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In the impression of our ordinary people, whether a child is here to repay the favor mainly depends on whether the child is sensible and well-behaved enough. And a child who comes to collect debts may be a mischievous, disobedient, and make his parents unconscious. But is this really the case?
In fact, a child who comes to repay the favor usually has the following 4 characteristics, we can sit in the right seat, even if there is a little hit, we should be worth stealing pleasure.
One. Babies love to laugh and not cry
In fact, babies who laugh early are quite smart, and children who don't like to cry really make parents worry. The combination of the two is a blessing for parents, because your baby has a high IQ and is very easy to carry, so as not to cause trouble for the child. Isn't that the greatest blessing in a family? And a debt collection child is just the opposite, they often cry to make their parents despair and collapse, this kind of children often cry during the day and cry at night, parents are also physically and mentally exhausted, the more fiercely she cries, which greatly folds the happiness of parents, is not to collect debts.
Second, everything you eat is fragrant
Children who eat everything have a good appetite and a good mentality, and such children do not need parents to rack their brains to coax their children to eat, and their physical fitness is relatively good, and they do not love to get sick. This greatly saves parents' medical expenses, and also makes parents more worry-free. At the same time, a child who comes to collect debts is just the opposite, day by day this does not eat, that does not love, let the parents for her to eat broken heart, because the child does not love to eat for a long time this does not love to eat that, resulting in the child's weak body, often sick, which not only consumes the family's huge financial resources but also makes the parents physically and mentally exhausted, all day long afraid.
Third, the results are stable
Learning is a topic that every parent cares more about than just the physical health of their children. And those who repay the favor do not need excessive management from their parents, they know the importance of learning, and can make learning their main goal to complete, while those who collect debts are not, they are not interested in learning, and even do not pay attention to any skills and behaviors that help them improve, which will add a lot of troubles to the future family.
Some people say, so it seems that my child is a debt collector, so how can I make my child become a reward?
In fact, this requires more wisdom and patience from parents. As parents of children, we must understand the educational policy of step-by-step and silent, and at the same time, we must master the skills of scientific parenting and work the character of children. As long as parents use their own correct way of love and use their own behavior to impress their children, I believe that even children who come to collect debts will become grateful children.
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