Everyone will have their own way of life.
Sinclair Lewis once said, "The most important part of life is not life itself, but thinking about life." ”
For leftover women, choosing a smart lifestyle can be far away from the sadness of "leftover women" and have the initiative in life.
What does a good lifestyle look like for leftover women?
1. Make money
Someone once said, "If you can't give me a lot of love, give me a lot of money."
For the leftover women, these are all on their own
Cher is a 30-year-old girl who is still single. After graduating from university, she went to Beijing to develop. Living in that city, the pressure was so great that she didn't have the time and energy to think about anything else, but was preoccupied with her work, and when she had more cash in her hand, she found herself in her early thirties.
However, her life experience made her understand that in the secular world, economically independent people can only talk about feelings in love. She felt that as long as she lived a confident life, her age was only a number.
There is a saying in "Beauty State": "Leftover women are not terrible, what is terrible is that leftover women do not have Money." ”
Sentient beings are full of water, which shows that the power of love is really great.
Poor couples are lamenting, telling us that the economic foundation determines the quality of life of couples.
When you have not yet met love, try to make money, and when love appears, you have the capital to cling to it.
2. Become beautiful
There are many forms of beauty: external beauty, inner beauty, and beauty emanating from the inside out.
Beauty has to do with age, and it has nothing to do with age.
Lin Qingxuan once said: "Third-rate makeup is makeup on the face, second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup, and first-class makeup is the makeup of life."
35-year-old Bing'er, in the eyes of many people, she is actually only 30 years old. Her face is not to let people see the vicissitudes, but to exude the charm of experience.
Ten years ago, Bing Er was a big grinning, informal person, and ten years later, she became a person with a solemn demeanor and a generous demeanor.
Bing Er is actually not a person with a beautiful skin bag, but she has an interesting soul. She loves to read and travel, these hobbies she has been insisting on, so that she will not become old and faded by the passage of time.
Little S once said: "There are no ugly women, only lazy women".
We can't compete with time, but we can enrich ourselves.
If no one loves, you have to love yourself even more. People who won't love themselves, others won't love you.
Before you love others, love yourself and invest in yourself.
3. Believe in love
Love can make people's blood boil, make people forget the time, and make people fight for themselves.
Song Xiaoyan, who is now 29 years old, is still alone. When she was in her twenties, she felt that she was in a relatively chaotic state, still blank in her career, and a little confused about the future, at that time, she did not have the heart to think about love.
When she gained a foothold in her work and became more and more clear about her future, she found herself about to turn 30.
Due to his increasing control over his own life, Song Xiaoyan also has a new understanding of love. In her opinion, when you are financially independent and have seen the world, you will have more confidence to talk about feelings, and life has just begun.
There are only the right feelings to get married, not to get married because of age.
Love is the bond of marital happiness, confident girls, who dare to look forward to love and dare to believe in love.
May we all strive to grow into sparkling people, regardless of age and time.
