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"Raising or not teaching, the father's fault", this truth has been mentioned as early as the Three Character Sutra, pregnant life is not only to give birth to him so simple, nor is it to eat and wear to raise him without worry, as the child grows older, parents should also pay attention to education.
In recent years, a series of behaviors of abandoning children and abusing children have aroused public anger, and it turns out that children do not necessarily have a good life around their biological parents. Therefore, netizens have appealed: if parents need to take the exam, it will be good.
Children are the hope of the future, to ensure their healthy, quality growth, the state for family education special legislation, from then on to give birth to a baby is not only a family affair, but also a major national event.
The dream of "bringing a baby according to law" has come true, and when parents want to "hold a certificate to work", it is no longer just talk
On January 1, 2022, the Family Education Promotion Law was officially implemented, and parents with their babies had references, rules and bottom lines. The problem of "being born without raising, raising without teaching, and teaching without properly" that has attracted much attention will be supervised and properly resolved.
Under this provision, parents can no longer use the reason of "how to raise my child as much as I want" to do something that is not conducive to the growth of their children, otherwise they will be criticized and educated, and they will be admonished to stop and admonished.
In fact, various measures are not so much to punish parents who have made mistakes, but to give them more practical help to solve the problem that parents do not know how to teach and what to teach.
In the past, family rules and family training were handed down from generation to generation and had a certain degree of standardization, but it was debatable whether the rules and regulations were appropriate for children. Now that the model of family education will be upgraded, many parenting details will be protected by law, even if the child is around the biological parents.
After the implementation of this new regulation, there was a wide discussion, and some people clapped their hands and applauded, saying that the children can finally get all-round protection, and they must be severely punished for those parents who have no sense of responsibility, otherwise it is better to send them to a good family.
Some families also expressed their support, what if they really have the pain of not being able to do it? If parents just accidentally make mistakes, are punished in front of their children and preach more faceless, will not have more voice when educating children in the future, and I dare not have children when I see this regulation.
In fact, it is not as difficult as imagined to take a baby according to law, and most of the regulations and conditions are to promote the development of family relations, which is more beneficial than harmful for children and parents.
Don't be afraid, "bringing a baby according to the law" will reap the following benefits
The new regulation of bringing a baby in accordance with the law meets everyone's previous expectations, and parents must "hold a certificate to work" to qualify.
★ The joint participation of both husband and wife in the maintenance of the child is included in the regulations, and the situation of having children without maintenance will not be reduced
There was a movie called "What a Home" about the tragic life of 12-year-old boy Zain. He took his parents to court on the grounds that they had given birth to him but had not properly raised him.
In reality, however, many children do not have the courage to do so, and may not be aware of their situation. Now with legal protection, parents cannot carry out illegal adoption after giving birth to a child, and it is necessary to ensure that the child grows up with balanced nutrition, adequate sleep, physical and mental pleasure, etc.
The joint role of husband and wife is no longer a cry of the people, and now it is also included in it, believing that under heavy protection, the problem of "raising" children will be solved.
★ "Raise or not teach, the father's fault" will become the law, don't try to exploit the loophole
In the process of raising children, "raising" is very important, but also do not forget "breeding", children lack of education, life will be full of ups and downs.
With the protection of the law, the number of minors dropping out of school to work and leaving the family unsupervised will also be greatly reduced. It is beneficial to the child himself, the family and even the society, and parents who do not want to be responsible cannot "exploit the loophole".
★ Keep your child away from the harm of extreme education
Some parents only know that their children need education, but they do not grasp the scale well, so that children can bear high pressure and high load of education, and the situation and requirements are more extreme.
Remember the boy who was slapped by his mother and was born lightly? Parents slap, verbal attack, punch and kick when encountering trouble, and ignore the child's psychology when paying too much attention to learning in education also belongs to the category of "teaching improperly".
After some hard work, the child did not experience the joy of growth, nor did he have any real gains, and this family education was meaningless.
Sugar Mother's heart words:
Sugar Mom saw someone comment that raising a child needs outsiders to supervise, is it necessary? In fact, the main purpose of this provision is not to supervise and punish, but to let children be better raised at the same time, parents take fewer detours and achieve self-growth.
Not only are parents changing, but society will also provide more support and help to jointly protect the growth of children.
【Today's topic】With this "new regulation", do you still dare to be born?