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Host Lu Yu said: "I believe that what has happened is the only thing that will happen, so there is no need to struggle. Life is the same destination, but this process, I always have to toss. ”
There are many choices in life, but no matter which one you choose, you are destined to meet some people and be separated from some people. It's yours, you can't hide, it's not yours, carrying a lantern to look for it, and you can't find it.
Instead of hiding bitterly, it is better to take the initiative to greet, whether the ending is separation, or not to give up, it does not matter, experienced, painful heart, will also be unforgettable.
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The 1998 version of the British film "Two-Faced Lover" made people afraid of fate and believed in fate again.
The heroine of the story, Helen, was originally a public relations manager of a company and had a boyfriend who loved her very much.
One day, Helen walked up to the company early in the morning and found herself fired. Lost in spirits, she walked to the subway and prepared to go home.
The boyfriend pinched Helen's time to come home and asked his ex-girlfriend to come to the house for a party.
Helen pushed open the door and saw the most shameful scene of her boyfriend. Heartbroken, she turned around and went out the door, got drunk at the bar, and then chose to let go.
Luckily, Helen met the man James on the subway home. The two men chatted very closely, and James encouraged Helen to cheer up.
After Helen left her boyfriend, James was together, and everything slowly got better.
The second version of the story: Helen is delayed for a while in the stairwell because she is hiding from a little girl. As a result, she missed the subway. Reluctantly, she hitchhiked home, and on the way she was robbed and beaten.
Helen came home and her boyfriend was very distressed to see her injured. In order to live, Helen wronged herself and went to the restaurant to serve dishes and wash dishes.
Boyfriend and ex-girlfriend, have always been in love. In order to drive away Helen, a third party took the initiative to appear and expose the "underground situation".
Helen was heartbroken and had to go to the hospital to secretly beat up the child. Just as she dragged her weak body out of the hospital, she met James, and the beautiful love began.
Regardless of the version of the story, Helen met James and discovered the shameful side of her boyfriend.
Zhang Ailing said: "In the tens of millions of people to meet the people you met, in the tens of millions of years, in the endless wilderness of time, there is no step earlier, there is no step later, just caught up, then there is no other word to say, only a soft question: Oh, are you also here?" ”
Fate is really wonderful, you love or not love, that person will wait for you; you come or not, that person is there. No one knows who you will meet at the next stop, but you will definitely meet someone who will meet you, hold hands, go all the way, and never look back.
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People who are destined to be lost, even if they meet and amaze the time, are useless.
In the movie "Journey to the West", supreme treasure fell in love with caixia fairy, but they had no chance to be together. Because in the beginning, the person the Supreme Treasure loved was Bai Jingjing. No matter how magical the moonlight treasure box in the play is, it cannot complete love.
More importantly, the Supreme Treasure itself is Sun Wukong, and he must follow the Tang monks and go to the Western Heavens to learn the scriptures.
I love the line: "An inadvertent decision may change your life – believe it or not." ”
On the road of life, there will be many intersections, to the left, or to the right. Every choice you make will make you miss and what will make you get, no one can say clearly, but you are doomed not to lose "love".
First, people who never forget, missed, will be reunited.
The ancients said: "Sometimes there must be a fate, and there is no time to demand it in fate." ”
Sometimes, we meet someone on the street and have a crush on each other. I really regret why I didn't leave contact information in the first place and didn't take the initiative to say a few words to him.
Just when you were confused, that person appeared again. No matter how many people he has around him, you can see him at a glance – that's what you love.
Like James in Two-Faced Lover, he seems to have been in Helen's life and never left. However, he was destined to appear after Helen was injured.
If Helen met James in her first relationship, she would often be separated because she was "too childish". Fate dissipated. Therefore, if you encounter it later, you will cherish it more.
The best way to make fate never disappear is "the belief of missing, worrying, and loving."
Second, people who are doomed to be unlucky, desperately together, will also be separated.
As the saying goes, "It's better to come early than to be coincidental." ”
Many campus couples, after graduating from college, break up. Bifen clan, there are really a lot. After all, each other is too naïve to know how to balance between life and love.
Of course, there are also some people who arrive a step late. After marriage, when you meet people who meet and hate each other late, even if they are bitterly entangled, it is useless. After all, in the world of love, there are responsibilities and families.
Third, love or not love, do not have to force, just go with the flow.
Lu Yu said: "No matter how you choose, you can't escape something called fate." ”
No one knows what fate is, but at a certain age, you will believe in its existence.
The old patriarch told us that fifty know the destiny of heaven. Isn't that the case?
Don't bother, no matter how the fate develops, you must have a grateful heart, thank you for all the encounters. Those who come, to greet, and those who want to leave, do not send them far away, and do not stop them.
If you don't tie your fate to any one person, you will be very free and will be with someone who truly loves you.
Fourth, who you are, you will meet who, be a better version of yourself, there must be no mistake.
How to grasp the fate? The best thing to do is to actively change yourself.
Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped. No matter how many people there are in the world, there will not be many people who can be related to you. You want to be in love with "who" for the rest of your life, and you have to smell like him.
Marriage, pay attention to the door to the door; husband and wife, need to be evenly matched.
If you are a weed, you will meet wildflowers; if you are a big tree, you will encounter a forest; you are a grain of sand, either a sand or a desert.
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To love or not to love is predestined.
Rhonda Byrne writes in The Secret: "When thought is concentrated in a certain field, people, things, and things related to this field are attracted to it. ”
Two people who have never known each other, attract each other, not out of thin air, but the rules of interpersonal communication, which are also determined by your magnetic field.
If you love someone with all your heart, there is no unsuccessful. If the other party rejects you, it is not that he does not look up to you, but that you are different from his magnetic field, or that you are not good enough in front of him, and the magnetic field is not strong enough.
Don't worry, everything is fixed.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.