There are four concubines in the academic community, and Qian Lulu deserves it.
When it comes to self-esteem, we never have a good impression. This role is not fabricated, but it really exists in history, and the Shang Dynasty also declined because of it.
Although there is a lot of wild history in the description of DaiJi, film and television dramas are also remade in various ways. But I have to say that there is no wind and no waves, and I am "red face and bad water"!
Academic "Daiji": from ordinary undergraduates to professors of world famous universities
The reason why Qian Lulu can live in one of the four academic concubines is because she has both academic ability and "charm" ability, and now with her province where caltech is a tenured professor, it is easy to attract everyone's attention.
Is she a rare beauty bully? Is it going to have another impact on our three views? It was only after we went on with many questions that we realized that her true talent and practical learning were debatable.
Because when she took the college entrance examination, she was only admitted to a medical school at the bottom of the ranking, and when she was about to graduate from the university, by luck, her school was merged by the 985 university, and it was simply stained.
Maybe this is the beginning of her life! Subsequently, she married her first husband in order to succeed in her graduate school. After the success of the examination, he immediately dumped this husband.
Then she empathized with the school grass of the graduate school, which could provide her with various opportunities to attend public occasions, but the good times did not last long, and it was still at the end of the road.
In order to successfully obtain a doctorate in biochemistry and molecular biology from Shanghai Jiaotong University, she married her third husband. But the husband still made a wedding dress for someone else, that is, a Nobel Prize winner, or a professor at the California Institute of Technology.
After marrying him, Qian Lulu naturally continued to enjoy the infinite glory brought to her by her husband. Although she is not academically clueless, she must not be able to reach this height with her own efforts.
Behind the success is the confusion of the concept of marriage
Only people who really know Qian Lulu know how dirty she is. Although the marriage of this matter, is the lang has a concubine intention, one is willing to beat one wish to be beaten. But isn't it still Qian Lulu's trick to get it?
Moreover, when we sympathize with her former husband, should we think of something from Qian Lulu? Regarding the concept of marriage and the concept of mate selection.
Qian Lulu's original family is actually very happy, her father is a domestic military and political field has a status, from childhood to receive a very orthodox "militarized" education, as long as she can grow up healthily, the family property is enough to support her for a lifetime.
But it is because her father's discipline is too strict, always forcing Qian Lulu to do some difficult things, which makes Qian Lulu always fall into frustration, and finally choose to embark on the road of scientific research, just to prove it like her father.
But her ability alone could not make her father stunned, so she played to the advantages of women, using marriage as her springboard, step by step to success.
Therefore, we may be able to understand Qian Lulu a little now! The reason why she became like this is that her father's educational concept is wrong. If my father hadn't been so old-fashioned and strict, things wouldn't have been so bad.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
The impact of the child's original family on the child can be described as permanent and irreversible, do not feel that the child is still young, do not understand anything, the parents will speak without a cover.
In this way, the child cannot tell whether the parents are complaining or really angry. They will only stop everything on themselves and internalize it into an emotion of self-blame.
Over time, if this negative emotion cannot be resolved, it is very detrimental to the child's inner growth. They have low self-esteem, autism, and even depression. The incidence of these childhood diseases has skyrocketed in recent years.
The growth of children, parents must not be absent
Alternating strict kindness and making rules for children
Usually, most of the strict role players in the family are fathers, and the father does not smile and is born with a decent face, which is simply appropriate.
In fact, the most reasonable strict role should be the mother. Because the mother is too gentle and spoils the child, the child is 3 times more likely to go astray than the opposite situation.
A relaxed and pleasant environment is more conducive to growth
In a relaxed environment, children are more likely to open their hearts, even if it is a big sesame big thing that happens in kindergarten, they want to share it with their parents, and what they are most looking forward to is the reaction of their parents.
Because after the child initiates communication, parents must respond to it before it can be called effective communication, if the child unilaterally confides, no more than 3 times, the child will pay close attention to the door, and even the illusion that parents do not love themselves.
Today's Topic:
Will your child be willing to whisper to you? Or is it better with you, or with your partner?