This is the first meeting of a man and a woman.
In less than half an hour of meeting, two things happened.
One thing is that the boy fell in love with the girl at first sight, nervous to the point of blushing and sweating...
And the other thing was that he had to take off his pants in front of her...
This embarrassing scene appeared in this Thai comedy movie: "In Love Diagnosis"
Ah Yong, 30, is a retoucher.
Do not pick jobs, never drag the draft, do not intimidate customers, the industry is recognized as a reliable worker.
Legend has it that there is no figure that he can't figure out.
Put the chest P big, put the belly P small, put the legs P thin P long... In his view, these are routine operations, even the strange requirements of "colorful black".
For example, this time to hand over the map, the customer looked left and right, not very satisfied, only said: can be a little taller...
As we all know, 90% of the customer's fathers do not know what they want, anyway, they feel bad, and they can't say what is bad, and they can never give specific advice.
But what they say is strikingly similar: What to do, it's your responsibility, not mine. In short, it should be fast and good!
At this time, Ah Yong rushed to the front: I can...
In the conference room of the client's company, covered with a blackout cloth, he can immediately enter the working state...
An hour later, the customer came back, stared at the remodeled graph for five minutes, and spat out three words: I like it!
This is where Ah Yong's lies.
There is a reason why Ah Yong can become the benchmark of the industry: he does not recognize his relatives when he works, and he sleeps and forgets to eat.
My friend's father came out of the funeral, he held the computer to attend the funeral, only to say a few words, he asked: What is the WiFi password here, I want to pass a picture.
My friend almost didn't beat him up.
Ah Yong also has an important ability: not sleeping.
Staying up for one or two overnight in a hurry is a common thing, and he has tried not to sleep for up to 5 days...
If Ah Yong were in China, he would definitely have a deep resonance with that famous saying: Why should he sleep for a long time before he dies, and sleep after he dies.
Lately, however, he felt that something was wrong with his body.
First there were two acne on the back of the neck, then the fingers, the arms, and then a few days later, small acne spread all over the body, and it was extremely itchy...
Itching to the point of not being able to continue working, Ah Yong plucked up enough courage to go to the hospital.
A young female doctor did a detailed examination for him and concluded that he was allergic.
She gave Ah Yong four suggestions: 1, take medicine on time, 2, avoid seafood, 3, go to bed before nine o'clock, and 4, exercise for half an hour every day.
Ah Yong was anxious to hear it: the last time Lao Tzu went to bed before 9 o'clock was in the third grade of primary school! Are there any specific drugs? As soon as I eat it, I don't have time to exercise...
The doctor shrugged it off: You're weak and exploded, you know? If you continue like this, you will be ruined.
Out of the treatment room, the doctor's words are like the wind in the ear, and in a moment they disappear...
But the beauty and seriousness of the other party made Ah Yong a little ghostly.
He actually began to look forward to the follow-up consultation next month...
The Thai movie "In Love" was released in 2015 and was the Thai box office champion that year. Douban score 7.7, personally feel low, should be on the 8 points.
This small-budget movie, the actors come and go back and forth, there are not many scene changes, but it tells a wonderful and interesting story.
Some netizens commented: Handheld cameras, a large number of monologues, with a small but real daily life as the starting point, dissecting urban diseases, work attitudes, lifestyles and love feelings. You work overtime desperately, you see death as if you were dead before The Deadline, and as work gradually merges with life, all you feel is the helplessness of your body being hollowed out.
Although this film is about the daily life of young people in Thailand, we are definitely not strangers.
Busy is the norm for workers today.
How busy is Ah Yong?
Almost no socializing, no entertainment, no exercise, three meals a day in convenience stores to solve, even sick to see a doctor, are still on the phone to deal with customers...
There are many details in the film that resonate with the beaters, which makes people laugh.
For example, if you have acne on your body and don't have time to see a doctor, you should check the Internet first.
The result, of course, is a terminal illness, and first scare yourself half to death.
For example, when you go to the hospital to register for medical treatment, the queue is huge.
While waiting for the call, Ah Yong was irritable: his mother's, in these few hours, I can P out 20 acne, P big 30 pairs of breasts...
People who don't have enough time are always reluctant to waste every minute.
For example, the doctor checked Ah Yong, he lifted his clothes, revealing his belly...
