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If a man doesn't care what clothes you wear when you go out, who you're with, what occasions you go to, what time you get home.
Even if you get a call from your girlfriend in the middle of the night and immediately go out for a drink, he doesn't care.
Remember, he is not respecting you, and he is not giving you the freedom and space you want, but he doesn't care about you at all.
I once overheard two girls chatting, they were probably girlfriends, one girl wanted to go for a drink, and the other girl said that her boyfriend would not allow it.
The girl said angrily, "What kind of boyfriend are you?" It's too wide, and there's no freedom for you. My boyfriend is different, I drink and bungee, he never cares. ”
The other girl was silent for two or three seconds, then replied, "He loves me, he has proposed to me, and we intend to get married at the end of the year." What about you? Did he say when to marry you? ”
The girl fell instantly silent.
See, this is a very common case in real life.
Two men, two different manifestations, two different states of mind.
One wants to get married and have children, while the other is just playing.
Men who think about getting married and having children naturally do not allow their girlfriends to play around outside, because no man under the sky is willing to watch his woman active in complex circles, or even be coveted by other men.
If it's just fun, the idea is naturally very different, he only takes her as a girlfriend and not a future wife, so a day together is a day, as for the future, he doesn't care.
How can a man who doesn't plan to marry you bother to take care of you? He's just with you to pass the time.
You are not the person he wants to marry, let alone his lover, is it true that if he wants to get married in the future, he will naturally go to find someone who thinks he is suitable for marriage.
In fact, men are not so complicated, what women can get married, what women are only suitable for love, they know better than anyone, just too lazy to say.
Girls, on the other hand, are completely unaware that they are accustomed to hearing love and are often blinded by sweet words.
A man's love is possessive
Many people don't understand why some men especially want to find a girl who used to be simple, for the simple reason that all this is just possessiveness.
Men have a fetish for their feelings, it is just a matter of how much, they want their other half to be pure and flawless, only to themselves, or to belong only to themselves in the future.
He loves you and can care less about your past, but not your future.
So after being with you, he must not want you to get too close to the other boys, otherwise he will be jealous and even crazy.
A man's love is so simple that you can call it possessiveness or "food protection" or "food protection" as well.
In short, his stuff doesn't allow others to move, and his women don't allow others to touch it.
If a man has no possessiveness toward you, or even sees you close to other people of the opposite sex, it only proves that in his mind you are not a lover, but a playmate.
If he is half serious about you, he will show a little possessiveness, because a man's love and possessiveness are closely linked.
Men give you freedom, but because they don't love
In recent years, there have been all kinds of freedoms on the Internet, which on the surface seem to be speaking for girls, but in fact, they are just giving girls a cover.
If the man next to you can really give you absolute freedom as the internet poisonous chicken soup says, it only proves that he doesn't care about you at all.
01 Dress freely
A girl is too revealingly dressed, going out is bound to have a chance to encounter danger, how can a man who loves you tolerate such a thing happening?
Even if you don't meet the bad guys in the end, the day has attracted the attention of countless men, but this attraction is not so glorious, because men are not so friendly to see you.
As a man, he naturally knows men best, so he will never allow his own women to walk outside like a prey.
He does not allow you to dress indiscriminately, not to imprison your freedom, but to care about you from the bottom of his heart.
02 Social freedom
The so-called social freedom refers to what kind of people girls play with, or what kind of occasions to play.
Some people say that as a man you should not be too wide, you should give the girl enough freedom to let her have her own circle.
On the surface, this sentence seems to make a lot of sense, but if there is a problem with this girl's circle, then does the man care or not?
A man who truly loves you will definitely get to know your social circle, and he won't let you play with some bad guys or let you go to bad situations.
The reason is very simple, he knows the truth that near Zhu is red, and near ink is black, and he also knows that there are some places where serious girls can't go, and some people who can't have serious girls.
If your friends around you are all playful types, he will definitely not want you to continue to play with them, and if you often go to some entertainment venues, or even go out in the middle of the night to drink, he will definitely stop you.
If a man doesn't care about all this, it only proves that you are dispensable in his heart.
Men don't care about people who have nothing to do with him because he feels like it's a waste of time and energy.
Woman, please cherish the man who likes to manage you
Many girls are brainwashed by the internet poisonous chicken soup, shouting for freedom all day long, always feeling that men are machismo, that is, they do not respect themselves, in fact, it is just the opposite.
Men still really care about you, he regards you as his person, so he pays special attention to your words and deeds, and cares about your safety.
If you're someone insignificant, he doesn't bother to take care of you, whether you're out bungee or drinking, or what kind of person you're with, whether you're in danger or not, he won't worry.
For a woman, it is a very happy thing to meet a man who is willing to take care of herself, because there are really very few people in this world who are willing to take care of you except your parents.
Parents manage you because they love you, care about you, and value you, and men are the same.