In this world, whether it is someone who understands you or someone who does not understand you, trying to replace true love in a touching way is a very risky act.
Sometimes, when we get along with good people, we find a very special phenomenon, that is, "feeling good about ourselves". However, when we get along with people who are slightly inferior, we find such a strange thing: "we are very bad", why is this?
Most good people will be downward compatible with others, even if he is excellent, but in dealing with people, he is still willing to bow his head and be patient, gentle and serious, which is the wisdom of high people.
From this truth, it is easy to understand that if men and women want to cling to men's hearts, what women need most is not arrogance, but to learn to retreat from the front and let him have a sense of self-worth and existence. In addition, men are face-loving animals and are particularly eager for this need. Once you satisfy him, he will obey you and will even be obsessed with you for the rest of his life. As a woman, it is important to want a man to love you with a dead heart, and it is important to do these 3 things!
1. Show weakness
The ultimate goal of a woman's weakness to a man is not to give in, but to meet the needs of men.
You know, men are very good-looking, so what does face really mean to men? In general, face refers to a person's sense of existence. In a male-female relationship, how a man reflects his sense of presence does not depend on how competent he is, but on how much presence a woman is willing to give him. Smart women will take the initiative to give up the opportunity to show, give him enough space to show, so that he has a sense of conquest experience.
Women can be weak and soft, but that doesn't mean they're not independent, have no ideas and attitudes, or that they don't have clear perspectives and bottom lines. Showing weakness is only a strategy to slow down the army, and it is also a game way for men and women to get along.
Showing weakness, the implication is that The gentle Kegang, on the surface, is weak and has no offensive power, but has actually set a gentle trap waiting for the men to surrender.
If you want a man to love you with a dead heart, a woman to show weakness appropriately, moderate worship, give him a sense of face and existence, give him the pleasure of conquest, this is another kind of pinch and eat.
2. Talk about love
Regarding the relationship between men and women, women would rather give less and say more words of love than be unforgiving. But he was always considerate of him. This is tantamount to making a thankless effort to push him out.
Love talk is a very seductive tenderness for men. For him, it was much more useful than doing laundry, cooking and cleaning the house. The more emotionally intelligent and intelligent a woman is, the more she can understand the implications. The more stupid or honest a woman is, the more she likes to say unkind things. Her eyes were filled with care, care and affection for him. However, men are creatures with shallow eyelids. They'd rather be coaxed and cheated on by you than listen to your nagging and complaining. However, you coddle him, say some witty things, praise and so on. It's different, not only doesn't have to pay anything for you, he will do a lot for you.
If you want a man to love you with a dead heart, you have to learn to say something sweet. If you find it awkward to say sweet words, you might as well try saying something nice.
Maybe you'll think it seems a bit fake, but that's okay. Men are like that. When they get along with the opposite sex, they often exaggerate like children. Only in this way can they have the strength to pay.
Men are donkeys. You have to stroke them according to their hair. If you want to pinch his heart, the woman must learn how to use your best side to overcome his weakest side.
3. Sanity
Reason, and how to grasp the heart of men?
First, when arguing, learn to be reasonable. Don't always argue and discuss based on your ideas. Try to reason things out and tell him the truth one by one until he has nothing to say. That is, the ultimate purpose of the argument is to convince him.
Second, when he doesn't respond to a text message or a phone call, you also don't reply to him, don't pester, don't bother, and take the initiative to let go, which is the strongest hint to him.
Third, when he ignores you and forgets you, you will also be cold to him and let him fully feel your situation. During this time, you don't tell him anything, but let him feel everything about you. Instead of convincing him, let him learn to feel the same way.
Smart women are absolutely rational lunatics. Even if they're almost tortured mad by men one second ago, they'll still hold on to their last sanity the next second, trying to get men to learn to respect, understand, and love them instead of convincing them to do so.
Only after personal experience can one understand how difficult and painful the rough crossing is, and how unbearable the pain is when helpless. Only after a few passes can a man become mature and responsible. Therefore, if you want a man to love you with a dead heart, you must learn to rationally tame him and involve him in your life. He is him and you are you. If there is no interaction between feelings, it is better to worship the handle.
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