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In many parts of our country, especially in rural areas, families are very particular about generations.
Although most young people today have diluted the concept of generational division, the older generation still attaches great importance to each other's identity when they go home to visit relatives every New Year.
At the same time, there are often embarrassing things that happen, that is, your peers may be different from yours.
What is it like to get along with people of the same age, and the generations are too different?
Not long ago, some parents posted a video on the Internet, the two little boys in the video are not only kindergarten classmates, but also the relationship between uncles and nephews in terms of generations!
Same age and different generations! Uncle and nephew are in the same kindergarten, cute dialogue amusing netizens
In the kindergarten, a cute little boy with a cookie in one hand and yogurt in the other was eating with relish, and the little classmate next to him came to talk.
Although the two people look similar in age, in terms of generations, the boy who takes the initiative to chat is the uncle, and the one who sits and eats the cookie is the nephew.
After the little uncle came over, he said to his nephew: Liu Yanqing, you called me an uncle, I said hey, okay?
With a cute expression and a serious question, this scene made the teacher on the side can't help but smile and take out his mobile phone to take a picture.
The little nephew did not pay attention to the uncle's request, but softly called out "Shengyi", hearing the nephew call his own name, the uncle hurriedly responded: Hey.
The cute interaction between the children amused many netizens, some people ridiculed this little uncle as a little humble, and some people said that when the two children grew up, it might become awkward to meet.
"The humble chat is so cute, the little guy wants to make people call him uncle!"
"Haha, when I was a child, I was ignorant and ignorant, and when I grew up, I guess I didn't want to meet, calling my peer uncle, it was too difficult to open my mouth!"
"My nephew and uncle are in the same class, and this fate is a bit deep!"
Compared with the generational differences between peers, the following situation is even more embarrassing.
A netizen posted an experience of herself on the Internet, the netizen is a girl, she has an uncle who is 15 years younger than herself, the girl is already in college, and the uncle is still in kindergarten.
During the holidays, the girl was ordered to go to the kindergarten to pick up the little uncle, but unexpectedly she was treated as the child's mother by the surrounding parents, and at this time, the little uncle resolutely denied knowing the girl, which made the teacher and the security guard question the girl.
In the end, after explanation and verification, the teacher believes that the boy really has a niece who is 15 years older than himself, and the reason why he does not want to recognize each other is that he feels that this relationship is too humiliating.
This makes the girl cry and laugh, in fact, she herself also feels that the two obviously look like brothers and sisters, but according to the generation, she also calls the kindergarten children a little uncle, how to listen to how embarrassing and awkward.
On the Internet, many netizens also expressed the embarrassment of the generational problem.
"I'm in my early forties and I'm actually a grandfather." But when I went back to my hometown, I was really embarrassed to call those who were close to my age. Grandson of someone older than me."
"I have a little sister-in-law in my family, and I grew up with my sister, and I never called her sister-in-law, because this matter is not less talked about."
"I am 28 years old, my mother-in-law responded to the call of the state to give birth to a second child, and my sister-in-law is only 3 years old, which is embarrassing to think about!"
In the new era, is it necessary for parents to let their children understand the "generations"?
In the past, when many parents named their children, they would take them according to generations, but with the development of the times, some traditional concepts are slowly changing, and many young people no longer care about generations.
Even if you return to your hometown for a reunion on holidays and meet your familiar relatives and friends, everyone will not be embarrassed by their titles.
So in the new era, is it still necessary for parents to let their children understand the generations?
Personally, I think it is still necessary, generational division is the embodiment of family affection, is a kind of inheritance of traditional culture, so that children understand the generations, that is, let children understand family culture, understand family etiquette.
Of course, if the child has grown up, in the family relationship, parents do not have to force the child to be called by generation, otherwise it will cause an embarrassing situation of similar age but a large difference.
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