Anjie has been stable and happy all her life, and smart women really should learn.
Anjie's life
Anjie was born in a bourgeois family, from childhood life is superior, she herself spontaneously has a sense of superiority, for Jiang Defu's pursuit at that time, she did not look up to it at first, disliked Jiang Defu is a big boss, disliked him is an illiterate. Later, because of her own vanity, and the overall situation of the country has been decided, it is also good to think of being an officer's wife, just like she often said that "the person who knows the times is Junjie", just like this she married Jiang Defu.
Some of the advantages of Anjie, smart women really should learn:
First, the person who knows the times is Junjie
In the face of the social situation at that time, although the bourgeoisie had a superior life, it was not welcomed by the public in that social environment. Therefore, Anjie is always very timid when working, feeling inferior, and always afraid to speak when facing the director.
So even if Jiang Defu, who had no culture at that time, went to ask her to marry her, she was also very happy, after all, she was able to climb the relationship with the officer, which was also a great honor, and it also greatly satisfied her vanity, she no longer had to live that kind of low-pitched and deflated day, she herself had a big miss temper in her mother's family, this time she was even more proud, even Ouyang Yi said that her chin was going to go up to the sky.
Even if she knew at that time that Jiang Defu was married for the second time, and after getting married, looking at Jiang Defu's stinky diseases and inconspicuous living habits, although she despised it, she also forced him to change.
A small fight between two people
Second, always maintain your own elegance
It can be seen from the play that although Anjie is married to a Communist officer, she still retains some bourgeois living habits, although she does not show it outside, but when she is at home, she often shows some bourgeois habits, which also makes Jiang Defu, who has never lived a bourgeois life, occasionally shine.
Third, there is culture
In the era of liberation at that time, after many soldiers were promoted to officers, most of them began to dislike their wives of chaff and chaff, but because they had just been liberated, they could not make problems with their work style, and many people did not say anything in their mouths, and in their hearts they wanted to find a cultured wife to fill their faces.
Anjie learned a lot more cultural knowledge when he was in his boudoir than those officers, and Jiang Defu married such a beautiful and cultured wife, which can really be said to be envious of others. A woman like Anjie not only raised his face in front of many officers, but also improved his son.
Including the later Lao Ding, Wang Haiyang's father, after the death of his wife, he wanted to marry a cultured person again.
Cultured women are the cutest
Fourth, keep learning and enrich yourself
Even when Anjie gave birth to a child, he did not give up his job, and since he went to the island, he has been working as an elementary school teacher. It's not like other women are at home to teach their children, do housework and the like.
This is also what makes Jiang Defu feel that she is different from other women, even if he feels that Anjie's work is not so important, but there is something to do every day, and he will not be as gossipy as other women, although Jiang Defu often laughs at Anjie's love, but he also enjoys it.
Fifth, constantly change yourself for each other
From the beginning to the end, we can clearly see Anjie's change for Jiang Defu, at first she was not used to Jiang Defu and Jiang Dehua's living habits, even the name was disliked, and then slowly run-in, she also gradually accepted their way of life, and also tried to change their way of life.
It's like in the play where the family members of Dehua and Commissar Wang dried turnips on the house, and she went up after work, following them to talk and laugh on the house, and also farted, causing everyone to laugh. This also shows that Anjie is slowly putting down the shelf, no longer holding it, and slowly getting along with them as an equal.
This change of hers made Jiang Defu also brighten his eyes, although he said that he complained on his lips, he must have been thinking in his heart, "How can this mother-in-law be so able to be a demon?" ”。
Two people get along, what is needed is not a person's unilateral payment, Anjie is proud, but her pride is innate, but she is willing to change herself for Jiang Defu, let herself go down, and constantly level the distance with Jiang Defu.
Constantly getting close to each other
Sixth, proper small temper
When Anjie and Jiang Defu talk about the object, they belong to the kind of appearance that is both cheerful and a little shy, and they want to get away with it just right, and jiang Defu is also obsessed with her.
The daily temper makes Jiang Defu really love and angry with her, and everyone who has watched the drama knows that Anjie likes to skim his lips, and even Jiang Dehua and her girlfriend have learned her skimming.
Her little temper made Jiang's otherwise boring political life fun. But Anjie knows how to stop at the right time, unless something crosses her bottom line, such as Jiang Defu's son who appeared for no reason, although Anjie later learned that it was not his son.
Seventh, understand the unity of husband and wife
When Anjie returned to her mother's house when she was just pregnant, she overheard a conversation between her eldest brother and her nephew at the door, which meant that she would not let her little nephew learn jiang Defu to eat, which was as ugly as a pig. Anjie returned home in a huff, and even her brother was reluctant to go for his birthday, or Jiang Defu persuaded her.
Another time, my brother's family came to their house and thought about arranging a job for my niece. Anjie's attitude was not particularly good, but Jiang Defu asked her why? She said, "Can my brother have a husband?" This is enough to show that Anjie really understands the truth of the unity of husband and wife.
Then there is the sister after the disaster, she did not look for Jiang Defu to help, she felt that it was because of her, Jiang Defu did not go up, this time she did not want to make him embarrassed because of her own affairs, if it were not for Jiang Defu going to the sea to see, maybe she would not say it in her lifetime.
Think more about each other
These advantages of Anjie really need us girls to study well, whether unmarried or married. Unmarried girls must polish their eyes when choosing a marriage partner, and in the long run, see if this man has responsibility, whether he has responsibility, whether he has ambition, and must understand thoroughly. Otherwise, after marriage, it will be a lifelong thing.
Married to learn her godfather's way, small fights, small troubles, big noises and hurts, everything should not be too extreme, can not be sulking with themselves, the idea to cure each other, but remember, everything can not be too much.
Well, that's all about Anjie's cleverness, and if you have any other insights, you're welcome to add.
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