Since the fire of Where Daddy Went, various parent-child variety shows have been reflected in front of the public. In addition to watching cute babies, the methods of educating their children by the parents of the stars in these programs are also worth learning from many parents. Although the vast majority of parents do not have the economic strength of stars, parents can give their children, in addition to material things, more importantly, to improve the child's personality, which is the true sense of the child's "rich support".
It is reported that Lee Seung-hyun has stopped working to take care of Qi Wei at home since Qi Wei became pregnant, and after the birth of his daughter Lucky, in order to let his wife Qi Wei work without distraction, he took the initiative to be a full-time father at home. Recently, Lee Seung-hyun took his and Qi Wei's daughter to star in a parent-child show. After watching him get along with his daughter, netizens directly called this a "human high-quality dad". After watching several episodes of the show, the editor summarized the four points when Lee Seung-hyun was with his daughter.
In one show, Lucky did not eat well, at this time as a father, Lee Seung-hyun was a little angry, and the tone of the tone was heavier when talking to Lucky, presumably this is a mistake that many parents often make. But when Lee Seung-hyun saw that Lucky's wish to the wish fairy was "Daddy is not angry", Lee Seung-hyun, as a father, began to reflect on himself, feeling that he had no patience and should not control the play of a three-year-old child too much. After he asked Lucky if he was too angry and got a positive answer from his daughter, he apologized to her daughter and promised that he would be less angry in the future.
Soon after, three-year-old Lucky covered the mouths of other children in a certain show, and when she saw the other party crying, she immediately realized that it was wrong to do so. So he immediately took the initiative to admit his mistake, and also told other small partners who were unwilling to apologize, "It doesn't matter, there is no shame in apologizing." Three-year-olds can quickly perceive the emotional changes of others, and they can also reflect on their own mistakes, which is really inseparable from Lee Seung-hyun's words and deeds.
In the show, Lee Seung-hyun will take the initiative to seek help from his daughter Lucky. This seemingly small move actually satisfies the daughter's sense of need and is also conducive to cultivating the child's helpful character. After his daughter finished helping, he would not hesitate to praise the child and encourage and respect his daughter's help. When her daughter Lucky is afraid to leave her father to complete the task alone, Lee Seung-hyun begins to encourage Lucky, praising her as a brave child and telling her daughter that her bravery can be exchanged for a better house and food.
When Lucky recorded a song, the recording process was not smooth because she could not remember the dance movements and could not find the camera, but Lee Seung-hyun did not have any impatience, but instead took the lead dancer for her daughter offstage. Another time, Lucky dropped her toy on the plane. Lee Seung-hyun did not blame his daughter or ignore the matter at the first time, but immediately returned to the airport to help her daughter find toys. But when he gave the toy to his daughter, he told Lucky solemnly: "You can't mess around with the things you care about, although Dad helped you find it, but it took a lot of other people's time." That's not good. ”
Now many parents feel that everything they do is for the good of their children, but this is actually detrimental to their children's self-growth. You can give the child directions, but you can't force the child to take the path you are pointing to A reporter jokingly asked Lee Seung-hyun if he would designate doll kisses for lucky, and the Korean-American man, after understanding the meaning of "doll kiss", replied solemnly: "As a father, I have no right to determine who she wants to be with." When she grows up, we as parents can only create an optimal environment for her and let her make an optimal choice. ”
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