one.
That day, I met my long-lost cousin and cousin at a relative's house. Because of the nature of our work, we are also connected from time to time. Know more about the marriage between cousin and cousin than they know. The two of them had an unprecedented tacit understanding, that is, never mention divorce.
It turns out that people with different views can always seek common ground while reserving differences. This "difference" is nothing more than "the right of the two interests to take the heavier, and the two evils to take the lighter." But it was uncomfortable to see the sweetness of their apparent love. But people act to show you, and you don't look at it and don't seem polite enough.
This reminds me of the picture associated with The Perfect Companion. Aren't unhappy families all similar?
two.
Outside, both husband and wife have given up on emotional management. The direct appearance is really a bit jaw-dropping. Moreover, it can be seen that they are most likely to be in the same bed and have different dreams. Living under the same roof like this, you don't look up and you don't see what you look down. You say, where is there any happiness to speak of?
But the cousin once made it clear: "I don't want a divorce, the cost of divorce is too expensive." Open marriage is not bad, anyway, about three chapters of the law. You can play any way, but you can't play with extramarital affairs. As for love or not, does it matter? Marriage, plain and simple. The most afraid is not to be ordinary, but also to love vigorously. Sorry, I can't accompany you. ”
Yes, I don't even want to accompany my acting in front of my relatives and friends. What is the point of maintaining it?
three.
some.
First: potential rules.
This is the most traditional habit of Chinese, that is, "it is better to demolish a temple than to demolish a marriage." Others try not to do it, where is the reason for their own personal demolition of the wall? Others whisper the most, and they will never jump up and stand up to expose your hypocrisy.
With such acquiescence, as long as there is no divorce. But people's emotions and attitudes cannot be hidden. Seemingly in harmony with god has become the final bottom line. You stubbornly hold on, and you have to vent.
The underlying rule is not just "accomplice". It's the most beautiful fig leaf for yourself, but that's the way it is. You don't say it, I don't say it, just like that for a lifetime.
Second: reduce change.
People have a kind of inertia, and this inertia is that they don't like to change. Pull the whole body together, especially divorce. The cost is staggeringly high, and minutes are more expensive than the cost of getting married.
Since you can't cross it, you don't bother to get a divorce. At first, it was able to whitewash the peace, but over time it became another habit. It is very good to be away from god, and it is not convenient for careful people to find any problems; people who do not care, only see "appearance" and cannot detect "god away" at all.
As long as you don't disrupt the rules of daily life, as long as you don't change the habits of daily life. Why divorce, more is better than less.
Finally: maximize profits.
Couples who seem to be separated from each other are not unaware of the dangers of marriage. They do not move in order to maximize their interests. A home, everything has to be spent. If divorced, it would be two people and two families — and two cents. No abacus, you'll know it's not very economical.
Maximizing benefits is that husband and wife are together. They have a common goal of struggle, so the fundamental interests are the same. So why not "1+1>2"? Love is dispensable, at least not all the losses in the economy. Divorce, that simply can't achieve this goal. What about the appearance of the gods? Without dropping a piece of meat, everyone and harmony can also cover up the emotional status quo of the couple. (Text/Drifting Yu tong)
END。
"The Perfect Companion", the name is very ironic. What's perfect? It's more of a day-to-day, year-to-year ordeal.
Yes, the long is the tribulation, the short is life. Looking at the former goddess Gao Yuanyuan, what else can I say. Marriage, do and cherish!
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