When people reach middle age, they are not forced to leave their elderly parents

This year, the epidemic situation in Zhengzhou was superimposed, and I did not return to my hometown for more than 10 months, and I did not see my father and mother for more than 10 months.

When I first returned to my hometown some time ago, my father, who was suffering from Alzheimer's disease, did not know me, could not call me and my husband's name, and could not see any expression of emotion on his face.

That feeling, really good heart-

I touched my father's forehead with my forehead, my cheek pressed against my father's cheek, staring into my father's eyes, and shouting, "Daddy, Daddy..."

My father looked at me indifferently, and then slowly lowered his head, arched his body into a big C,, sat in a chair tailored by his mother for his father, and mechanically hit his never-ending nap...

In those days, the eye sockets were filled with tears several times, but each time I choked back, and I didn't dare to flow out for fear that my mother would be upset.

Out of my mother's house, the tears will not help but fall.

I don't know how much patience the mother took and what methods were used to awaken the father's memory of his daughter.

These two days, my father would occasionally call out my name vaguely when I asked him "Who am I?" and would wave goodbye to me when I left my mother's house.

I'm a person who doesn't want to regret what I've done in the past, because regret means I'm wrong.

Regret will fall into deep self-blame: why did you know this in the first place?

Thinking about leaving the old father and mother after the Spring Festival, there will be a surge of bitterness in my heart...

Parents are here, not far away.

Although there is still half a sentence "you must have a party" to follow, it is just a helpless psychological comfort.

Although parents do not need their children to do anything, they know that their children will be at ease when they are around, and those who are children will be at ease.

Being able to feel at ease is the most important prerequisite for maintaining inner peace, and peace of mind is also the most relaxed and comfortable emotion in the process of life.

When people reach middle age, it is not a last resort, and it is best not to stay away from their elderly parents.