True large social death scene.
At this time, his inner OS: I knew to do more sit-ups...
After several follow-up visits, Ah Yong's feelings for the female doctor gradually warmed up, and he even planned to change his original lifestyle.
But this is not easy, Ah Yong, like most of us, has been psychologically constructed for a long time, and the actual action is about equal to zero.
Spend a lot of money to get a fitness card, but turn around and leave. exercise? Next time.
Bought brand new sneakers, quickly took photos and sent circles of friends, but actually did not wear them and ran over...
But just getting a card and buying shoes is enough to give the illusion in my heart: I have begun to be healthy.
Finally made up my mind to exercise, the result of a practice is wasted, exercise for an hour, legs are sore for a week, even the stairs can not climb ... Perfect interpretation of "from entry to abandonment".
Finally made up his mind to go to bed early, the result of the biological clock did not cooperate, in bed to turn over, upset, the brain constantly flashed unhandled work, opened his eyes for 7 hours...
Even when I go out on vacation, I can't put down my work.
In the face of the beautiful scenery, Ah Yong's heart could not really relax, and he thought: How can these people stay at the beach for a day without doing anything? How boring!
Ah Yong is a workaholic who has forced himself into his life and only has a job left. It was his personal choice, but it was also due to the circumstances.
In these years, one of the most common words mentioned by workers is: anxiety.
Where do anxieties come from?
From the hard-earned salary, see a sick, brush off;
From one night without looking at the phone, there were 57 missed calls, all related to work...
Young talents from the industry are emerging, and they inadvertently say: You are old, you can't stay up
From the circle of friends sent by peers late at night: Chinese New Year's Eve also work overtime, burning my life, five nights without rest...
From constantly someone saying to you, 996 is a blessing, you don't want to do it, and a lot of people behind you are lining up to want to do it...
Don't workers know the importance of health?
Just to survive, we exhaust our physical and mental strength to the limit, quickly close our eyes, recover our strength, and then quickly get up and continue to work...
So, isn't it okay to bring down the rhythm of life?
Where do we dare to rest, because the hand stops, because we are afraid of not being able to keep up with the times, afraid of being abandoned by our peers as soon as we wander, afraid that we are not motivated enough, and bring children a life of humility...
The film begins with a subtitle: Science suggests that everyone should sleep six to eight hours a day.
Ah Yong can't do it, I can't do it, you in front of the mobile phone screen, you may not be able to do it...
In 2020, a survey by the China Sleep Research Association showed that more than 300 million Chinese had sleep disorders, which were manifested as late sleep, insomnia, lack of sleep, and low sleep quality.
Among them, young people represented by the post-00s, post-95s and post-90s have more and more prominent sleep problems.
In 2018, 24.9% of the population had regular insomnia; by 2019, the proportion of frequent insomnia had increased to 36.1%.
In 2019, the proportion of people who suffered from insomnia of 3 or more times per week after 90 nearly doubled compared with 2018.
In addition, the post-90s generation slept the most, and the average time to fall asleep was after midnight.
Another "China Hair Loss Population Survey" is also very telling: China's hair loss population is about 250 million, mainly between 20-40 years old, the fastest development around 30 years old, a full 20 years earlier than the previous generation of hair loss age.
That is to say, "the first post-90s have long been bald" is not alarmist.
Life is fast-paced, work is so busy, we don't have much time to keep for ourselves, and everything is particularly urgent, even watching movies, we have to double the speed.
Many of us, just like that, have spent our lives in a hurry.
Ah Yong finally fell to the ground exhausted after staying up late for many days, and he felt that he was about to die...
At that moment, he remembered that there were still many things he had not done:
Promised to help my mother repair the photo, but never moved;
Never see a friend's child born again;
Never again can ask a friend to play badminton;
I can no longer confess to the female doctor and say "I'm sorry"...
We are always too panicked and too impatient to pass through the world, too late to appreciate the blooming of the flowers on the side of the road, too late to carefully distinguish the birds and insects, too late to look at every face we meet...
But I forget that enjoying the sun and rain, climbing the mountain and swimming the sea, experiencing the four seasons, reading and listening to songs, meeting interesting souls, and spending long and happy times with loved ones are the most important things in life.
Perhaps, it is not that we have forgotten, this is the reality of our helplessness.