I have previously brushed a video of a man who wants to jump into the river and live a light life. Before jumping, he called the local firefighting department, hoping that someone could come over and retrieve the body. Although there was no reason for this behavior, fortunately the man was eventually rescued from the water by firefighters.
After watching the video, I was thinking, everyone has a time when they can't think about it, if they can't think of it at a certain point, who will I call in the end? After thinking about it for a while, I sadly found that there was no one there, and then I thought that those who couldn't open it, the reason for calling the police and firefighters might be the same as mine, they actually had attachments to the world, but the psychological pressure at that time was really beyond their ability to bear.
Everyone's suffering is different, in fact, no one is qualified to teach others, there may be suffering in others is not a thing, but at that time, the parties just can't think, and what we should do is to listen attentively and give them love words.
I don't know if anyone else remembers the Korean female entertainer Shirley, a girl from '94, who chose to leave this world at the age of 25. I like to watch the variety show "Running Man" because I like it, so I have a certain understanding of her, and I have the impression that she is so cheerful, I didn't expect to actually come to this step.
To be reasonable, as a star, eating and drinking is not worrying, some people will not understand why she wants to take this step, what obstacles can life not pass? But the feelings between people are not the same, we have not experienced her growth and experience, so we have no qualifications to point out her life.
For those who have gone, I have only regrets. In fact, I have always disliked telephone communication, I don't like to call others, and I don't like to answer the phone. Now think about it, such a habit is really not very good, someone calling you to talk to the heart, may be to take you as his life-saving straw, the phone you pick up may be a human life. Think of it this way, when you pick up each phone call, can your tone be better, even if the other party is selling goods, if you don't want to listen, just hang up, there is no need to scold that ugly word.
It's not easy for everyone to live, and our current emotions can be transmitted to others, so when the phone rings, think of it as a thing to save other people's lives, you can temporarily put down the unimportant things you are doing, answer the call, maybe this is really someone else asking you for help.