In 1906, 16-year-old Yang Buwei entered the Luning Girls' School and began to accept new ideas, here, she understood the equal rights of men and women, marriage freedom, under the impact of new ideas, 16-year-old Yang Buwei, without his own consent, promised himself to his cousin who did not like himself early, more and more dissatisfied, as soon as the holiday was over, he went home in a hurry and talked about this matter with his grandfather!
Yang Buwei's grandfather was named Yang Renshan, the founder of the Buddhist Association of China, in the early years he advocated the abolition of foot binding, is an open-minded and enlightened old man, when his granddaughter Yang Buwei proposed that the marriage matter should be decided by himself, the old man immediately raised his hands in approval, but said to Yang Buwei: "You are an adult, you have your own rights, but you must deal with this matter well, so as not to hurt the friendship with your aunt and cousin!" ", there is such a grandfather, I have to say, is Yang Buwei's luck!
Later, Yang Buwei wrote a letter of resignation to his aunt, the words were very sincere, the attitude was very respectful, but even so, the aunt still did not agree, his father was even more violent, saying that he was going to execute Yang Buwei, but with the support of his grandfather Yang Renshan, Yang Buwei still retired from marriage, but because of this matter, Yang Buwei's father and her had a cold war for 8 years!
After retiring from marriage, Yang Buwei was physically and mentally happy, a mind into his studies, first in Shanghai, and then to Japan to study, when she became a female medical doctor back to China, it was already 1919, yang Buwei in this matter has been 30 years old, is an older leftover woman, Yang Buwei's marriage, is very anxious for the family to get on fire!
Soon after returning to China, Yang Buwei and one of his female classmates, Li Guanzhong, opened a "Senren Hospital" in Beijing, and soon met her husband Zhao Yuanren, who had been with him for 60 years!
At that time, Zhao Yuanren taught physics, mathematics and psychology courses at Tsinghua University, which was simply an all-round talent, you know, Zhao Yuanren was only 28 years old at the time!
One day in September 1920, Zhao Yuanren was busy outside until very late, and when he returned to school, Xizhimen had closed the door, and he had no choice but to go to his cousin Pang Dunmin's house for the night, coincidentally, that night, Pang Dunmin was feasting on friends who had returned from studying in Japan, Yang Buwei and Li Guanzhong were among them!
Very open, Zhao Yuanren was attracted by Yang Buwei, Yang Buwei was different from the shyness and reservedness of the Women of the Republic of China at that time, and the performance during the banquet was generous, Zhao Yuanren was in love at first sight, he originally did not love to be lively, and his performance was unusually positive, however, Zhao Yuanren's pursuit method was really lame, and even caused a misunderstanding among Yang Buwei's friend Li Guanzhong!
Since that meeting, Zhao Yuanren began to contact Yang Buwei, often running to Senren Hospital, but Yang Buwei is a doctor, always very busy, Zhao Yuanren went to the hospital, contact With Li Guanzhong's time, more than Yang Buwei, a long time, Li Guanzhong misunderstood, thinking that Zhao Yuanren liked himself, and Yang Buwei, did not find that Zhao Yuanren's gaze often fell on himself, and foolishly matched the two!
Later, Li Guanzhong finally sensed the abnormality, and also accused Yang Buwei of "third party" interfering and destroying his feelings with Zhao Yuanren, and Yang Buwei, who was unresponsive, was confused, until Zhao Yuanren confessed to her, he knew that Zhao Yuanren's favorite has always been himself!
After a battle of ideas, Yang Buwei finally made a decision, even if he offended his friend Li Guanzhong, he was also with Zhao Yuanren, in 1921, 32-year-old Yang Buwei, and 29-year-old Zhao Yuanren entered the marriage hall, the witnesses were Hu Shi and Zhu Hui, the wedding was very simple, only invited relatives and friends, but also noted, do not receive a bride price!
After marriage, Yang Buwei and Zhao Yuanren lived a very happy life, although it was inevitable to stumble, but the two compromised with each other, mutual understanding, and soon became a model couple of the Republic of China, holding each other, wind and rain spent 60 spring and autumn, until 1981, 92-year-old Yang Buwei died of illness!
As a model couple of the Republic of China, and one is a female doctor of medicine, one is a doctor of study in the United States, their education of their children, of course, is also extraordinary, the two have 4 daughters in their lifetime, the eldest daughter Zhao Rulan is the first female professor of Harvard University, but also an academician of the American Academy of Engineering Sciences, an academician of the American Academy of Sciences, a foreign academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences; the second daughter Zhao Xinna is not bad, graduated from Harvard University, is a professor of Changsha Zhongnan Institute of Mining and Metallurgy; the third daughter Zhao Laisi, is a doctor of the University of California, has published 23 books; the fourth daughter Zhao Xiaozhong, Be a Master of Physics student!