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In ancient times, there were two great thinkers, Mencius and Xunzi, who had different views on the nature of man, one was the famous theory of sexual goodness, and the other advocated the theory of sexual evil.
Which of these two genres is more supportive to parents? The answer is obvious, most people will not admit that they were born as a curse.
But in fact, some people are born with full of malice, cute on the surface, but devils behind their backs.
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A few days ago, a kindergarten stall in Kunming, Yunnan Province, had a stall, according to the parents reported to the police, their 3-year-old daughter was slapped by the kindergarten teacher, and even punished "eating dung"!
The other children in the kindergarten also all stood up and accused the kindergarten teacher of what he had done, and for a time, the kindergarten and the kindergarten teacher were pushed to the cusp!
★ Kunming's 3-year-old "drama girl" lied about being punished by the teacher for "eating dung", and the child's malice was full
The 3-year-old girl lied that she was punished by the teacher to "eat feces" in the toilet because she did not eat well and listen to lectures.
When her mother learned of this, she was very angry, and she felt that the child's mind could not lie, so she ran to the school and slapped the teacher five times, and at the same time reported it to the local police for investigation.
When the police arrived at the scene, they also questioned the other children in the kindergarten, and at this time, the other children also stood up, and they said in unison:
"Yes, we also saw him being punished by the teacher for eating feces in the toilet."
"I saw it twice!"
So the police opened a case to investigate, adjusted the monitoring in the kindergarten, and finally confirmed that the kindergarten teacher did not threaten the 3-year-old girl to eat feces, which also means that the 3-year-old girl is lying, and other children are also "colluding".
★The 3-year-old "drama girl" can be called a contemporary "bad breed", is this a growth law or a demonic possession?
There is a movie in the United States called "Bad Seed", which tells the story of a perfect family of three going down to collapse.
Christine has an eight-year-old daughter named Rhoda, who is cute and well-behaved and polite, and is the pride of Christine's heart.
However, once she accidentally discovered that her daughter had a secret hidden in her, and after her classmates at school accidentally drowned, Rhoda did not show any fear, but showed a happy look.
It is not until later that Christine discovers that Rhoda is the murderer, but the kind mother does not make up her mind to catch her daughter, which also leads to continuous tragedies.
Rhoda burned her servant to death, and mistakenly made her mother kill herself with a gun, all signs that she was born with the genes of an evil person.
In the hearts of parents, children are pure like a blank piece of paper, but it turns out that this is just a stereotype of parents, what is going on in their hearts? We don't know anything.
★ Kindergarten kids colluding en masse? This may be the same as the crowd
Seeing this, many parents may feel that the monitoring is unreliable, after all, there is no monitoring installed in the toilet, if the teacher uses the monitoring dead end, will he escape the disaster?
However, it is difficult to have a dead end in the monitoring in the corridor, as long as the teacher and the three-year-old girl go to the toilet at staggered times, there can be no evidence of crime!
Moreover, in order to force children to eat feces, a teacher went around studying the problem of monitoring dead angles, is this worth it? Obviously unreasonable.
When the kindergarten teacher deliberately punishes the child for eating feces and the kindergarten child collectively accuses that there is an unreasonable situation, then there must be one party lying.
It's hard for adults to trick the police, but it's easy for small children because people are always relaxed in the face of children.
In psychology, 3-year-olds have just awakened their self-awareness, they have no logical thinking ability, and they will always be unable to distinguish between reality and illusion.
For example, in "Sister of the Gun Master", Chen Sanyuan and Cheng Feng's son Jia Jia always feel that his father is a "superman", which is unable to distinguish the real situation.
When the 3-year-old girl pointed out that she was punished for "eating dung", even if the other children did not see it, they would form this picture in their minds after hearing the testimony, so they began to follow the clouds, and "three people became tigers" came from this.
Children around the age of 3 always lie unconsciously, they do not know what lying is, and they do not know what the consequences will bring, but this is a normal manifestation of mental development.
In a way, we can say this: When children begin to learn to lie, it means that they have begun to grow.
There are many reasons why children lie, whether it is to win the sympathy of others, or to escape from things they don't like, or more likely to unconsciously create reality and put the imaginary world into reality.
However, a three-year-old girl lies unlike other children! The other kindergarten children lied, unconsciously echoing the girl, all trying to show themselves and tell false events.
The three-year-old girl is different, her lies are more realistic, very city government, if the parents are not well disciplined, the future may really become a "bad species".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" > Xuan Dad has something to say</h1>
In life, parents should learn to lead by example for their children and be an honest adult, so that they can be a good example for their children.
At the same time, when parents listen to their children's words, they must learn to distinguish between true and false, if the teacher really did not give the child "eating feces", but the mother slapped five times, is this not a white beating?
Topic of this issue: Do you think this is a child lying, or does the kindergarten teacher have other hidden feelings?
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