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The progress and openness of society have enabled women to get rid of the shackles of foot binding, and married women are no longer like before, and once they talk to men, scandals can spread throughout the village.
Married women may rarely have exquisite makeup and beautiful figures compared to unmarried women, but the mature and intellectual breath emitted by married women will be more attractive to some men.
Therefore, some unruly men, who specifically like to seduce married women.
When faced with the provocation of these men, each woman's choice and performance will be different, and naturally there will be different endings, and truly intelligent women will not let themselves fall, but will only stop in time.
The following two ways to deal with it, if you can do it, naturally you can also win beautiful.
One: cold treatment
Xiao Ya is a delicate person, and she is also very harmonious with people, perhaps because Xiao Ya is funny and humorous, has a good popularity in the company, and male colleagues occasionally joke.
At the company's annual meeting, there was a male colleague with a good relationship who confessed to Xiao Ya through wine.
Xiao Ya refused on the grounds that he was drunk, and after going back, Xiao Ya released a circle of friends to confess her husband, and also matched it with a photo of the two, wanting to make male colleagues retreat, as for the contact at work, Xiao Ya is also as small as possible.
Since then, male colleagues have not acted excessively, and they have remained silent when they are forced to meet.
The feelings of adults are not to confess failure and disappear from the sea of people. Forced by many practical reasons, married women cannot make their words clear in the face of provocateurs, and the rejection of adults is mostly in each other's hearts.
Married women face men's provocations, and before refusing, they always have to weigh the pros and cons and think about how to reject with dignity. Cold treatment may be a common choice for married women to reject men, so that men can retreat from difficulties and preserve each other's dignity.
Cold treatment is also a relatively undeserved way of refusal, if the confessed person has an interest relationship with himself, so that the rejection will not become the opposite even if the relationship cannot be maintained.
Two: Resolutely refuse
Feng Qian is a full-time wife, in addition to picking up her children to kindergarten every day, the rest of the time is to buy vegetables, cook and clean the home, of course, more importantly, dress yourself.
Every time Feng Qian went to pick up the child, she dressed up brightly, which also made many Bao Dads look sideways. In the parent group, Feng Qian also spoke enthusiastically.
There is a student's parents, through the group chat to add Feng Qian as a friend, but also often create some chance encounters. Of course, Feng Qian sensed that it was different, so when the parent was looking for herself on the chat software, she did not refuse, but induced the parent to confess to her.
After Feng Qian received the confession message, she resolutely refused to delete her friend, and later never met the parent again.
Married women who are smart enough, if they suspect that men are interested in themselves, they will not pick out themselves first, but give each other the opportunity to explain it, and then leave no room to refuse.
This choice is generally made because married women don't want to give the provocateurs room to fantasize, or they don't want to give gossip a chance to sprout.
Women get along with certain members of the opposite sex and cannot tolerate other possibilities. Inducing confession, resolute refusal, and careful evidence collection are the means of self-protection for married women.
After all, not all men are dancing boys, and it is difficult to guarantee that there will be such things as destroying each other's families because they can't get them. Just like Feng Qian, she and the provocateur are both parents of students, and the appearance of any scandal is not conducive to the physical and mental development of children.
In order to make herself more childlike, married women must not only stifle the reverie of the provocateur, but also use reasonable means to protect their rights and interests. After all, the reputation of a married woman is about more than just herself.
Being liked and being pampered can be understood as a proof of their own charm, but if you cross the line, you can't grasp the sense of proportion and boundary that you should have, and the result will only be a lose-lose situation.
This is the understanding that every married woman should have, see it early, stop it early, in order to minimize the harm.
Marriage is so long, there are always stumbles, just like the husband and wife hiking in the wild, there are always some flowers and grasses on the road, do not make nostalgia to continue to move forward, in order to go to the end of a life together, to achieve the promise of each other.
The provocateurs who appear in marriage, the married woman only kicks away when he is a stumbling block in marriage. This stumbling block is also a touchstone for marriage, and the choice of married women is directly related to the longevity and quality of marriage.
Married women who refuse to seduce and are loyal to marriage can be happy to the end.
I hope that every woman will not take chances, test on the edge of mistakes, and the happiness at hand is what you should really grasp, otherwise you may not be able to bear such a price.
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