I have heard many people say that the scene of "The Knife In the Snow" "Please the Old Ancestor to Die" is very moving.
But after really watching this scene, I found that there was no touch, only regret, and now that I want to come, I am sighing!
Xuanyuan Jingcheng is too "nest bag": dare not show true feelings, go further
Xuanyuan Jingcheng was the eldest son of xuanyuan family concubines, but in the eyes of the world, he could only read and could not do martial arts.
In that world where martial respect is respected, Xuanyuan Jingcheng is destined to be a "stranger" who is looked down upon and despised by others, and his existence seems to be the "shame" of the entire Xuanyuan family.
But he was a good husband, a good father.
But where the big family, most of them are intertwined, and there are too many entanglements of interests.
Just as Jiang Ni guessed, Xuanyuan Jingcheng, like the early Xu Fengnian, was a "cunning generation" who dressed up as a pig and ate a tiger, and Xu Fengnian dressed up to be a gentleman in order to reduce the jealousy of the Yuanyang Imperial Family.
And Xuanyuan Jingcheng "pretended" not to be martial, but also to reduce the jealousy of his brothers of the same clan, to protect his wife and daughter, and to survive.
However, Lao Zu Xuanyuan Dapan disrupted his "deployment", forcing Xuanyuan Jingcheng to be exposed in advance.
Even if Xuanyuan Jingcheng knew in his heart that he was not Xuanyuan Dapan's opponent, if he wanted to solve him without leaving any trouble, Xuanyuan Jingcheng could be forced to die.
Eventually, he did! He contributed the famous scene of "Sword In the Snow": ask the old ancestor to ascend to heaven.
He completely cleansed the Xuanyuan family, leaving his daughter Xuanyuan Qingfeng with a family of "Lang Lang Qiankun", and he himself, turned into a wisp of green smoke and disappeared into the heavens and the earth.
Is Xuanyuan Jingcheng sorry? He was sorry.
Although he loved it, he did not regret marrying his wife. But unfortunately, he loved his wife deeply, but he did not dare to take a step forward.
Obviously, it was his own yard, but because he cared about his wife and was afraid that she would not like it, he never dared to step into it.
I would like to ask, if Xuanyuan Jingcheng is not so "nested", what will happen if he sticks to his wife with a thick skin?
The worst thing is to maintain the status quo, the wife looks down on him, he does not dare to enter the yard, although the 2 people are husband and wife, but more like strangers.
But he didn't, and he left with this regret.
Love is selfish, but Xuanyuan Jingcheng is inferior.
The person you love, and he loves you at the same time, so the probability of happiness is very low; and having a lover can become a family member, which further reduces the probability of happiness.
Therefore, "bravery" is extremely important in the process of pursuing love, and people who are inferior and cowardly and dare not take a step forward are doomed to only look at the shadow of self-pity and regret for life.
Xuanyuan Qingfeng is too "snobbish": only ambition, look down on "useless father"
Xuanyuan Dapan summoned Xuanyuan Qingfeng back to the mountain, and she returned happily.
Although Xuanyuan Jingcheng had let Yuan Tingshan intercept it in the middle of the road, it missed Yuan Tingshan's ambitions and Xuanyuan Qingfeng's determination to take back the rights that originally belonged to the big house.
Xuanyuan Qingfeng did not know the true face of Xuanyuan Dapan at all, and she was full of joy and fell into the desire for "power" and could not extricate herself.
Until Xuanyuan Jingcheng broke her "beautiful dream".
In Xuanyuan Qingfeng's view, his father Xuanyuan Jingcheng had the identity of the eldest son of the Xuanyuan family, but he did not control the strength and boldness of the Xuanyuan family.
The Xuanyuan in her eyes respected the city, cautious, and did not dare to argue about anything.
Xuanyuan Jingcheng was looked down upon, but it was Xuanyuan Qingfeng who looked down on him even more.
There was such a useless father, she felt very ashamed.
But in fact! It was this "useless father" who cleaned the Xuanyuan family and helped Xuanyuan Qingfeng take the position of the head of the family.
