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Every child's name covets the good wishes and wishes of their parents, but some people are born with a "nightmare" for their parents because of their gender, and this sentence is not too much to use on Little S
Xiao S's big name is Xu Xidi, and she also has 2 sisters above her, namely Xu Xixian and Xu Xiyuan. For their own Name Xu Xidi is not casually married, which contains the urgent desire of parents, once S Mama explained why the third child should be called Xu Xidi, the sound of the name Di? I hope that next time I have a younger brother, not a sister
02
In addition, Xiao S also has a nickname, called Tingting, the reason is that parents want to stop having daughters, because their family is too desperate for a boy to come out, yes, their family is a typical son preference, it is worth mentioning that Xiao S's grandmother gave birth to 7 daughters in front, and finally gave birth to the eighth child when the father was born
And little S's mother married over? The first thing is to give birth to a son to the in-laws, speaking of this we will break up, although the probability of giving birth to boys and girls is the same, but there are still separate genetic sites, do not believe that you can look at the people around you, some families are very prosperous men, not exaggerated, to the children and grandchildren can not give birth to sons
03
But some families have very strong daughters, men have become scarce, unfortunately in the first few decades, if you can only give birth to sons and can not give birth to daughters, this will have regrets, but it is not a family that can not go on, because boys in the hearts of the elderly is the continuation of life, and those families with only girls will even feel that they can't look up in the village
Unfortunately, Little S was born in such a family, S's mother recalled, when the third child was born, after telling herself that she was a daughter in her life, she really cried out, shouting that she didn't want me to...
04
It is not difficult to find that the pressure of the grandmother to give birth to the boy is also worn to the mother, perhaps at the beginning S mother is still very eager to give birth to a boy, but then said that she will give birth to 3, absolutely will not regenerate, I don't know if it is because of too much pressure caused by the collapse of the broken jar broken?
But what is certain is that just when S mom decided to seal the belly, the tragedy came, S's father seemed to have no energy, obsessed with gambling, and also owed 8 million yuan, not only that, but also began to find a woman outside, and then the father committed domestic violence against the mother, and everyone knows the next thing, S mother can not bear the humiliation, she lives alone with 3 daughters, you can imagine how hard it is for a single mother to stay with 3 children
05
Seeing this, it is inevitable to say that not all in-laws can accept no grandchildren, but the pressure of S mother's birth of a boy did not end in her generation, because 3 daughters Xiao S even found that they were daughters after giving birth to 3 children, and there was news that Xiao S tried a lot of folk remedies for giving birth to boys
One of the friends Lin Xiuqin broke the news that she had eaten geckos, but the gecko was dry, and this picture imagination was also very torturous, what can be done? Those who give birth to sons can say that it is useless to have a son, and the child is not a mother, but I don't know how much some people hate you when you complain about this?
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But Xiao S fortunately, although the in-laws hope that she will have a son, but not as crazy as the father to the mother, plus now the 3 daughters are getting bigger and more sensible, I believe That Xu Yajun will slowly experience the benefits of the daughter, indeed this matter wants to open it is very simple, now the society really gives birth to boys and girls are the same
As long as the child knows filial piety, regardless of sons and daughters, in addition, some people always feel that the son can inherit the incense, do not know that no matter the son and daughter, the body is flowing their own blood, why should they reject the children and grandchildren who keep their own blood because of a surname? This question I want to open up, let go of myself and don't put pressure on the people around you, what do you think about this?