There is a grandfather in the community, we often meet when picking up the baby, after a period of time it became acquainted, the two babies also played together, became good friends, watching the baby he brought both sensible grades and good grades, really envious, and later I learned that she turned out to be a retired old professor.
Once, the old professor brought his granddaughter to my house to play, probably because I was young, Xiao Zichen was also angry, the endorsement was very fast, I wanted to show the pendulum, and said to the old professor: "My children will have a lot, come, show Grandpa." ”
Xiao Zichen also gave me face: "Well, then I will carry a 36 meter, the golden cicada will shed its shell, throw bricks and attract jade, wait for work, fight grass and snakes, hide the sky and cross the sea..."
The old professor boasted, "Baby is awesome! I said proudly, "Well, will your children?" Before the old professor could speak, his granddaughter, who was standing by, said to me, "Auntie, my brother has a very good back, and I want to learn from him!" ”
I said triumphantly: "Then you have to work harder, baby", after a while, the old professor left with his granddaughter, but I suddenly saw his granddaughter's gloves forget to take away, and quickly ran out the door to chase, just when I was about to catch up, I heard the old professor say to his granddaughter: "Don't you also have 36 counts?" Why not show it today? ”
Only to hear the little girl say: "Because this is the 36 plan, Grandpa you taught me, to be a person to know how to taoguang and raise obscurity, do not have to fight for a momentary applause, this can really accumulate thick hair, although I see that my brother is just rote memorization, but I don't need to expose him in public, then it is anti-guest-oriented." ”
The old professor boasted: "Hey, grandson, you're awesome!" The little girl modestly replied: "Thank you Grandpa for sending me this set of interesting reading 36 meters, let me learn a lot of skills and experience in dealing with people and interacting with people, and this set of books with vivid images, it does not look so difficult to understand, but it is very interesting and connotative, I plan to read it a second time." ”
According to Xiao Zichen, the little girl was deeply liked by the teachers in the school because of her super wisdom and strategy, often praised her, and was the class leader for several consecutive years. Children her age listened to her, and even some children older than her admired her.
Seeing that the little girl was so excellent, I also put away my proud heart and asked a few parents who wanted to improve their children's comprehensive ability to go with the old professor to learn from the experience. In the conversation with the old professor, I found that many of his methods are very simple and practical, which gives us a lot of inspiration.
The old professor shared 3 points of experience to cultivate children's super wisdom and strategy
The method that the old professor shared with us is actually very simple, that is, he took his granddaughter to watch the "Thirty-Six Counts" comic story from childhood, and when asked why he said that he wanted to take his children to read the Thirty-Six Counts? The old professor said: Don't underestimate the wisdom of the ancients, there is a way of survival, so that children learn to live independently; there is a philosophy of life, so that children understand what is right and wrong; there are also human feelings to cultivate, so that children learn to live in the world.
1. Teach children the ability to solve problems independently
The old professor said: For children, the most important ability is the ability to solve problems independently, this ability, whether it is for children's learning or life is of great significance, and I read thirty-six counts and found that there is precisely the wisdom of our ancients to solve problems.
Many children, as the learning difficulty becomes more and more difficult, will slowly fall behind, why is this? To a large extent, there is no ability to solve problems independently, and when encountering difficulties, they withdraw and want to seek help.
Children who are familiar with the thirty-six counts are different, and each of the thirty-six plans can extend a lot of truths, and children can find a way to solve the problem from it.
2. Cultivate children's high emotional intelligence and learn to behave in the world
Why are some children pleasing and some children annoying? That's because every child approaches problems differently.
Some children show off everywhere after scoring 100 points, and they don't know that they will inadvertently hurt those children who fail the test. And the children who are familiar with the thirty-six counts know how to cultivate obscurity, understand that a success or failure does not represent anything, not proud, not ostentatious, not complacent, but also able to handle interpersonal relationships.
3. Choose the right reading materials to cultivate children's interest in learning
Girls generally do not like such intelligent and strategic reading materials as "Thirty-Six Plans", plus the ancient texts of thirty-six counts are difficult to read, and children do not like to read them even more.
The old professor said that there are many versions of the thirty-six counts, and it is important to choose the right version for children. Choosing the right one can not only improve the child's interest in learning, but also increase the child's wisdom and strategy; if the choice is wrong, the child will read boringly, not only can not see it, but may also play a counterproductive effect. The old professor recommended this set of "Thirty-six Counts of Interesting Reading" to us, which is very suitable for children to read.
This set of picture books has thirty-six noun explanations, turned over with historical stories, and uses children's favorite small stories to explain the profound connotations behind thirty-six counts, so that children can understand and learn. Turn the picture book over again to have "one example and three", and then come to a comic story to deepen the child's impression, the back of the book can also listen to the audio, more suitable for children to read, specially made for children to learn.
In the old professor's home, I turned over this set of "Thirty-Six Plans for Fun Reading", not only Xiao Zichen was attracted by the interesting stories and wonderful illustrations in it, but also our parents felt very good, and many things that would not teach children were included in this set of books. Some parents immediately started a set, and the next day they showed off that their daughter did not watch TV at home, and she was particularly focused on reading books, becoming a "little bookworm".
This set of books is interesting and easy to read, so that children can learn to be anti-customer-oriented when they are passive, know how to treat each other with ease when they are weak with competitors, and remember to learn from each other.
These schemes are actually integrated into all aspects of our lives, and the wisdom of the ancients is worthy of in-depth study by every child. Children read a thirty-six count story every day, can increase wisdom and strategy, improve the ability to think, read the thirty-six counts, the child will definitely be impressed.
As a parent, I believe that everyone hopes that their children can be praised and recognized by teachers and classmates, and they all hope that their children can have high emotional intelligence and great wisdom, and they hope that their children can solve problems independently without the help of their parents. This parenting knowledge is difficult to teach children to learn only by preaching in person, and only through children's own initiative to read can they truly become their own knowledge.
If you also want to cultivate children's super wisdom and strategy from an early age, and get the praise of teachers and classmates, you can prepare a set of "Thirty-Six Plans for Fun Reading" for children like the old professor
epilogue
Momentary success or failure does not mean anything, when children have a big picture view, high emotional intelligence, independent problem-solving ability, failure and setbacks will become their nourishment to success.
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