"Life's encounters are difficult to control, some things are not your fault, nor can you stop them, what you can choose is not to give up, but to continue to work hard for a better life." 」
Nick Hu Zhe, a special person who was born with no hands and no feet, suffered from seal limbism, but used his own mouth to inspire thousands of people who had been hesitating on a difficult journey.
With a firm and witty mouth, Nick achieved a remarkable result: a billionaire fortune, and married a delicate Asian wife, giving birth to 4 children.
Doesn't that look like a story? But it's real.
Nick Hu Zhe was born in Australia, on a day in December 1982, when a pregnant woman in October gave birth to a baby boy.
The father who heard the news was overjoyed, and when he held the baby in his arms, he was momentarily stunned: a small face that was no different from an ordinary baby, the same crying as an ordinary baby, but a strange image with no hands and no feet.
This child was Nick Hu zhe, who was born without limbs, but with two small feet the size of toes under his left hip.
Nick's parents are puzzled, his mother as a medical staff can not understand, during the pregnancy process, all the examinations are normal, why give birth to such a "deformed" baby?
Nick put it this way in a later interview:
"My mother was a nurse herself and did everything according to the rules during her pregnancy, but she blamed herself for it all the time."
In fact, Nick's problem was very rare at the time, and after many consultations at the hospital, he came to the conclusion that Nick had congenital "seal atrophy".
This is a harsh answer, but also a harsh reality.
But as parents, Nick's family chose to accept it silently, and they decided to raise the child as if it were a normal child.
Thus, a life that was different from ordinary people began.
When Nick was young, he had no idea he was disabled, because his parents would never instill in him the fact that he was disabled. Instead, they treat it as a normal child, and what other children do, they will guide him to do.
"My father put me in the water when I was 18 months old and gave me the courage to learn to swim."
Although Nick has no hands and feet, he has a lot of sports skills: swimming, skateboarding, etc., and it is said that he likes to watch the Premier League the most.
As a computer programmer, his father had long thought of teaching his son a skill, and when Nick was 6 years old, his father taught him to type with his two small feet.
When it was time to enroll, Nick was also sent to a regular elementary school by his father, who was in an electric wheelchair and cared for by a special person.
My mother studied a plastic device pen herself to make it easier for him to write.
However, the fact of disability was still very obvious at this time, and without the care of his parents, Nick became a strange person in the mouths of the children, who laughed at him, bullied him, and gave him blank eyes.
This is a very big harm to a child who has just entered life.
"When I was 8 years old, I was very depressed, and I yelled at my mother and told her I wanted to die."
Nick's pain began in elementary school, and it existed every day of his growth, so his psychological pressure can be imagined, which made him unable to face life for a while.
After two years of such a life, Nick finally did not want to continue, and one day when he was 10 years old, he quietly filled the bathtub with water and wanted to drown in the bathtub.
Fortunately, the parents found out in time that the tragedy did not happen. It was also at this time that his mother kept telling him stories about the disabled characters and telling him the way to overcome difficulties.
At the age of 13, Nick read an article about a disabled person who was not willing to be trampled by fate, set great goals for himself, and finally achieved them.
From this incident, Nick seems to have suddenly woken up to the fact that he should not indulge in his own pain and extricate himself, but should face life bravely like others, and then chase his inner dreams.
It was from this time that Nick began a life of normal thinking.
He studied hard, automatically avoided the ridicule of others, and through his own efforts, became a member of Griffith University at the age of 19.
After entering college, Nick fell in love with the orator Reggie Dabbs, and in this man he seemed to have received inspiration: to take a life that was autonomous through speech.
It was difficult at first, and Nick kept running into a wall to get a chance to speak publicly, and kept hitting a wall and was disappointed 52 times, until the 53rd time he knocked on the door of employment, he got through: a 5-minute motivational speech for a business, paid $50.
No one expected that when Nick became famous, he was not a disabled person on the stage, on the contrary, he was determined and funny, he was optimistic and natural, and deeply touched the audience.
In this way, Nick's speech life officially began, not only became a celebrity, but also collected his own speech materials into a book for publication. At this point, Nick's billionaire fortune has been realized.
What the world does not expect is that when you face life truly and have the courage to accept reality, God has no way to be unmoved.
During a lecture trip to Dallas, Nick was impressed by a Japanese woman named Kanae Miyahara, who had a mixed-race face of Japan and Mexico.
Nick did not flinch and immediately launched his pursuit of Miyahara Kanae:
"In the beginning, she (Miyahara Kanae) she only told me that she lived in Los Angeles, but when we met our eyes, the sky was on fire, and then I pursued her for 6 months, we were together for 12 months, then we got engaged, and after 6 months we got married..."
Today, Nick has four children with Kanae Miyahara, and they are cute and normal, which is Nick's greatest happiness.
"I don't think I'm good enough, it's the biggest lie, thinking I'm worthless, it's the biggest deception."
That's what Nick said and did, and he did.
How many people choose to take their own lives because of a little work failure, and how many people indulge themselves because of the difficulties of life? But Nick told the world with his own specialty: if you fall, you must learn to get up and start caring for yourself.
Today, Nick has moved with his family to the United States, where he continues his oratorical career and even plans to travel to South Africa and the Middle East.
What an exciting life, I really hope that everyone in life can have Nick's firmness and self-confidence, and live with enthusiasm like him!