"Sharpening a knife is not fast and difficult to cut firewood, and it is difficult for children to become talented without teaching." We all know the importance of education, but children have their own minds and are living people. How to let children understand the truth and distinguish between right and wrong is what generations and generations have been trying to do, but there seems to be no standard answer.
Every parent has their own methods in the process of educating their children, and some of them are worth learning and learning from. Parents of different generations have different educational methods. A couple of "post-90s" couples in Shandong Province provide us with a new way of thinking for educating our children.
The 7-year-old boy ran away from home, and the parents of the post-90s generation drove to follow and cheer up
Their child is a 7-year-old boy, and as can be seen from the video, the little boy is very cute. But little boys can't help but be naughty and rebellious. No, because of a small matter, the boy decided to "run away from home" and never care about his parents anymore. The little boy walked on the road empty-handed, bulging, his head not turning back, and looked very determined.
He may have thought that his parents would catch up in time and agree to his conditions to coax him home. But reality dealt the little boy a heavy blow.
Neither of his mom nor dad stopped him, and even drove all the way behind him. His parents could sit comfortably in the car, but they could only walk on the road on their own legs, and the little boy was very unbalanced, so he planned to speed up and get rid of his parents. But his strength was still too small compared to the car, and his parents followed the little boy not far away, even taking pictures of the little boy, and knew the posture of the little boy. Dad also cheered on the little boy between the pictures: "Come on, come on, run up, run up." ”
The boy broke down and cried, and finally got in the car to admit his mistake
The boy found himself tired, but Mom and Dad didn't let themselves get in the car. I had been gone for so long, and my parents had done nothing but chase and laugh at themselves, so they were tired and angry, and they cried bitterly as they walked. But he still didn't want to concede defeat with his parents first, but his parents were unmoved and still laughed at him in the car.
After walking for a while, overly sad and going too fast at first, the little boy squatted on the ground and vomited. He found that his parents were still sitting in the car, with no intention of getting out of the car. The little boy observed his parents as he walked, and finally after a long struggle, the little boy decided to return to the car. After stopping his father's car, the little boy climbed into the car by himself, but the mother asked the little boy seriously: "Do you still dare?" Perhaps recognizing his own willfulness, the little boy cried and admitted his mistake, saying: "I don't dare, I don't dare anymore." ”
Mom and Dad say it's experiential education, with the aim of making children aware of their mistakes
The mother also explained why she treated her children this way. The mother calmly said that this can be seen as an experiential education, the purpose is to make the child fully aware of his mistakes. "Even if he says such a thing ten thousand times, he will not understand, and when he says to go, he will let him go." He himself is tired of walking, he falls, and when he walks and throws up, he will understand that he is not right. ”
Perhaps in the eyes of the parents, what they did back then was much more "glorious" than their son's deeds, and naturally they knew how to deal with their children most effectively. Although this treatment is very "post-90s", it is also effective. Perhaps society is constantly improving, and the way we educate our children should indeed be constantly updated.
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