Falling in love with someone, becoming more outstanding for each other, whether it is morality, or knowledge, or quality of life, moving in a positive direction and getting better and better is undoubtedly a beautiful thing.
Just like a prodigal son, met a girl who made himself like, in order to be worthy of each other, in order to obtain the other party's good feelings, self-reflection, realize his own shortcomings, change his past wrongs, constantly cultivate himself, improve his own conduct, sublimate his personality, stay away from fox friends, take the initiative to make good teachers and friends, stay away from bad habits, cultivate good living habits, end the muddled life, work hard, bravely pursue the dreams in his heart, he finally gives people a refreshing feeling from the inside out, In the end, he often won the girl's heart.
This kind of love is undoubtedly a kind of "practice", have you met?
1. Fix the shortcomings.
The old saying has clouds: "Self-cultivation, family unity, governance, peace in the world", it is said that people live in the world, the task is heavy and the road is long.
First of all, we must cultivate ourselves and then start a family, which are the two major tasks that most people must complete first.
Many people, before the Qi family, did not realize the importance of "self-cultivation", and when they reached the age of love, they found that they were not liked and felt that they did not have any shining points, and only then did they realize their shortcomings.
Especially when you encounter the object you like, at this time, you want to please the other party, so you want to change your shortcomings, for fear of being looked down upon by the other party.
In fact, good love often helps people find their own deficiencies, in order to retain love, in order to be worthy of the love they value, often guide people to pay attention to their own growth, stay away from vices, and make up for their own deficiencies.
2. Be true to love.
In love, a person often does some things that destroy feelings, such as a bad attitude towards his partner, disloyal to feelings, seeing different thoughts, evading his responsibilities, and treating love with such an attitude, although the disaster has not yet arrived, the blessing is far away, and although the hand is not divided, the love has passed.
When the partner discovers this, the fate of the two people will often end, even if the partner does not find out, doing something shameful, the heart is also uneasy.
And good love, is to make people value the love of two people, in order to get the other party's eternal love, at this time, he will consciously improve his own virtue, at least, in virtue to be worthy of the love he wants.
At this time, even if he is born with a temperament, Yang Hua's heart, and loves to see different thoughts, in order to hold on to his own happiness, he will also restrain himself, strictly restrain his behavior, and be loyal to love.
In other words, when you really fall in love with a person and regard him as an indispensable person in life, at this time, you will want to be worthy of the happy life you want, you will consciously improve yourself, change your shortcomings, improve your virtue, and make yourself better, so that you can take responsibility and bring happiness to the other person's life.
3. Learn to look down.
When a person really loves another person, when the fate comes, it will naturally be doubly sorry, will be gentle with each other, will be undistracted, and love each other with all their strength.
However, when the fate is gone, the heart may feel pain, will not be able to put down, will think of keeping each other.
The vicissitudes of the sea, the exchange of things for stars, for what has been lost. Only by bravely facing it, not being able to see it, not being able to think straight, is no longer helpful.
At this time, only slowly learn to let go, learn to look down.
Look down, will not be grumpy, complain about each other's thin feelings, look down, will not be difficult to put down for a long time, repeatedly entangled with each other, bring trouble to each other's lives, look down, can gently say goodbye to each other, and start their own lives again.
Falling in love with a person, picking up this fate with your heart, and loving each other sincerely, this is love; love and not, two people have not come together in the end, learn to let go, learn to look down, and gently let go of this fate, it is not a manifestation of lovers.