A high school class teacher in Leling City, Shandong Province, saw a girl in the class wearing breast breasts and thick makeup, she just a few words, the girl was willing to change back to her original appearance!
Shortly after the start of school, the class teacher noticed that one of the girls in the class had dyed her hair different colors, sprayed with rich perfume, and dressed in revealing clothes.
The class teacher held a theme class meeting first, and particularly emphasized the need to dress according to the "Code of Daily Conduct for Secondary School Students".
But after the class meeting, the girl still went her own way.
On this day, the girl sent homework to the class teacher's office, and the class teacher had a clever move and asked the girl: Do you think my permed hair looks good?
The girl smiled and said, good looking, look very young!
The class teacher was very happy: your permed hair was also good-looking, and you looked very mature. Looks about the same age as me. At our age, we perm and dye our hair in order to look young, because our youth has been lost, and you are young, deliberately groomed, but it looks tacky, looking much older than the actual age, without the aura and beauty of youth.
The girl blushed and embarrassed to tell the class teacher that one of her classmates who worked at the barber shop had ironed and dyed her, and she would dye it back when she returned.
The class teacher tapped the girl's shoulder and continued to hit the iron while it was hot: your classmate also wanted you to be more beautiful, but he did not find that you would be more beautiful if you did not add ironing. Well, don't compare beauty to my old lady.
When the girl returned the next day, she regained her former black straightness.
The class teacher saw her and smiled with relief.
@ Happy Parenting Communication is really an art! I really admire the wit of this class teacher.
If the class teacher strictly prohibits girls from burning, girls may have rebellious psychology, may have emotions, and the incident may develop in the opposite direction that the teacher hopes.
The class teacher uses reverse thinking and uses the intermediary of "Bimei" to follow the good examples of students, and finally achieves the purpose of education.
The class teacher's approach also gives parents who have adolescent children a revelation that for adolescent children, communication should be respectful and not powerful. #这才是家庭教育 #