preface
For contemporary college students, it is common to fall in love during college, and today's parents are more enlightened, after all, children are already adults, and if there is no good object to cultivate during college, it is likely that they will not be able to find the ideal partner for a while after graduation.
Therefore, for the parents of contemporary college students, children in love are basically acceptable to everyone, and many local parents will hope that their children can bring their boyfriends or girlfriends back on the weekends so that they can also help the staff officers, so during college, in fact, many people have "met parents".
In the blink of an eye, the cold winter is coming, the winter vacation is coming, up to 30 days of winter vacation, for the small couple who have just been in love, it is really a bit too much, after all, the young couples in love, they all want to stick together 24 hours a day, so after the holiday, a female college student obtained the consent of her parents to take her boyfriend home and stay with herself for a few days.
Female college students take their "boyfriends" home during winter vacation, and as a result, they are issued an "eviction order" the next day.
In fact, the reason why many parents do not approve of their children falling in love during college is nothing more than to consider that they are not deeply involved in the world, and have no social experience, they can't see the essence of things, they are afraid of being deceived by people with hearts, and it is really good to take them home for you to see, after all, as a person who has come over, parents are more experienced, and it is usually more accurate to see people.
But then again, although parents do not reject seeing their children's boyfriends and girlfriends, it does not mean that they can accept the child's friends of the opposite sex living at home, but helpless parents are always unable to help the child, so under the daughter's begging, they still agreed to let the daughter take her boyfriend home, and on the day of the holiday, I drove to pick up the two children very enthusiastically and warmly received them.
However, the good times are not long, the boyfriend who was warmly welcomed the first day was expelled by the girl's parents the next day, what is the matter?
It turned out that after the daughter's boyfriend was taken home, the mother made a good table, warmly entertained, the father also specially put a small bed in the study for the daughter's boyfriend to use at night, but the next morning, the early parents found that something was wrong, the original daughter's boyfriend took advantage of their sleep, actually went into the daughter's room to rest, see here, the parents were immediately unhappy.
Seeing this, I think everyone can understand, this matter is replaced by any pair of parents, I think it will be unhappy, especially the family with a daughter at home, since the child's boyfriend has been arranged for the room, the boy went down to the study in front of everyone to sleep, in the middle of the night or into the daughter's room, this is not a typical "Yang Feng Yin violation"?
And in this situation, it is easy to suspect the boy's integrity and upbringing, although now college students live in the same room, the phenomenon of stealing the forbidden fruit also occurs from time to time, but this is not in line with the college student code of conduct, and the two sides are not married, whether in the boy's home or in the girl's home, living in the same room is not appropriate, not to mention that the male and female protagonists in this story also have a certain "deception" on their parents.
The comment area is full of scolding, who is more uncultured?
After the matter was fermented on the Internet, it quickly caused extensive discussion, but at least in the position that boys and girls live in the same room, or in the home of one of them, netizens can still reach a high degree of consistency, and everyone unanimously believes that it is inappropriate and inappropriate.
However, in this matter of the initiator, the object of criticism, netizens but each insisted on their own words, everyone has a different view, some people think that this boy is not polite, not educated, after all, still in the girlfriend's parents' home, even if the usual development to a very good extent, now should also be restrained!
Obviously, the parents of the family have arranged the residence, they are still chaotic, this is the typical disrespect for the girl and her parents, the parents of the girls should also take this into account, through a small matter, think that the boy is not a responsible person, the attitude from the initial enthusiasm like fire to cold as frost.
However, there are also some netizens who think that the problem of girls is greater, if it is not through the consent of the girls, boys can not sneak into the girls' rooms in the middle of the night, indicating that the girls themselves are willing, and it is not good that this kind of behavior of deceiving their parents is the first thing that girls think out, after all, this is in their own home, they can definitely occupy the dominant power.
There are also netizens frankly, in this matter, boys and girls both should have their own problems, boys' problems are irresponsible, but polite, girls' problems are not enough self-love, after all, now everyone is still college students, even if there is communication between men and women, it should not develop too close, there is no benefit to the long-term future in the future.
epilogue:
College students are actually very normal in love, but in the process of falling in love, everyone should also learn to grasp the measure and scale, only in this way can a relationship go further and better.
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