Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
I am this one, alone, alone with me on the street, alone on the street, alone on travel, alone with me.
I like this, I don't like to go to other people's homes, I don't like other people to come to my house, just go home after work, don't eat together.
With age, the spirit is not as good as how to move when you are young, coupled with a more introverted personality, there are many things to do, simply stay at home.
Nowadays, people are selfish, and the same is true for relatives! I don't have a friend, solitude, bored to look at the phone, really good!
Going it alone is a kind of practice, a realm. Some friends just come to consume you, so there is no such thing!
I hate boring communication, if you are not happy with others than to stay with yourself, now people's time is so precious, why waste time and energy on people you don't like.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced more ups and downs, and they know that they will see the truth in hardships, so stay away from those hypocritical villains, cherish the true friends who have helped themselves, and learn to protect themselves.
-02-
In the novel "And Listen to the Wind", Haruki Murakami wrote such a sentence: The value of life is like the wind, destined to be lonely all his life, and he cannot stay anywhere he goes.
It's not that we don't want to make friends, it's that we don't have people who can be friends.
Some people contact each other every day and eat and drink together, but it does not mean that they have real feelings. It's good that there are no friends in the world now, and basically all of them are friends of wine and meat.
Some social networking is "useless social", and a group of people themselves have nothing serious to talk about, and all you gain is: a mouth that loves gossip, and a heart that loves to compare.
People live in the world, and it is best to make themselves more comfortable. The circle that does not fit, do not force yourself to fit in. Don't envy how many friends others have, and don't make some hypocritical wine and meat friends in order to appear sociable.
People who are used to being alone, whether they have friends or not, do not force themselves. During the daily break, I read books and listened to music, worked out, and felt very fulfilling.
-03-
In this life, people will encounter all kinds of people, seemingly lively and noisy life, but most of the time is alone.
I've always believed that what you experience or feel when there's only one person is more intense and profound.
Fellini, a well-known Italian director, said: "Being alone is a special ability. Because it can give people an independent space, a freedom. It was a kind of exile of the mind. ”
In the current impetuous and noisy moments, we often patronize the bustle and busyness, rushing and chasing, and forget our original intention. A truly intelligent person won't let "ineffective socializing" take up their time and energy.
In real life, there is such a woman, she does not like to be social, often alone, and there are no friends around. But you can't underestimate them, because the time alone is the best time for a person to self-add.
Such a person can feel full and satisfied in solitude, and people who have reached this state often have experienced a lot and seen through many things.
-04-
Friends are fateful and cannot be deliberately done.
No friend is not terrible, I am afraid of being betrayed by your friends who have taken out your heart and lungs. When you are down, you will know whether your friends are friends or not! People who have experienced the ups and downs of life will no longer invite more people into their lives.
Seeing through the cold of the world, you have to be quiet at home and not go to crowded places to join in the fun.
Bai Luomeiyan:
On the red dust road, walking alone, the green lotus brushed the placket, and the green cloud wet the promise. Mountains and water can be forgotten in pairs, and the sun and the moon can have nothing to do with each other. At this time, it is a person's floating joy, a person's thin water and long stream...! ”
Being alone is a kind of joy, but also a kind of enjoyment.
People who like to be alone, never go with the flow, are not afraid of loneliness, and like to grow comfortably in their own comfortable way.
It is a pleasure to meet you in my writing, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.