With the development of the network, the temptation of mobile phones to children is increasing, but as children grow older and the demand for mobile phones increases, parents are caught in a dilemma.
Do you want to buy a mobile phone for your child? Buying a mobile phone is afraid of children's addiction, and children who do not buy mobile phones do have a need, what should be done?
Zhao Lin is now facing this problem, her son has always wanted her to buy him a mobile phone, but Zhao Lin has concerns in her heart, and the matter of buying a mobile phone will be delayed again and again.
But the son is now in junior high school, the teacher usually assigns homework or publishes notices directly in the class group, and each time the son can only wait for the mother's notification.
Sometimes the mother is busy at work, there is no time to look at the mobile phone, the son gets the news in time, misses the important notice or turns in the homework late, he will be criticized by the teacher, resulting in the son's mood at school all day. Finally, after thinking about it again and again, Zhao Lin still bought a mobile phone for her son, and now the child is visible to the naked eye every day.
In fact, buying a mobile phone for a child is not entirely a disadvantage, and there are many benefits.
1. It is convenient for children to communicate with teachers and classmates
After entering junior high school, the rebellious psychology of teenagers gradually increased. Children may no longer be willing to talk to their parents. If parents equip their children with a mobile phone, whether they are learning or psychologically confused, they will maintain communication and communication with teachers and classmates, which is conducive to the healthy growth of children's physical and mental health.
Some teachers now also set up class groups for students to facilitate homework assignments for children. If the child has learning confusion, or encounters some more difficult problems, they can communicate with teachers and classmates in time to get help in learning. Proper use of mobile phones is beneficial and harmless for children.
2. It is convenient for children to consult learning materials
After the child enters the junior high school, the subjects and knowledge points of learning increase, and the parents are unable to help solve some confusions or problems in the child's learning. In addition to asking teachers and classmates for advice, children can also check some learning materials on the Internet, which is of great help to children's learning.
If the child has developed good learning habits in primary school and is more self-disciplined, parents basically do not have to worry about the adverse effects that mobile phones may bring to their children.
3. Avoid children being isolated by their classmates
After entering junior high school, most children will have a mobile phone. If parents do not equip their children with mobile phones, children are easily isolated by classmates, which will hit the child's self-confidence, make the child become inferior, and the child's personality will become introverted and unsociable. Whether it is for the sake of their children's learning or for the normal relationship between their children and classmates, parents should equip their children with mobile phones according to the actual situation.
The child's Online environment needs the correct guidance and maintenance of parents, but it is not blindly eliminated or stopped. Otherwise, it will only make the child's rebellious heart more and more intense, but it will be repeatedly forbidden, resulting in the child falling into the temptation of the Internet and unable to extricate himself.