Oh my god! Why?

People often ask in life: "In the life of a child, is it the mother who has a great influence on their future, or the father who is bigger?" ”

The answer is what, I don't say.

But this question reminds me of a bridge that happens in every family, a phenomenon that occurs in thousands of families, and it is also the most common scene in daily life. It is also a relatively popular part of a short video platform now.

Without further ado, let's look down:

When the child came home from school, his father opened the door and changed his shoes while shouting "Mom, I'm back!" ”

The dad was displeased and said, "Am I air?" Standing in front of you, you didn't see? Get out and start over!"

The child didn't say anything, walked out the door, knocked again, the father opened the door for him, he looked at the father: "Dad, what about my mother?" Mom~~"

See? In the small view of the big, the status of the mother in the child's heart is very high. To some extent, this also reflects that the influence of mothers on children is incomparable to that of any one person, including fathers!

As a mother, it is fate and responsibility for your child to call you a mother.

As a mother, you are the god in the eyes of your child, dependent, and infatuated.

Since we have chosen the role of mother, we should spend our whole lives playing the mother in the child's heart.

The whole of the child's infancy and childhood is spent with the mother a lot of times. From this point of view, the formation of children's outlook on life and values is inseparable from the quality of their mothers!

Therefore, I want to let my children go better and farther in the future! We must do this mom well!

The question is, what do we need to pay attention to as mothers in the development of our children?

First, if you want to educate people, first cultivate yourself.

Being yourself is the first step to being a good mother. When a mother is independent, confident, optimistic, fun, and has a full and orderly life, your child has been living with you and he will not be bad. You know, children's nature is to imitate learning! Subtle, you get the idea! As a mother, you have taken care of yourself, that is, you have got the child and the whole world!

Second, take one's own body and guess the other's intentions.

Learn to think differently. You are a mother, but also a friend, a teacher. In the process of getting along with children, we can't always put ourselves on the highest point, and criticize the child's no, what is wrong here and there, and so on. This will only make the child farther and farther away from us, and in the end, it will be half the work and the gain will not be worth the loss. When dealing with children' affairs, we should think from their point of view, think about what you would do if you were in his position, and come up with a suitable opinion. Only in this way can you get the respect and recognition of your child.

Third, can play, can play.

Children in the growth stage, without exception, are more playful. Play is the most resonant moment for mothers and children, in play, children will learn to be close to nature, take care of the weak, will learn to observe, learn to think, will learn to get along with people, learn to treat people and things... We must understand that many, many excellent qualities of children are slowly accumulated in play.

Being a good mother is not simple, the child is changing, we also have to keep up with their pace, always keep pace with the times, constantly improve, and be a child again and grow up with them.