Many of the evils of people come from greed, and most of the car accidents are too fast. In a family is also like this, many things are from dissatisfaction, so there is a contradiction between husband and wife, the escalation of contradictions will lead to the breakdown of feelings, for most broken marriages are not able to understand and tolerate each other, greedy hearts can not be satisfied.
Some people often say that life must be full of joy, in fact, this sentence is completely exaggerated. The real life is not like this, and life cannot be full of joy. As the old saying goes, since ancient times, life is the most taboo, that is, the most taboo thing in a person's life is to seek perfection, because ah, the water is overflowing, the prosperity is declining, and the things will be reversed, so it is said that the blessing cannot be enjoyed, the blessing is the disaster, for this statement, it is the same law that has not changed through the ages, and it is the same in marriage, and the desire is not reached, you always go to the rapid pursuit of perfection, then it is to speed up your blessing.
Lao Tzu once said that where misfortune and happiness depend, where blessings and misfortunes lie, blessings are exhausted, disasters come, and disasters are blessed. Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other and transform each other. That is, in a person's lifetime, how many blessings he enjoys, and how many sins he should suffer, there is a definite number. Many couples have just come together, they want to soar, do not get what they want, complain about each other, they do not want to pay anything, all they want is harvest, then how is it possible?
Envy how happy others are, look at how rich other people's men are, how you don't see how much they have paid, how you don't look at their background. All you think about is good, you just haven't thought about what you should give. It is normal for you to suffer a little when you are young, but all you think about is to enjoy happiness, never think about how to suffer, so you start complaining about your parents, complaining about your bad life.
You have to remember that if you don't suffer from sin when you are young and enjoy the blessings ahead of time, then you will still find you when you are old. Just like there are many parents who dot on their children in particular, spoil their children to heaven, give their children food when they are young, hold them in their hands for fear of being frightened, hold them in their mouths for fear of melting, fear that their children will be wronged and suffered, and enjoy the blessings that they should not enjoy at a young age, in fact, they are consuming the blessings of their children, and when they grow up, they will suffer more suffering, which is the result of the so-called doting.
So if you pursue happiness too much when you are young, it is not a good thing, complaining that your parents have given you too little, if you enjoy all the blessings at a young age, then when you are old, then it will be very miserable. Therefore, in the past, some old people often said that young people must cultivate blessings, middle-aged people must accumulate blessings, and old people can enjoy blessings, which is the natural law of life. But today's young people, once married, it's like having everything, just like your parents owe you in their previous lives.
Young people, you must understand the truth that blessings are exhausted, and misfortunes come, so you can't enjoy the blessings in front, you can't enjoy the blessings, you must leave a little behind, because you still have to have descendants, you must not be greedy, even if you have merit, you must give up three points to others, if you just know to take, do not know to pay, and use up all the blessings at once, then the day of your sin will come. We must know how to cherish blessings and accumulate blessings, even if we cannot do good deeds and accumulate virtues, we must not be too selfish and greedy, so that this is the law of nature.
If you are young, think carefully about this article, and if you have reached the age of confusion, let your children take a good look at it. Don't know to play every day, know to enjoy, no money to reach out, do something to shout tired, no money to complain about parents are impatient, lose people? For most families, there will be such a phenomenon, if the mother is stronger than the father, that is, the so-called strong, then the family will not be peaceful, and even some chaos. Fathers can't lift their heads at home, and the atmosphere doesn't dare to come out, so their sons will be timid like rats outside.
If there is a daughter, then she will learn from her mother, and when she marries one day, she will also want to be the head of the person's home, so that which family will be like this, and it will often be messed up. For this kind of thing, it cannot be said that it is 100%, but it can account for 90%, which is called a growth environment that will definitely affect a person's future.
If you take a closer look, are there many such people around you?