A man who treats feelings seriously has a ruler in his heart, the boundary between love and non-love is clearly divided, love will love well, no love will not delay you, and will tell you clearly.
But if there are good men, there will be "bad" men, and their only "profit" is the intention, perhaps to meet their own needs, or perhaps to "cheat" money. His original intention with you is not because of love, but he uses words to confuse you and make you believe it.
When you meet a man who does not love you at all, but pretends to love you, let you be good to him, no matter how hard you are, there will be no good results, pay sincerity, but delay youth.
A woman's youth is short, and she can't afford to wait. As a woman, it is a happy thing to be able to find your own love, but you must learn to distinguish whether men really love you, otherwise you are really wrong and right, which will only make you empty of money and leave sadness. Women don't be stupid, men who have these 4 performances for you are actually "pretending" to love you!
1, do not take the initiative, and often ignore your initiative love answer
Initiative, can not say a man, he is really because he loves you, but not active, then he must not love you.
Usually rarely take the initiative to contact you, and you take the initiative to contact him, he always loves to answer, habitually ignores your existence, and one of your messages lies alone in the dialog box. Whenever you get angry because of his inaction and indifference, he will behave very affectionately to win your sympathy, but afterwards he will return to his original appearance.
You know, the man who loves you can't suppress the idea of thinking about you, whether it's busy or idle now, he will want to contact you and know what you're doing at the moment!
Because the man who really loves you, as long as it's your business, no matter what time, he will say "I just happen to be free." ”
2, do not want to spend money on you, but often spend your money
Men who regard money as more important than you, are particularly critical of you, and are unwilling to spend money on you are not in love with you.
"Promises" that are not kept are worthless. A man's mouth will deceive people, obviously do not love you, but the mouth is full of sweet love words, will promise you the future, but the moment needs your "help" to support him and satisfy his various desires.
A man can only talk about love, but his behavior is always doing the opposite. Crying in front of you, promising the future, winning sympathy, but what you do can't see a little bit of hard work, and you are still lazy and lazy all day.
In fact, no matter how poor he is, the most important thing is that he feels that spending money on you is not worth it at all, and he will naturally "pretend".
3, do not want to disclose you, and do not want to marry you
It is said that "love that does not have the purpose of marriage is a hooligan", and the performance of loving you is not the hope of growing old with you.
It's just that many men are very realistic and "cunning", and loving you does not need the shackles of a marriage contract. In fact, this is the manifestation of escape, the man who really loves you, why fear the limitations of marriage, and even take the initiative to beg you to give him some sense of belonging.
Because you are just a passer-by in his life, he is not willing to post you in the circle of friends, nor is he willing to take you into his circle, and he is not willing to take you to meet his parents.
Hide you so that he has a chance to touch more "wonderful" outside, and once he has a better chance, he can kick you away at any time.
4, can reply to you in time, but never have time to accompany you
For true love, it is always a warm companion, after all, companionship is the longest confession of affection in this world.
If a person's love for you only stays in the chat, will respond to you in time, talk to you very late every day, but there is no time to accompany you, then you should realize his intentions for you.
Those who stay on the surface and are limited to chatting, to put it bluntly, are just passing the time, not because they love you. Those so-called seconds back, can not prove a person's love for you, the real love is always when you need, he is with you, most of the time a person's second back, it is likely that he just happens to be playing with the phone.
So, don't be moved by the so-called seconds back. In love, the person who really loves you is not to return your message in seconds, but to accompany you at all times and give you peace of mind.
If a person can't even do basic companionship, how can they say they love you? Only the person who is willing to spend time with you is the one who truly loves you.
When you meet such a man, please do not deceive yourself anymore, although you love him very much, but your kindness to him, can not touch him, all efforts are in vain.
A man who does not love you, after all, does not love you, rather than immersed in a fruitless fake relationship, it is better to end the relationship early and be a delicate single aristocrat.
People who don't love you can't give you the future you want, and will only occupy your short youth. Recognize reality, get ready, happiness will eventually come knocking.
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