Sima Qian, in the "History of Ji Zheng Lie", has such a famous saying:
"A life of death is a friendship." One poor and one rich, is to know the state of intercourse. One expensive and one cheap, friendship is seen. ”
Liu Yuxi's "Bamboo Branch Words", "Long hate people's hearts are not as good as water, waiting for idle waves." ”
Bai Juyi's "Taihang Road", "It is difficult to walk, not in the water, not in the mountains, only in the repetition of human feelings." ”
The popular characters say that the people of the world are full of hearts, and a person often has to see the depth of friendship with another person when his fate is in danger, when he is poor and embarrassed, and when his status is low and humble.
In fact, what is seen in suffering is not only true feelings, but more importantly, false intentions and coolness.
How many icing on the cake, how many people are there in the snow? This is the case in the human world.
Wang Wei once wrote a famous "cool and thin" work, writing about the hot and cool world:
Drinking wine and the monarch is self-exonerated, and human feelings are turned upside down like waves.
Prime Minister Bai zhiyu pressed the sword, and Zhu Men Xianda laughed at the crown.
The color of the grass is all wet by the drizzle, and the flowers and branches want to move the spring wind and cold.
The world is full of clouds and asks, it is better to lie high and eat.
- "Drinking wine and Petty"
The poem is titled "Drinking wine and Peidi", which is a work of encouragement written to his friend Peidi.
It was written during Wang Wei's hermitage in The Chuan River. At this time, Wang Wei, after experiencing the ups and downs of the eunuch sea, had more understanding of the world's coldness.
On the surface, this poem was written by Wang Wei to his friend Pei Di, but in fact, it was also written to Wang Wei himself.
Let me pour you a glass of wine, and please masturbate to yourself, because the capriciousness of human nature is like a wave.
Even if people are old, they must still be vigilant at all times.
Prime Minister Bai knows that this is still the case, and the others are even more needless to say.
Once the rich and noble are mastered, they will be lightly squeezed out of those who later become officials, and even fall into the well.
In the first two leagues, Wang Wei seemed to be making a consolation speech, but in fact, he reflected the helplessness and indignation in his heart.
The enemy turns against each other, and the people's hearts are uncertain.
Is what he said only available in the official arena?
No, what he said was the naked and cruel truth of the world.
As Guo Degang once said:
The poor stand in the street and play with ten steel hooks, and they can't hook the flesh and bones of their relatives; the rich people play with knives, guns, and sticks in the deep mountains and old forests, and they can't beat the unrighteous guests.
After Fan Jinzhong's move, the neighbors all came to say hello and flatter, as if those who laughed and despised Fan Jin in the past were another wave of people.
Su Qin returned to his hometown with the Six Kingdoms Xiangyin, and used to look down on his sister-in-law who was creeping on the ground to greet him. Su Qin asked her why she used to be empress dowager, and the eldest sister-in-law replied, because you are now famous and powerful and rich.
The world is bustling, all for profit; the world is bustling, all are for profit. This has been true since ancient times.
In the face of this reality, Wang Wei's answer is: It is better to lie high and eat more than to ask the question of the floating clouds of the world.
He chose to abandon the world and throw himself into the mountains.
"The grass color is all wet by the drizzle, and the flowers and branches want to move the spring wind and cold. "The neck joint turns from discussion to writing scene, and philosophy is in that scenery, slowly sprouting and growing.
In the secular world, it is a hot and cool world, human feelings are overturned, today the cup is drunk, tomorrow is regarded as a vendetta.
Dahua nature, on the other hand, is selfless in heaven and earth, and all things are benevolent.
Grass, trees, flowers, trees, drizzle and spring wind, is the general equality, no distinction between high and low, no distinction between noble and low, no sigh of likes and dislikes.
Snobbish, cool, and so on!
If it is not enough, then there is no need to bother, it is better to live in the mountains and forests, eat more, and take care of your body.
This is Wang Wei's solution, and it is also his philosophy of life.
