speaker": Fate is so tricky, when I am not ready, it gives me so high honors. But when I struggled for 10 years, it didn't give me any hope. I am envious, jealous, angry, and resentful, but in the end I am only unwilling, unwilling to be a supporting role for decades, not willing to be able to withstand a "Zi" after decades of hard work.
Under high-intensity work and psychological pressure, Liu Yucui suffered from major depression.
Fortunately, in the company of her boyfriend outside the circle, she actively cooperated with the doctor's treatment, and her condition gradually improved, and eventually she survived the most difficult days.
Love does not want to get married
Lucky people heal their whole lives with childhood, and unfortunate people heal their childhood with a lifetime.
Stills of Liu Yucui when she was young
The boyfriend outside the circle who accompanied Liu Yucui through the difficult days is a designer, and the two have been in love for 25 years. But for her boyfriend's many marriage proposals, she refused, once on a certain show she chose to propose to her boyfriend on the show, but she has not yet seen her enter the palace of marriage.
In the interview, Li Jing once asked her if the state of her parents would have an impact on her marriage.
She said without hesitation: Yes, I will believe in love, but I will not believe in marriage, marriage is not necessarily happy, there will be quarrels and divorce, it is not as easy as two people together.
Now 55 years old, Liu Yucui has entered the year of knowing the destiny of heaven, and her whole person looks more open-minded and tolerant than ever, and the things that cannot be let go of it seem to be no longer important.
Life is long and short, and we don't have to be comfortable with ourselves throughout our lives.
May you and I, through thorns and thorns, not be limited by the world, and live out our hearts of ourselves.