His years of dormancy have cleared the way for Xuanyuan Qingfeng and left a valuable "wealth".
Xuanyuan Jingcheng was dead, and Xuanyuan Qingfeng knelt on the ground and cried bitterly.
Does she regret it? I think yes, she regretted not having done it in the first place.
The woman Mu Qiang has never changed, whether it is for her husband or her father, it has always been so.
In Xuanyuan Qingfeng's view, Xuanyuan Qingfeng's "hidden tolerance" is a cowardly nest, such a father, so that she can't lift her head.
Therefore, she can only fight on her own.
But after the truth came out, she understood: how difficult it was for Xuanyuan to respect the wind for so many years, and it was just a matter of ridicule and ridicule by outsiders, but she was still the first to bear the brunt of her own daughter-in-law.
In this world, only birth and parents are not our way to choose, but no matter the status of parents, their love for their children will not be discounted by half a cent.
In the materialistic world, many things are clearly priced, and if you want to get it, you have to pay.
But only father's love and maternal love are priceless, and for their children, most of them give one-way and do not ask for anything in return.
This kind of love should not be ignored, let alone despised.
Xuanyuan Jingcheng's wife is too "stubborn": she does not know how to cherish the people in front of her
Xuanyuan Jingcheng's wife had met Princess Starling in the early years, but at that time, Princess Wu Su was dressed as a man.
Since then, the wife has fallen in love with this young swordsman, and when she later learned that the princess was a woman dressed as a man, she was already deeply rooted in love and could not let go.
There are many people in this world who see different thoughts, but there is also a kind of person, who is stubborn and stubborn, xuanyuan respectful city's wife, who is such a person.
She painted Wu Su down and hung it on the wall of her home, even if she knew that there was no result, she still saw things and thought of people every day, such a deep affection was like the sea, but this obsession hurt others and harmed herself.
After marrying Xuanyuan Jingcheng, she still insisted on the past, not smiling, not angry, not happy or angry, indifferent like a cup of boiled water, colorless, tasteless, ruthless and desireless.
She was not very close to her daughter Xuanyuan Qingfeng, and she did not have much respect for her husband Xuanyuan Qingfeng, and occasionally looked down on and rolled her eyes as a gift, and most of the time she ignored or even ignored it.
But when Xuanyuan Jingcheng challenged Xuanyuan Dapan to have results, and the next person came to report, she suddenly asked: What about him?
In the end, it is a husband and wife, how can many years of entanglement be so unsentimental that they do not care?
At that time, she should have regrets.
Since falling in love with "Wu Su", her heart has lost its place.
She is a bit disdainful of Xuanyuan Jingcheng, who is "incompetent", but more often than not, she is "invisible": she cannot see Xuanyuan Jingcheng's love for her, she cannot see Xuanyuan Jingcheng's disguised useless painstaking heart; she cannot see her pillow person.
Until Xuanyuan Jingcheng died, she suddenly realized: the useless man in her eyes was more tall and mighty than she imagined, and her ability was extraordinary:
He saved Xuanyuan Qingfeng from suffering and returned the dirty Xuanyuan family a "sunny day".
He's a hero.
Xuanyuan Jingcheng's wife was loveless to him. Such a marriage is the most annoying.
In ancient times, women could only endure, and modern women can do more.
If you really don't love, you can choose to leave; if you can't do without, then learn to turn your head and love yourself.
Find a suitable way, 2 people live in harmony, even if you can't raise your eyebrows, keep your heart at peace, and let the years be quiet, it is also a kind of practice.
Life is in a hurry for tens of thousands of days, and you should live up to Shaoguang and not to yourself: pleasing yourself should be a compulsory course for everyone.
After watching this famous scene of "inviting the old ancestor to die", I felt a lot of emotions:
In life, regrets are often there, but people are alive, why not use the next deliberate to make up for the previous regret.
Each of us should learn: self-amusement, self-pleasure, self-healing, self-consistency!