The conditions of the times were there, and the hermits of the Tang Dynasty had their own status, which can also be seen from the discussion of the literati doctors "Big Cain", "Little Cain" and "Zhong Cain".
Wang Wei has the ability and the capital to become a hermit.
However, in modern times, if you say that you have had enough of the cold of the world, want to become a hermit, lie high in the mountains and forests, and never have a dispute with the world, and do not attract a blank eye, it is called great luck.
Marxism-Leninism has taught us from a young age that specific problems should be analyzed in detail.
We also need our own solutions.
This solution, in my opinion, is these 8 words - "do not add to the line, poor do not lose".
It comes from Mencius' Dedication to the Heart, the original text is: "Gentleman's nature, although the great deeds are not added, although the poor do not lose, the division is also determined." ”
A true gentleman is not proud and rampant when he attains enlightenment, and he never bends his knees when he is frustrated and poor, and he does not damage his own will.
This is true for oneself, and it should be true for oneself and for oneself.
When you are proud, I do not bow my knees; when you are frustrated, I will never look at each other coldly.
True maturity is neither self-righteous insight into the world and playing with people's hearts; nor is it only seeing the dark side of human nature, and from then on being discouraged and cloaked in an indifferent shell.
Instead, choose to always be sober and rational without losing generosity and compassion, look at human nature, and face life.
"There is great respect for the merits of human nature, and great compassion for the weaknesses of human nature."
This is a necessity for understanding literature, a necessity for understanding human nature, and a necessity for letting go, learning to let go, and living more easily.
The most disgusting thing in the world is that you see the hypocritical side of a person, but other people don't see it, they think he is so beautiful on the surface.
When you grow up, you find that sometimes you tell the truth, and you have to apologize to people because you have punctured the facts. So if you want to live smoothly, please always bring your brain.
Don't open your wounds to others, there are more people in the world who are not doctors, but more people who sprinkle salt.
Effort doesn't necessarily pay off, but at least connect you with people who work just as hard and want to be better, and you'll meet better people. No backstage, no background, no relationship. Then go to the future, fight for the future, and rely on ambition! God never treats anyone who tries to live hard.
Don't always complain that life is not lucky enough, it is you who owe life an effort, every time you hate now, there is a past that is not hard enough... Whether the future is beautiful or not depends on whether you fight now or not.
There is no shortcut to life, it tests your perseverance and endurance, as long as you persist a little more, endure more, do not lament the past, do not waste the present, do not fear the future, everything will be in your grasp.
More yesterday, less tomorrow. The road has been long, more people have been met, and I have inadvertently found that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calmness and calmness of the heart, the wisdom and clarity of the mind.
Life is often like this, the hope you think is actually to make you fall deeper into despair; and what you think is endless despair, but in a corner but full of hope.
In fact, there is nothing that cannot be let go. As time goes by, when you look back, you will find that you once thought you could not let go of things, but just a springboard in life that makes you grow.
There are two realms in life, one is pain without words, and the other is laughter without words. Pain without words is a kind of wisdom, and laughing without saying is a kind of open-mindedness.
When you are hungry, some people will give you half of the steamed buns, this is friendship, some people will let you eat the steamed buns first, this is love, some people will give you all the steamed buns, this is family affection, some people will hide the steamed buns, tell you that he is also hungry, this is society.
Real society and life tell men and women that loyal and honest people always suffer losses, kind and honest people always suffer; people who can't let go are always suffering, and people who can't see are always suffering.
Don't interpret a life you're not good at for the sake of audiences who don't belong to you. What other people think of you has nothing to do with you. How you live has nothing to do with others.
Without action, laziness takes root! Without dreams, depravity will take root! The longer the time, the deeper the roots! It's hard to stand up! Please be vigilant at all times! Your life is up to you! Take control of your own life!
Do what you want, just in time for the sun; chase your dreams, and be young. Don't indulge in the past, don't fear the future. Efforts are never in vain, and the seeds sown today are quietly taking root somewhere you can't see or imagine.